On this episode of The S.I.M. Factor, we are going to try to tackle the "Holiday Blues", especially when you are single.

In this episode of The S.I.M. Factor, we want to talk to the single men on what do they desire in a future mate!

In our current climate today of anxiousness and unrest, the common denominator to remove hatred is love.  But how can we show love towards others if we don't love ourselves first?  This is a fact in every relationship - with God, family, friends, neighbors and future/current mates.  On this episode of the S.I.M. Factor, we will have a roundtable discussion of the importance of loving yourself and helping to be made whole.  My co-host is Angela D. Valentine, founder of the Virtuous Businesswomen's Network and co-author of the soon-to-be best selling book "A Single Perspective: Every Woman's Journey to Wholeness."  I am your host, Tonja E. Withers, founder of The S.I.M. Factor (Singles in Ministry) and co-author of the same book.  This book is a refreshing and candid book on singleness written from a single and married woman's perspective and rooted in the Word of God. Let this book spark conversations among all women. As we share our experiences with each other, may every woman find her path to healing and wholeness!

What Does a Leader Do When They Are Blinded By Loyalty?   Yes, willingness, commitment and loyalty is important when you are a member of a church.  However, what does a leader do when the spirit of Korah tries to take over the visionary's vision for the church AND due to how long, loyal and committed  a member has been, the leader cannot - or will not - face the reality of that kind of betrayal?  Especially coming from their ministerial board?    Whether you are a mega church, store-front church or starting a church from home, the fact is that the spirit of Korah can rise up in church from individuals leaders least expects.  Tune in to find out how to prepare yourselves when this spirit arises!

You are probably asking "what does this have to do with church?"  The answer: "EVERYTHING!"  Church family is just as much of a relationship as a marriage or a friendship.  What are the 3 key componets of a relationship?  Tune in and find out...