Join Bethany on The Sassy Show as she sits down with renowned photographic artist Ajamu X in his studio for an intimate conversation about black queer bodies, pleasure, sensuality, and the radical act of gentleness. From his post-punk roots in Northern England to his darkroom practice, Ajamu shares his philosophy on creating softer representations of black masculinity, his inspiration from the artist Rotimi Fani-Kayode, his love of old-school African-American porn magazines, and why he'...

In this powerful episode, award-winning podcaster and South Asian feminist Sangeeta Pillai joins The Sassy Show to discuss her debut memoir Bad Daughter. From growing up in Mumbai's slums to landing on Times Square billboards, Sangeeta shares her journey of breaking cultural conditioning, surviving mental health struggles, and challenging the white middle-class gatekeepers of UK publishing. After 39 rejections despite her success with the award-winning Masala Podcast, she self-published...

Roxanne Murray - aka the Multiple Sclerosis Fashionista - has spent nearly two decades transforming personal pain into powerful advocacy. After eight years of misdiagnosis rooted in medical racism, Roxy finally received her MS diagnosis at 26. Now she's on a mission to reclaim pleasure, joy, and visibility for disabled communities. "I want my pleasure back," she declares. Through her work, she's challenging systems, breaking taboos, and insisting that disabled people deserve it all -&nb...

This week, we're joined by Inu, a shibari enthusiast and inclusive kink advocate who's shattering myths about asexuality, desire, attraction, and pleasure. Tune in to hear Inu discuss why being Ace doesn't mean being a robot, how asexuality exists on a spectrum within kink spaces, and why "friends with benefits" means exactly what you think it does. From navigating dating apps to finding liberation in rope bondage, Inu shares his journey of unapologetic self-discovery, the power o...

Bethany sits down with kink educator and content creator Alice Lovegood (Better Sx Blog) for a candid, funny, and deeply honest conversation about polyamory, pleasure, kink, going viral online, and creating real-life spaces for people to connect. Alice shares her journey from OnlyFans to education, the challenges of visibility, and how she’s reshaping conversations around sex—one video, one workshop, and one event at a time. Since recording this episode, Alice Lovegood has her her ig ac...

This month on The Sassy Show, BxSassy is joined by two trailblazing burlesque superstars who are redefining what cabaret can look like: Miss Terri Boxx and Mama Mamba. From MMA cages to cabaret stages, Miss Terri Boxx has lipsynced her way into the drag and burlesque scene as a bearded queen who defies mainstream ideals and captivates audiences with fantastical, magnetic artistry. Mama Mamba brings her own fire in the most horny and shocking ways from staple guns to feathers and glitter...

The Sassy Show is back, honey! Season 10 kicks off with a bang as BxSassy welcomes Lola and January to the sofa. Known for their bold presence in the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and kink scenes, this episode dives deep into what it means to be nesting partners, to love consciously, and to build community with intention. From confronting mainstream relationship myths to the beauty of sober kink spaces, this chat is equal parts cheeky and wise. We get the lowdown on Lola’s event Lu...

Photographer Tigz Rice joins the Sassy Show to talk all things body empowerment, sexy poses, and how going viral reshaped her mission to make all bodies visible. From burlesque beginnings to building a global community, Tigz is showing us what radical self-acceptance really looks like—one shot at a time. Tune in and get to know Tigz online @TigzRice Website: https://www.tigzrice.com/ Interview by Bethany Burgoyne Produced: The Sassy Show Studio: OSR Studio Keep up to date...

Welcome to a world where independent makers shine, where kink is celebrated with confidence, and where shopping becomes an experience of self-expression. This week on The Sassy Show, we talked with Alexandra Houston about her journey creating Charmskool - a vibrant, female-led marketplace championing independent businesses. With the new launch of Charmskool Showroom, we get an inside look into it's constantly growing and evolving selection of the very best handpicked international brands sh...

From rope art to app design, Anna Kii is transforming sexual taboos through creativity. Step into the creative studio of Anna Kii on this episode of The Sassy Show. As founder of Figure of A, shibari educator, and co-creator of the innovative Phantasies App, Anna is on a mission to elevate kink from underground subculture to mainstream appreciation. Bethany and Anna discuss the beautiful intersection of rope art and fashion, building a supportive business community, and using technology to c...