The Tit for Tat Podcast
The Tit for Tat Podcast
Carolyn Alexander
Centered on the often chaotic world of dating and relationships, tune into this hilarious weekly conversation about navigating the complexities of relationships at every stage. Authentic and raw, Tit for Tat examines the different perspectives of masculinity vs. femininity and how we can use negotiation strategy to bridge the gap.
The Future of Black Love
In this engaging conversation, the hosts and young guests explore the complexities of black love, relationships, and the influences of family dynamics on their perceptions. They discuss the importance of support in love, the prevalence of toxic behaviors among peers, and the impact of societal expectations on young men and women. The dialogue also touches on personal experiences with love, the challenges of communication, and the pressures surrounding sexual activity. Ultimately, the discussion aims to shed light on the youth's perspective on love and relationships in today's world. 
Jun 16, 2025
1 hr 17 min
The Future of Black Love Part II
In this episode of The Tit of Tat podcast, the hosts engage a panel of young women to discuss the complexities of young love, particularly within the context of Black relationships. The conversation explores themes of self-love, vulnerability, communication, and the pressures of societal expectations regarding marriage and dating. The young women share their insights on the importance of friendship in romantic relationships, the influence of social media, and the impact of music on their perceptions of love. They also discuss non-negotiables in relationships and the qualities they seek in partners, emphasizing the need for mutual respect and understanding. The episode concludes with reflections on the lessons learned from relationships and the importance of self-growth.
May 5, 2025
1 hr
The Path to a Better Relationship
Tune in with your hosts and guests as they explore the path to better relationships. Listen as they delve into the importance of accountability, the challenges of admitting fault, and the need for intentional communication. The conversation examines cultural influences on dating, the significance of self-awareness, and the role of spirituality in fostering healthy relationships. The hosts emphasize the importance of personal growth and the need to protect one another within the community, ultimately encouraging listeners to focus on self-improvement and understanding in their relationships.
Apr 1, 2025
1 hr 9 min
The Upside of Black Love
In this explosive season 3 opener, the hosts discuss the multifaceted theme of Black love, emphasizing its importance in fostering community, economic stability, and self-love. They explore the challenges faced, including beauty standards, financial literacy, and the impact of trauma. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the need for empathy, understanding, and the role of strong relationships in building generational wealth within the black community.
Feb 23, 2025
58 min
Healthy Breakups
In this season two finale of the Tit for Tat Podcast, hosts Carolyn, Eddie, and Tiffany reflect on the concept of healthy vs. unhealthy breakups. They discuss personal experiences, the importance of communication, and the role of friendship in relationships. The conversation delves into the impact of being in a healthy place mentally in order to have a healthy breakup and emphasizes the need for self-awareness and personal growth to foster healthier connections in the future.
Dec 31, 2024
1 hr 7 min
Creating Safe Spaces in Relationships
In this conversation, the hosts explore the concept of safe spaces in relationships, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability, trust, and communication. They discuss how selflessness and emotional intelligence contribute to creating a safe environment where partners can be their authentic selves. The conversation also touches on the challenges of establishing boundaries and the impact of judgment on relationships. Ultimately, the hosts highlight the significance of friendship as a foundation for safe spaces and the necessity of loyalty and support in fostering healthy connections.
Dec 31, 2024
1 hr 6 min
Why Black Men and Women Need Each Other
Tune into this powerful episode discussing the critical need for unity among Black men and women, especially in the current socio-political climate. The conversation emphasizes the need for forgiveness for healing, and how mentorship and community engagement help foster a supportive environment. The hosts also highlight the significance of the Black love movement and the necessity of accountability in relationships, ultimately calling for a collective effort to empower the Black community and redefine its future.
Dec 3, 2024
1 hr 37 min
Are Single Women Keeping Other Women Single?!
In this engaging conversation, the hosts and guests explore the complex dynamics of single women and their influence on each other regarding relationships. They discuss the societal pressures, personal choices, and the evolving roles of men in the dating landscape. The conversation delves into how media and cultural narratives shape perceptions of singleness and relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-esteem and personal agency in making relationship choices. Ultimately, the discussion highlights the need for women to consider the sources of influence in their lives and to embrace their individual desires for relationships or independence.
Nov 17, 2024
1 hr 15 min
Sticking to your Standards
Tune in to this fiery episode as your hosts discuss the pressures women face to lower their standards in relationships, the differences in standards between men and women, and the importance of compassion and understanding in setting and adhering to personal standards. They explore societal expectations, the impact of standards on self-worth, and the need for open-mindedness in dating. The conversation emphasizes that while standards are essential for personal peace, it's important to note that rigid enforcement could be at the expense of potential connections.
Oct 20, 2024
1 hr 32 min
The Relationship-Ready Audit
In this episode of the Tip for Tap podcast, tap in as the hosts discuss the concept of being 'relationship ready.' They explore the importance of self-awareness, honesty, and empathy in relationships, emphasizing that individuals must first understand themselves before entering into a partnership. The conversation also touches on the significance of positive language, accountability, and the impact of past experiences on current relationships. Drawing from those experiences, the hosts encourage listeners to engage in a 'relationship audit' to assess their readiness and the readiness of potential partners, ultimately advocating for open communication and self-love as foundational elements for healthy relationships.
Oct 7, 2024
1 hr 24 min
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