You ruined last week’s date with your husband arguing over whether or not your son should quit soccer (it’s too stressful! he has to have those opportunities!). Just to come home with the exact same practice schedule in place (plus another vague “I’ll try to make time to take him” promise). There goes another “fix the family calendar” idea down the drain…. Every time you try to make a concrete change in your family, show up as the “leader,” and advocate for what you want, it gets shut d...