
What if the things you wanted so badly didn’t work out because you would have ended up hating them? In this episode, we’re talking about rejection, redirection, divine timing, and learning to trust that things are working out exactly how they’re supposed to. From relationships and friendships to career opportunities and major life milestones, sometimes we’re so attached to the idea of something working out that we fail to see it might not actually be what’s best for us. We’ll talk about letting go of what isn’t meant for you, finding the good in things falling apart, and staying open to the opportunities you haven’t even imagined yet. Because sometimes the best thing that can happen is not getting what you thought you wanted. ✨🫧⭐️Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Kepos - receive a limited-time 47% off your first order PLUS they are including free gifts valued at $62: trykepos.com/TNTC, discount automatically applied. KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2026 google formPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]#PersonalGrowth #Self-care #FriendshipDynamics #Self-worth #HealthyCommunication #GrowthMindset #SelfLove #MotivationDaily #OutgrowingPeople #FriendshipBreakup #LettingGo #ProtectYourPeace #KnowYourWorth #SettingBoundaries #SelfGrowth #SelfRespect #EmotionalWellness #MentalHealthPodcast #RomanticRelationships #BreakupAdvice
Nov 9
35 min

HAPPY NOVEMBER!! 🤎 In this episode, we're talking all about taking care of yourself this month, without feeling like you need to be constantly productive or disciplined. From being more intentional about our mindset and not letting the little things ruin our month, to finding ways to move your body that you genuinely enjoy, prioritizing rest, nourishing yourself, and making more time for the little things that bring you joy. This is your reminder to slow down, romanticize your everyday life, and make the most of the season we're in instead of wishing it away. Here's to no bad days in November!!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Zenni - Check new glasses off your list, today, with Zenni. Go to zenni.com/PODCAST and use code PODCAST15 for fifteen percent off, plus free shipping over sixty five dollars!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Fabletics - Shop now at fabletics.com/TNTC to get 70- 80% off everything when you sign up as a new VIP. Take a quick style quiz and be sure to select TNTC when prompted to unlock this offer.KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2026 google formPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]#PersonalGrowth #Self-care #FriendshipDynamics #Self-worth #HealthyCommunication #GrowthMindset #SelfLove #MotivationDaily #OutgrowingPeople #FriendshipBreakup #LettingGo #ProtectYourPeace #KnowYourWorth #SettingBoundaries #SelfGrowth #SelfRespect #EmotionalWellness #MentalHealthPodcast #RomanticRelationships #BreakupAdvice #November #NewMonth #NovemberGoals #NovemberBucketList
Nov 2
26 min

What’s scarier than Halloween? LOVE BOMBING. 👻 This week, we’re talking about the difference between genuine interest and love bombing, the red flags we overlook in the talking stage, and how to stop falling for someone’s potential instead of their actions. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code TNTCKEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2026 google formPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]#PersonalGrowth #Self-care #FriendshipDynamics #Self-worth #HealthyCommunication #GrowthMindset #SelfLove #MotivationDaily #OutgrowingPeople #FriendshipBreakup #LettingGo #ProtectYourPeace #KnowYourWorth #SettingBoundaries #SelfGrowth #SelfRespect #EmotionalWellness #MentalHealthPodcast #RomanticRelationships #BreakupAdvice #Lovebombing
Oct 26
42 min

ADVICE FOR THE GIRLS WHO FEEL LIKE THEY'RE FRIENDS HATE THEM❤️🩹🥴This episode covers:- When your friend starts copying you - Friends not matching your energy - What to do when they make time for everyone but you- Being excluded by your friend group - Ex friends gossiping about you - Is it okay for your friend to cool with people who dislike you?Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Vinted - Give your clothes a second life with Vinted. Download the Vinted app for free to start selling with no seller fees, so you keep everything you earn!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Zenni - Check new glasses off your list, today, with Zenni. Go to zenni.com/PODCAST and use code PODCAST15 for fifteen percent off, plus free shipping over sixty five dollars!KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2026 google formPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]#PersonalGrowth #Self-care #FriendshipDynamics #Self-worth #HealthyCommunication #GrowthMindset #SelfLove #MotivationDaily #OutgrowingPeople #FriendshipBreakup #LettingGo #ProtectYourPeace #KnowYourWorth #SettingBoundaries #SelfGrowth #SelfRespect #EmotionalWellness #MentalHealthPodcast
How to build healthy friendships
Signs of a fake friend
Outgrowing friendships
Friendship breakups and healing
One-sided friendships
People-pleasing and self-worth
Protecting your peace
Learning to let go
Oct 19
36 min

From one girl in a funk to another 😽✨ Here’s my go-to list of ways to reset my brain, find a little motivation, and start feeling more like myself again. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unmotivated, or just need a little pick-me-up, this episode is your reminder that sometimes the smallest things can make the biggest difference.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/TNTCKEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2026 google formPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]
Oct 12
29 min

In this episode, I’m talking about the Cornell 7, the “not all men” conversation, and the reality of living as a woman in a world where we’re constantly taught how to protect ourselves, yet so often questioned when something happens to us.This episode isn’t me saying that every man is dangerous. It’s about why so many women feel like we have to be cautious all the time, why we don’t always know who is safe, and why somehow the blame so often ends up being put back on us. I know this is a heavy conversation, but I felt like it was something I needed to talk about. I hope this episode reminds you that you’re not alone, that your fear is valid, and that there is power in women talking about these things openly and believing each other. 🤍Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Fabletics - Shop now at fabletics.com/TNTC to get 70- 80% off everything when you sign up as a new VIP. Take a quick style quiz and be sure to select TNTC when prompted to unlock this offer. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code TNTCKEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2026 google formPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]
Oct 5
30 min

In this episode, I talk about why people will always have opinions about you and why you shouldn't care. From projection and insecurity to outgrowing friendships, setting boundaries, and putting yourself out there, we’ll get into why being authentic and ambitious sometimes mean being misunderstood.You can’t live a life that’s true to you while constantly worrying about how it looks to everyone else. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Wayfair - Transform your space with pieces that hold up to real life. Join Wayfair Rewards today and get five percent back on every purchase at Wayfair.com or shop the Wayfair app for all things home. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by OneSkin - Get 15% off OneSkin with the code ASHLEY at https://www.oneskin.co/ASHLEY #oneskinpodKEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2026 google formPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]
Sep 28
24 min

Being kind doesn’t make you a pushover...being kind without boundaries does. 😐 In this episode, I talk about the difference between having a good heart and abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable. I also break down 5 practical ways to be kind without being a pushover:1. Being kind without needing to sacrifice your boundaries2. Give because you want to, not because you feel obligated to 3. Be soft in tone but firm in substance 4. Be interested without becoming responsible5. Match effort instead of constantly compensating for other peopleTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/TNTCKEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2026 google formPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]
Sep 21
26 min

I'M BACK & I MISSED YOU ALL SO MUCH! In this episode, we're kicking off fall with a lil rebrand ✨ How to reset your life, figure out who you want to become, break habits that aren’t serving you, romanticize your routines, declutter your life, and actually start showing up as the version of yourself you’ve been wanting to be. If you’re looking to reset, feel more put together, motivated, and excited about your life again, this one’s for you. 🍂Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Primal Queen - Our listeners get a FREE MONTH of Primal Queen plus FOUR FREE GIFTS at PrimalQueen.com/TNTC. #adKEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2026 google formPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]
Sep 14
39 min

I’M MARRIED!!! 💍🤍 After almost 10 years together, Josh and I finally got married! As excited as I am for this new season of life, before I come back from our honeymoon, I wanted to take a step back and talk about our relationship and what I’ve learned from being in unhealthy relationships before Josh. I’m sharing the biggest differences I’ve noticed between the relationships that made me question myself and the kind of love I have now...where I feel secure, supported, respected, and completely myself.We’re talking about confusing chemistry with love, mistaking the bare minimum for effort, feeling like you have to earn someone’s love, and why the right relationship shouldn’t make you feel like you have to choose between yourself and the person you’re with.Whether you’re single, dating, in a situationship, or happily in a relationship, I hope this episode gives you a little perspective on what love should actually feel like. 💕KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2026 google formPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]
Aug 24
28 min
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