Tryna See Sumn’
Tryna See Sumn’
Taylor McCarley
Ever wondered what’s going on through the “complicated” minds of women when it comes to dating? Or why men move the way that they do? Join me, Taylor McCarley, as I try to see sumn’ by picking the brains of millennials to try and navigate why there tends to be a disconnect in communication, dating, relationships, and everything in between. This podcast will bridge the gap and create a better understanding of what men and women are thinking when it comes to all things relationships.
Episode 26: Freestyle Finale - with Julia, Chris, and David
On this episode, we discuss random topics like why people are taken for granted, top requirements in a relationship, and a lot more. This episode is filled with laughs so tune in and enjoy one final episode of Tryna See Sumn'.
Feb 22, 2022
1 hr 25 min
Episode 25: Conflict is Not the Problem - with Andrew and Carlos
Drew and Carlos are back on the pod and we discuss conflict resolution. Are you the type of person that shuts down during conflict? Are you a yeller? Are you capable of seeing from another's perspective? Do you sweep your problems under a rug to keep the peace? Everyone has a different style when it comes to conflict and it doesn't always match up to whoever we're in disagreement with. On this episode, we discuss what happens when only one person is able to step outside of themselves during conflict, if it is appropriate to tell someone they do not handle conflict in a healthy manner, why people avoid conflict, and a lot more.
Feb 8, 2022
44 min
Episode 24: Control is Just Fear - with Jordan
Does control always have to equal fear? I think so. On this episode, Jordan and I discuss different forms of control, why people like to be in control,  how control impacts your dating life and relationships, and a lot more.
Jan 25, 2022
41 min
Episode 23: Ego Check - with Jordan
Is ego the enemy? How do we have more control over our ego and not allow it to get into the way when it comes to all types of relationships? Are there times when our ego is actually trying to protect us? How do we know when that time is? How do we know who to drop our ego for? Tune in to hear Jordan and I discuss this and a lot more.
Jan 11, 2022
1 hr 7 min
Episode 22: What's Your Fear? - with Dwayne
We're all worthy of love, but sometimes we get in our own way by self-sabotaging. It can be very easy to allow our insecurities or fears to get in the way of what we all want/ need (connection, security, love, and belonging). On this episode, Dwayne and I discuss how worthiness starts in childhood. We also discuss how a lot of insecurities and fears begin in childhood and then carry into our adult lives and affect our dating lives. We also discuss if our insecurities can be seen as some of our biggest strengths.
Dec 21, 2021
1 hr 2 min
Episode 21: Understanding Commitment Phobia - with Andrew
Why do so many people struggle with commitment? Andrew and I discuss how to spot a commitment phobe, how family dynamics play a role in people's ability to commit, how heartbreak can impact one's ability to commit, how to get over the fear of commitment, and a lot more.
Dec 8, 2021
57 min
Episode 20: Emotional Intelligence - with Nate
Season 3 is all about healing and growth! We're starting off by discussing emotional intelligence. Nate and I discuss the 4 components of emotional intelligence, how emotional intelligence impacts relationships, why men tend to struggle with expressing and acknowledging their emotions, and a lot more.
Nov 23, 2021
55 min
Bonus Episode: Triggers
Triggers! Do you know yours? Are you aware that they stem from undealt with trauma? On this episode, I break down the importance of recognizing, acknowledging, and understanding your triggers. It allows you to have more control over your emotions and your body. Tune in to have a better understanding of how you can deal with your trauma.
Sep 23, 2021
13 min
Episode 19: Hella Wild - with Leroy
Leroy joins me on the season finale to discuss the important topic of sex. Is sex the most important thing in a relationship? How important is it that you and your partner have the same or very similar sex drive? The importance of having self-control is also huge. How do you fight temptation and your body's urges when your partner might not be in the mood due to hormonal changes, depression, or anything else that might be going on in their life? Tune in to hear Leroy and I discuss this and more.
Jun 22, 2021
46 min
Episode 18: Hella Stuck - with Kelvin
The friend zone is not a fun place to be when you want to be more than friends. On this episode, Kelvin and I discuss what the friend zone is used for, how to get out of the friend zone, and we also discuss why women are less likely to shoot their shot. Is there a such thing as women ever being too aggressive when shooting shots? How come liking pictures doesn’t count as an attempt of shooting your shot? Tune in to hear this and a lot more.
Jun 15, 2021
37 min
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