Toks Talks Podcast
Toks Talks Podcast
Toks Ayinla
Hey friend! I'm Toks Ayinla, a poet, speaker, and strategist. Join me every week as I give you strategy and tips to empower you on all things personal development, relationships, and entrepreneurship. I take a faith based, whole life, solution focused approach to the topics I cover; there's room for sugarcoating! Each week, you will walk away with a fresh perspective and actionable steps on how to elevate your whole life to the level you deserve. The goal is to develop bold, unshakable confidence and faith; the kind that will make you jump off the edge of a cliff and land in purpose!
200: How To Become The Best Version Of Yourself: IOS Update
If you're ready to rewrite your life story, start here. Building the life of your dreams takes intentionality and I am here to support you on the journey. A Cushion of Perspective: The journey of becoming the best version of yourself requires grace for every other version that got you here. Get in touch: [email protected]
Oct 2
12 min
199: How To Continue Building When It Feels Like Nobody Understands
People hardly talk about how lonely it can be to build something that has never existed before you. The struggle too keep building the ark when you have never seen rain can be daunting but just like Noah, when the flood comes you'll be grateful you didn't quit. A Cushion of Perspective: You can't expect people to understand your vision when they have a different life perscription. Get in touch: [email protected]
Sep 25
17 min
198: How to position yourself to get exactly what you want
First impressions matter and when you know this you can make sure that you always put your best foot forward. A Cushion of Perspective: It's better to enter a room late than to be early through the back door.Get in touch: [email protected]
Sep 18
11 min
197: Failure Will Be Your Fastest Path To Success
All of the advice you receive is ineffective if you don't start applying it. Trying, failing, learning and trying again is the fastest path to success. A Cushion of Perspective: Your success comes from what you learn when you trip and fall on your own termsGet in touch: [email protected]
Sep 14
10 min
196: If You Don't Want To Ruffle Feathers, You'll Lose Your Hair
Learning to honour ourselves in one aspect of our life tends to open up the flood gates to see how we haven't been doing it in other aspects.Cushion of perspective: Keeping the peace starts on the inside Get in touch: [email protected]
Sep 10
9 min
195: Whose Story Is Your Life Telling?
No matter how good your life looks to others, the gap between where you are and where you know you should be is always worth pursuing A Cushion of Perspective: It's your right to be the main character and author of your lifeGet in touch: [email protected]
Sep 7
9 min
194: Stop Trying To Prove Yourself To Them
Jumping up and down to get someone to see you clearly only guarantees that your legs will get tired.There is this part of us that looks at rejection as challenge to do more so this video is to remind you why you should do everything in your power to resist that urgeA Cushion of Perspective: The person meant to see you clearly, will see you clearly.Get in touch: [email protected]
Sep 4
9 min
193: Don't Let Loneliness Convince You to Settle...You're Not Average
Average has never been our portion.Too often, longing causes us to forget who we are, what we've overcome, and what God has already done in our lives. When we're tired of waiting, and being bombarded with a negative news cycle, it's easy to become desperate, settle, or convince ourselves that what we truly desire isn't possible.In this episode, we discuss:Why longing can distort your perspectiveHow to use your mind positively instead of fearfully• Why perfect positioning takes timeTrusting God's track record in your lifeAvoiding the temptation to settle• Dating, faith, patience, and purposeHolding onto hope when your timeline looks differentWhether you're waiting for a relationship, a business opportunity, a breakthrough, or the next chapter of your life, this conversation will remind you that delays are not denials.Subscribe to the Toks Talks Podcast for conversations about faith, relationships, business, and personal development.A Cushion of Perspective: Instead of lowering your standards, you should strengthen your faith Get in touch: [email protected]
Jun 10
6 min
192: You Need To Build In Silence...Oversharing Is Putting You At Risk
Everybody cannot handle access to your vision.In this episode of the Toks Talks Podcast, we’re talking about the real reason building in silence matters especially when your purpose is still growing. Sometimes the biggest threat to your calling isn’t failure, it’s premature exposure, outside opinions, pressure, validation-seeking, and being placed on a pedestal before you’re ready.I discuss:Why building in private can feel lonelyWhy people act strange when you share your dreamsThe danger of talking too much too soonWhy conviction is different from confidenceWhy your calling is NOT a group assignmentThe emotional cost of public expectationsWhy protecting your process mattersLearning to support yourself emotionally before seeking support from othersIf you’re in a season of growth, transition, entrepreneurship, healing, creativity, faith, or personal development this conversation is for you.Subscribe for more conversations about business, wellness, purpose, faith, creativity, and becoming who you’re called to be.A Cushion of Perspective: Trees don't have to announce their bloom, in due time everyone will see the fruit.Get in touch: [email protected]
May 20
10 min
191: It's Time To Go Outside, You've Forgotten You're Amazing
Have you ever felt like you were losing your confidence… but couldn’t figure out why?In this episode of the Toks Talks Podcast, we’re talking about the importance of getting outside of familiar environments and allowing yourself to be seen with fresh eyes.Sometimes the issue isn’t you — it’s being in spaces where people have become too familiar with your old version, your limitations, or your past identity. When no one reflects your growth back to you, it can slowly affect your confidence, self-worth, and ability to dream bigger.I share a conversation I had with a friend about how staying in the same environments can make you shrink without realizing it.A Cushion of Perspective: The best way to measure your light is to let it shine in a new space.Get in touch: [email protected]
May 13
5 min
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