James 5:16 King James Version 16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.

Why is it important to find your identity and know who you are is to not be validated about peoples opinion of you,for you to know where you will fit and how to fit in places that you are not comfortable!!! In listening you will learn how to adapt to different environments and become a truer version of yourself!!!