Unrelating with Kel & Michelle
Unrelating with Kel & Michelle
Kel & Michelle
Unrelating is an all new podcast that explores relationships, why we do what we do, and what causes people to "un-relate". Join Kelly & Michelle as they talk to real people about the relationship challenges they face and provide an expert to help them sort it all out.Unrelating is hosted by show producer Kelly Beck and relationship expert Michelle Schafer. Michelle is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has been providing individual and couple’s therapy for two decades.  Michelle has her Bachelor’s degree in Biopsychology and Cognitive Science from the University of Michigan and a Master’s in Clinical Psychology, with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy, from Pepperdine. Through her practice, she has seen patterns and themes that connect us as people. Her scientific background will help us learn about the brain mechanisms that influence our behavior.  And her psychology background will help us figure out if we should continue in the relationships we’re in!Follow us on Instagram @unrelatingpocast and be sure to download us on Apple, iHeart, Spotify, Youtube, or wherever you get your podcasts! And if you have a question, comment or would like to be a guest on the show, email us at [email protected]
Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Deep Dive Episode 51: Toxic Paralysis-How We Make Sense Of Our Hardships
Send us Fan Mail In this deep dive for Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Episode 51, Michelle discusses a phrase from Stephen's show on how to conceptualize what happens to us. To ask us a question, suggest a topic or be our next on-air guest, email us at [email protected]. Follow us on Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/unrelatingpodcast/ And download and listen to Unrelating on Apple, Spotify, iHeart, Youtube or wherever you get your podcasts! https://www.unrelatingw...
Jul 10
3 min
Toxic Relationships And Self-Sabotage: Why We Repeat Cycles
Send us Fan Mail Kel & Michelle sit down with Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards, author of the book "The Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies and Repercussions." Based on his personal journey and life lessons, they discuss how chaos can be a catalyst for transformation and why we repeat cycles like toxic relationships and self-sabotage. To ask us a question, suggest a topic or be our next on-air guest, email us at [email protected]. Follow us on Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/unrelat...
Jul 8
57 min
Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Episode 50 Deep Dive: Breaking Free from Mad, Sad, Happy
Send us Fan Mail In this deep dive for Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Episode 50 with author Alicia Barr, Michelle busts out the feelings wheel to help you get to the heart of your true emotions. Find a feelings wheel at https://feelingswheel.com/ Find Alicia Barr at aliciabarr.com and @aliciabarrauthor. To ask us a question, suggest a topic or be our next on-air guest, email us at [email protected]. Follow us on Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/unrelatingpodcast/ ...
Jun 26
4 min
Breaking Free From Your Secrets
Send us Fan Mail We all have secrets. But when is it finally time to tell yours? Kel and Michelle sit down for a thoughtful provoking conversation with Alicia Barr, author of “More Than A Secret” How A Mistress Broke Free From Her Affair". Alicia talks about her affair and the impact it had on her marriage and life, the psychological and physical impact of living in silence, and how to break free and heal from the guilt and shame of our secrets. Find Alicia Barr at aliciabarr.com and @a...
Jun 24
1 hr
Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Deep Dive Episode 49: Running Towards The Finish Line
Send us Fan Mail In this deep dive for Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Episode 49 with Matt Fuchs, we are re-airing our deep dive with therapist Dan Duane. In it, Michelle explores what we can do to be intentional and reflective about our life and death. To ask us a question, suggest a topic or be our next on-air guest, email us at [email protected]. Follow us on Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/unrelatingpodcast/ And download and listen to Unrelating on Apple...
Jun 12
5 min
The Midlife Climax
Send us Fan Mail Are you dreading middle age and getting older? Dread not! Kel and Michelle sit down with author and researcher Matt Fuchs for an insightful conversation about the classic stereotypes and definitions of midlife crisis, what can cause midlife stressors and ways to manage them, how people's identities may change throughout life, and why the midlife crisis has now become a midlife "climax" and a period of happiness and personal growth. Find Matt Fuchs at Prime Factors https://fuc...
Jun 10
1 hr 1 min
Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Episode 48 Deep Dive: Partners in Clarity - How to Balance True Expectations
Send us Fan Mail In this deep dive for Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Episode 48 featuring Maddison Violet, Michelle talks about how helpful it is to be accurate when voicing your expectations. Find Maddison Violet and Ve Oh Lay Winery @veohlayacres And to ask us a question, suggest a topic or be our next on-air guest, email us at [email protected]. Follow us on Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/unrelatingpodcast/ And download and listen to Unrelating on Apple, Spot...
May 29
3 min
Partners In Wine: How To Balance Marriage And A Winery
Send us Fan Mail Have you ever dreamed of calling all the shots? Kel and Michelle sit down with Maddison Violet, owner of Ve Oh Lay Winery and Farm in Summerland, Canada, to discuss how she and her husband followed their dream and started a winery, the secret to staying connected and supporting each other, navigating difficult conversations as co-owners, and advice for couples who work together or are considering starting a business of their own. Find Maddison Violet and Ve Oh Lay Winery @veo...
May 27
58 min
Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Episode 47 Deep Dive: Reimagining The Root Cause
Send us Fan Mail In this deep dive for Unrelating With Kel & Michelle featuring Mark Michaels, Michelle discusses how early relationships impact our attachment to others. In his preprint BINARIES, MULTITUDES, AND BEYOND, available now at markamichaels.com, Mark focuses the lens on his own journey and uses narrative analysis and critique to explore how authority, expertise, and healing are currently defined. https://markamichaels.com/ To ask us a question, suggest a topic or be our next o...
May 15
4 min
Reimagining Therapy
Send us Fan Mail Ready to reimagine how you’re approaching therapy? Kel and Michelle sit down with writer and conceptual artist Mark Michaels to discuss the problems with traditional therapy and why people may feel disillusioned, both the benefits and the limitations of alternative approaches like psychedelics and A.I. assisted therapy, and how growing up in the 1970’s New York punk scene influenced his work, life, and therapeutic journey. In his preprint BINARIES, MULTITUDES, AND BEYON...
May 13
1 hr 6 min
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