two be honest
two be honest
Amy and Grace Zhang
Welcome to two be honest! Listen in, as Amy and Grace navigate life through candid conversation and weekly revelations. Updated every Sunday! Follow us at Instagram: @twobehonestpod
womanhood
In this episode, we unpack our experience of modern womanhood and the complexities of living in a period of recent social progress. We discuss whether the benefits and harms associated with being a woman stem from the same beliefs, and whether the benefits still come with hidden costs. We then turn to modern dating norms and the transactional elements that can show up across different kinds of relationships. Tune in to hear us explore how these beliefs shape relationships, and what fairness, autonomy, and partnership look like in an evolving world.
Dec 21, 2025
42 min
the use of ai in education
In this episode, we dive into the evolving role of Artificial Intelligence in education. From our own experiences using AI to its growing impact on classrooms across elementary, secondary, and post-secondary levels, we explore how generative AI is reshaping the way we teach and learn. Tune in to hear our thoughts on how AI harms and benefits meaningful learning and how education systems can respond and adapt to the changing landscape of academia!Some sources and further reading:⁠https://hbsp.harvard.edu/inspiring-minds/3-key-lessons-essay-writing-ai⁠⁠https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12078640/⁠https://teaching.cornell.edu/generative-artificial-intelligence/ethical-ai-teaching-and-learninghttps://digileaders.com/future-ai-bias-amplification-algorithmic-determinismhttps://www.unesco.org/en/artificial-intelligence/recommendation-ethicshttps://raffaellopalandri.medium.com/the-epistemology-of-algorithmic-bias-detection-a-multidisciplinary-exploration-at-the-intersection-757209fadb53https://dl.acm.org/doi/fullHtml/10.1145/3630106.3658981
Nov 3, 2025
54 min
making sense of art
In this episode, we dive into the messy, intimidating, and alluring world of art. We talk about what art means to us, how it feels to engage with it without formal training, and the ways we’ve tried to define art for ourselves. Tune in to hear our takes on the head–heart dichotomy, how much artist intent really matters, and if meaning can emerge even from technically-driven or purely aesthetic pieces. We also explore our trust issues with interpreting art, how credibility shapes our reactions, and how certain mediums are easier to interpret than others.
Jul 19, 2025
53 min
buying into beauty culture
In this episode, we unpack our tangled thoughts on beauty, body image, and what motivates us to pursue self-betterment. We talk about buying into beauty culture, the strange tension between body positivity and wanting to change, and whether we’re all just gaslighting ourselves a little. We also explore the potential connection between posting on social and creating art, aesthetic vs. candid photos, and whether you can truly grow without being a little unhappy with where you are.
Jun 2, 2025
35 min
social media
Tune in this week to hear Amy and Grace delve into their hesitancy to not post on social media. They share what it has meant to them in the past, the way these views have changed, and their current idea of the pros and cons of being active online--how it may perpetuate comparison, be a medium through which to brag, and lead to a lack of vulnerability, but also how it can stimulate connection and maintaining long-distance friendships.
May 26, 2025
37 min
power dynamics
In this episode, we revisit an old recording on romantic relationships and reflect on how our views have changed—especially around admiration, identity, and power dynamics. We talk about whether healthy relationships need to include arguments, and why predicting if a relationship will work is harder than it seems. Later, we dive into power dynamics: how educational programs shape them, how our personalities shift with perceived seniority, and how cultural differences influence the way we interact with others.
Apr 14, 2025
45 min
chatime: group projects, comparison, and professionalism
In this episode, Amy and Grace reflect on some of their experiences with group projects, the benefits of working with others, and the struggles in balancing the strive for perfection with other commitments. They also talk about the benefits and detriments of comparison and learning to look at metrics objectively. Lastly, they touch on professionalism and how it sometimes prevents us from being authentic.
Apr 6, 2025
32 min
our disenchantment with medicine
In this episode, we pull back the curtain on our evolving views about healthcare, purpose, and what it really means to make a difference. Grace shares her shift away from a long-held dream of entering healthcare, and Amy reflects on her own hesitations about the healthcare system and its reactive nature. We explore our thoughts on the healthcare system—its reactive nature, the importance of lifestyle, and how personal buy-in often determines whether treatment even works. We share personal experiences with health as we've gotten older, and reflect on the tradeoffs we may or may not be willing to make for better well-being. That leads us to question whether a career in medicine actually allows us to "do good," or if the only real way to create change is through politics. Tune in for a long conversation on identity, idealism, and growing up.
Mar 31, 2025
53 min
imposter syndrome
Join Amy and Grace as they explore the origin of imposter syndrome and whether vulnerability is truly the cure to this sensation of self-doubt. They also discuss the correlation between imposter syndrome and the "fake it until you make it" attitude. Lastly, they delve into a conversation regarding decision-making, risk-taking, the trolley problem, and moral foundations.
Mar 23, 2025
39 min
polished vulnerability
In this episode, we unpack the difference between true vulnerability and "polished vulnerability," and how sharing personal details isn’t always the same as being truly open. We also talk about how our proximity to others shapes our vulnerability, why long-distance friendships tend to see more "polished vulnerability", and how some of the best friendships are the ones you least expect. Plus, we reflect on the transition from childhood to adulthood, the expectations that come with it, and how being in mentorship roles influences the way we act.
Mar 17, 2025
52 min
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