In this week’s episode, Rob rants about his experience of the Tuff Love Podcast and the journey it has involved. Rob shares a humorous and poignant story involving bed bugs from his time at One Taste, explores his relationship with his own ego and how it has impacted his work, and how he has developed faith in letting go of things in life in order to allow new chapters to begin. 3:54 – I had a good time 7:50 – A space to express love 10:00 – Committing to changing 12:51 – A story about bedbugs 17:38 – Ego guiding work 20:32 – Surfing the wave of Covid-19 22:32 – Rob’s father wound 25:21 – Ending the podcast 26:46 – Letting go and having faith 28:35 – Having space to reflect 29:07 – Comments from listeners 34:44 – Thank you’s Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Vanya Silverten works internationally as an intuitive energy healer and teacher. With clients and students from over 50 countries, she has a passion to help individuals transform all aspects of their lives. Her greatest joy is to teach people the skills of healing and intuition so that they can master their own lives. Vanya believes healing is an art, and so has refined her gifted intuition through the experience of treating, reading and teaching 10,000+ people – from children to royalty. Vanya is a Master Theta Healer and has taught 150+ courses in six different countries. She has developed the energetic understanding of how the body, mind and soul function through her extensive training and experience. She passes this knowledge on by teaching and qualifying students to become practitioners of Theta Healing® Vanya is a qualified Nutritional Therapist. She has studied and worked extensively with herbs, vitamins, homeopathy and Australian Bush Flower Essences. Vanya is experienced at helping her clients overcome food allergies, hormonal and nervous problems. In 2015, Vanya became a mother to a beautiful daughter. This life-changing experience has deepened her appreciation of the female body temple and it’s potential to reach heightened states of sensual enlightenment. She shares these teachings in her women’s workshops, retreats and online courses. 1:49 – How corrupted love affected Vanya 5:27 – Understanding and transforming our stories 8:26 – Letting go of identities 10:38 – Techniques to help someone let go of their stories 14:04 – How she works with people 16:36 – How she started reading energy 19:44 – Theta healing 21:39 – Changes in Women’s sexuality 24:16 – Techniques for keeping a relationship intimate 28:15 – Understanding how our family lineage impacts us Find Vanya at: www.VanyaSilverten.com As well as her Free Courses: courses.vanyasilverten.com/collections?category=free Her book “Sacred Revolution: A Woman’s Path to Love, Power & Sensual Enlightenment” www.amazon.com/Sacred-Revolution-Womans-Sensual-Enlightenment/dp/198224352X And her Instagram: www.Instagram.com/VanyaSilverten Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Violet Lange is a love, dating, and relationship mentor who helps spiritual, successful women date like a Queen and feel Fabulously Feminine along the way. Violet has her MBA from Harvard, training from Coach Training Alliance, and is a 500 hour registered yoga teacher and Reiki Master. She is passionate about empowered dating, and lasting loving relationships as building blocks of a healthy society and fulfilling life. Violet recently became a mama to a spunky, sweet daughter named Ruby. 1:42 – Violet’s background 5:19 – How she helps women find fulfilling relationships 7:31 – Using feelings as a barometer of relationship success 10:24 – Helping women connect with their desires 12:42 – How long does it take? 15:09 – Being okay with being single 16:28 – Disproving the myth of “Men aren’t interested in women my age” 19:29 – Disproving the myth of “There are no good men out there” 20:54 – Recommended dating apps 22:51 – Tips for using dating apps 24:05 – Continuing exploring “There are no good men out there” 27:05 – Disproving the myth of “I have too much baggage” 29:33 – Sexuality over 50 Find Violet at: VioletLange.com/Talk As well as Facebook: www.facebook.com/groups/FreeYourFeminine/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/VioletLoveLange Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Mas Sajady is a world renowned consciousness programmer who, through his unique techniques and meditations, shifts people’s lives to an evolved and advanced frequency level that enables them to achieve success, fulfillment, and happiness from a natural and balanced state. From a very young age, Mas showed signs of higher intuition, and after his second near death experience he acquired highly advanced capabilities for quantum frequency programming. His journey to discover the true meaning of this newfound ability led to his own personal breakthroughs, giving him a new effortless, happy, and fulfilling life. This found knowledge enlightened him with the limitless possibilities in human potential. Today, Mas fulfills his purpose by helping others reprogram and elevate their frequency, to activate their inner force and experience life from a place of confidence, stability, significance, and abundance. As the founder of Xponential Intelligence, Mas facilitates rapid changes through quantum reprogramming, which eliminate old dynamic energy partners. During sessions with Mas, regardless of whether you share your problems with him or not, he will discover and eliminate what has obstructed your life in the past. Mas has counseled tens of thousands of people around the world and has worked with business leaders, influencers, professional athletes, celebrities, royal families, and Fortune 500 executives from companies such as Capital Records, Starbucks, Facebook, Fox, Microsoft, FedEx, and many more. As a philanthropist, Mas donates his time to assist schools, hospitals, special needs organizations, and low income communities. In his spare time, Mas enjoys time with his family, travel, adventures, and various philanthropic activities that elevate the human consciousness. 2:24 – What is Xponential Intelligence? 9:14 – Generating frequencies 17:19 – The limitations of modern mindfulness practices 19:32 – Is Xponential Intelligence God? 22:16 – Connecting to one’s source and love 27:21 – Gender reversals 35:12 – Questions from Facebook 38:49 – Focusing on driving change externally versus internally 41:44 – Details of Das’ Sunday Metahealing sessions Find Mas Sajady at: https://mas-sajady.com As well as Instagram: www.instagram.com/Mas_Sajady Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Adam Gilad is an independent educator, writer and life adventurer, devoted to creating learning programs, films, books and live workshops that awaken, delight, provoke, connect and inspire. The goal of each of his programs and trainings: for each of us to love more fully, laugh more deeply, feel more sensually and live our gifts to awaken ourselves and others into deep engagement and awakening to every precious passing moment of our lives. 2:30 – Adam’s experience of 2020 so far 9:19 – The impact on children 11:23 – Men in Coronavirus 16:35 – A call for balance, Black Lives Matter, and the rise of listening 25:18 – Being in relationships with differences 29:51 – The Bold Life Brotherhood Find Adam at: www.TheBoldLifeBrotherhood.com As well as: Instagram: www.instagram.com/RealAdamGilad And Email: [email protected] Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Femininity & Feminine Embodiment Coach Anna Rova is on a mission to help successful women attract and keep masculine men. She runs a powerful group coaching program called “Claimed” that helps women embody their feminine essence fully and get into the best position to attract a partner that will consciously and eagerly play the masculine pole of the polarity spectrum Writer, podcaster, yoga instructor, and location-independent entrepreneur, Anna is the founder of Girlskill – an online coaching company empowering women to connect to their femininity and understand men through various stories of women around the world and personal revelations. Together with her husband, Anna has traveled the world being on the road full-time building her coaching practice, writing her personal blog, recording episodes on Girlskill Podcast, practicing yoga, and spreading love and positivity. In December 2018, Anna gave birth to her first child and is currently residing in Australia continuing to coach women all over the world. 2:09 – Anna’s work and an overview of three lies about female success 4:15 – Recent changes that have led to the current state of being for women 8:18 – Previous gender roles 12:13 – Men not stepping up to the level of empowered women 15:54 – Gender roles in media 22:48 – Evolutionary psychology 28:03 – Monogamy and men’s drive away from it 30:48 – Three lies about female success in-depth 31:17 – Lie 1: Women can and should do it all 35:01 – Lie 2: Feminine power is in independence and strength 37:17 – Lie 3: Femininity is weakness Find Anna at: Home As well as her webinar on How to Start Attracting Committed Masculine Men by Releasing Control & Letting Him Lead: https://girlskill.com/webinar And her Instagram: www.instagram.com/annarova Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

In this week’s episode, Rob rants about the large array of uncertainty across the world and in his own life during this time. Rob explores COVID, Black Lives Matter, the economic and political situation in the USA, as well as his relationship with his father and life partner. He outlines how while it’s okay not to know, it shouldn’t stop you: do the internal work to know yourself and all aspects of your being. 3:23 – My superpowers 6:37 – Things Rob doesn’t have certainty around 8:52 – Black Lives Matter 12:44 – The economic and political situation in the USA 15:07 – Rob’s dad’s death 18:25 – His relationship with Morgan 19:57 – Staying conscious 22:12 – Surrender versus acquiescence: know thyself 23:16 – Being okay with what is Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Lora Cheadle is a transformational thought leader and media personality who empowers women to express themselves fully, find uninhibited joy, and gracefully take the lead in the dance of life despite any external circumstances. She is the author of the bestselling book FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self that is available wherever books are sold. Listen to her podcast or find out more at www.loracheadle.com where you can download your free Bundle of JOY gift pack. 1:47 – Acknowledging the outcries following George Floyd’s death 5:20 – Who is Lora? 8:51 – Life choreographer 13:09 – Fears dictating one’s life 17:01 – Being curious about life’s difficulties 19:36 – Dealing with infidelity 22:13 – Working with Lora: FLAUNT 29:41 – Why “Finding Your Fetish”? 32:36 – Working towards Accepting Unconditionally 36:14 – Undoing false beliefs Find Lora at: LoraCheadle.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/LifeChoreographer/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/LoraCheadle/ Her Bundle of Joy Gift Pack: Bundle of Joy As well as her FLAUNT Flock Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/FlauntFlock/ Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

In this episode, Rob welcomes long-time friend and colleague Arielle Brown to discuss the premise for the workshop that they held on June 17th 2020. Arielle describes the workshop as follows: “The degree of power and influence we have in our life is directly related to the amount of sensation we can hold in our body. Similarly, the level of ability we have to create real, authentic connection in our lives is directly related to our ability to hold polarity within our body. To “hold polarity”, in my definition, means to be able to hold (at least) two perspectives, truths, or belief systems within our awareness that seem to DIRECTLY conflict with each other. The cultivation of holding polarity is a practice in personal mastery, because in a world that has taught us to believe that being “right” is what creates safety, allowing ourselves to consider and hold a perspective that directly challenges our belief systems is a great threat to our (Ego) identity. Robert Kandell and I have built much of our respective bodies of work around intimacy, sexuality, communication, and human relating, on the premise that true safety is based on our ability to be CONNECTED in our relationships, rather than being RIGHT.” 3:09 – The motivation for Rob and Arielle’s workshop 6:43 – Being honest with your partner and yourself 11:23 – Different speeds of evolution in relationships 13:36 – Doing inner work and how it affects relationships 16:48 – What is distortion? 17:56 – Jealousy and polarity 23:24 – Why did Rob start this work? 30:17 – What do men need? 32:53 – Women holding space for men 36:04 – The impact of shifts in relationships on sex 41:19 – Their workshop To get a flavor of what was covered, check out these videos: What Does it Mean When Something Is Polarizing?: What does it mean when something is "polarizing"? What does it mean when something is "polarizing"? Posted by Arielle Brown on Tuesday, May 19, 2020 Polarity Workshop Teaser with Arielle & Rob: Tuff Love: A Teaser for Our Polarity Workshop for Couples w/ Arielle Brown <<THE TEASER FOR THE JUNE-17th 2-HOUR WORKSHOP>>Arielle recently invited me to do a workshop with her around the concept of relationship, polarity, relationship, and communication. I said immediately, I'm IN!The price is $48/person for 12 people. Benefit is that you'll be part of the course. In other words, interactive! Afterwards, we'll post the replay for the cost of an email address.TO REGISTER: SEE THE LINK BELOW IN THE COMMENTSSome questions that will be discussed:>> How do we navigate the dance of opposites in our romantic relationship when your desires and belief systems directly contradict your partner’s?>> How do you honor your inner boundaries while staying curious and receptive to opposing perspectives?COME JOIN US!<teacher Bio>Arielle Brown is a teacher of intimacy energetics and spiritual embodiment, with a focus on erotic intelligence and transparent communication skills. Through her private coaching work, group containers, and online courses, Arielle has cultivated a body of work addressing the increasing need for evolutionary approaches to intimacy, sexuality, and spirituality that facilitate power-WITH (vs. power-OVER) models of relating. Her work emphasizes shadow integration and the unification of polarities in service to self-actualization and somatic awakening.Robert Kandell known as “The Modern Mantor,” is an interpersonal communications and relationship expert, speaker, podcaster and author. His focus lies in navigating and educating the public around the modern man and his many nuances in the modern era. Kandell is the host of a podcast called TuffLove – Your Pragmatic guide to relationships, sex and purpose in the 21st century and author of an Amazon #1 Best Seller – unHIDDEN – A Book for Men and Those Confused By Them. Posted by Robert Kandell on Thursday, May 28, 2020 Find Arielle at: www.ArielleBrown.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

While Aimee spent her first two years out of college building a career in corporate Manhattan, it quickly became clear to her that her passion was wilder than that. She packed her apartment and shipped herself all the way across the country to Los Angeles, where everything in her life as she knew it made a complete 180… except her love life. Without a job or an income, she found a home with her friends, hired her first Life Coach, and started building her own business. On paper, her life was shaping up, but she found she was still struggling to feel good in her skin and find romance. When a friend invited her to a transformational course about intimacy and orgasm, she was terrified. But she knew it was the next step for her – she was desperate to learn anything that could turn things around for her sex life. Within six months, her entire life was unrecognizable. Learning to live from her desire absolutely changed her experience of herself. For the first time, she was finally loving her body, living less in her head and feeling more connected to her intuition. She started meeting great men, and having deep, meaningful relationships, AND connected, pleasurable sex. She had to share what she’d learned, and before long, she was sharing the work with all her friends and clients. She learned that her new commitment to living life pleasurably was a professional passion too. In the years since she moved here, she’s coached successful women from entrepreneurs to mothers, artists, C-Suite executives and even other coaches across the country. she’s given talks to major organizations, led retreats internationally, and she’s only just begun. In saying yes, she finally discovered self-development work that wasn’t only focused on her career or other relationships (I had that stuff mastered); there was a whole world to explore around her desire, intimacy, and connection with others. After that initial course, she fully immersed herself in trainings and retreats all centred around sexuality, eroticism, relationships and desire. Today, she wants to find out how she can help you fall in love with yourself and your life as much as she has. Don’t waste another day feeling uncomfortable in your skin, feeling disconnected in your romantic life, or having unfulfilling sex! 4:53 – Her journey 6:56 – Not trusting men 9:59 – Weakened sexuality 12:22 – Being conscious on dating apps 15:25 – Pleasure is not just sex 18:17 – Self-pleasure as a practice 21:59 – Sexual experiences and processing resentment to men 28:20 – Breaking out of the loop of unconscious dating and sexuality 32:14 – Techniques for finding pleasure in everyday life Find Aimee at: www.AimeeBatuski.com As well as her Instagram: www.instagram.com/AimeeBatuski The Turned on Tribe – Desire On Fire Community: www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire Instagram: www.instagram.com/DesireOnFire Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/