They Talk Sex
They Talk Sex
Elle Stanger, CSE
Certified Sex Educator and adult entertainer Elle Stanger hosts weekly guests to discuss common sexuality topics, including non-monogamy, STI’s, sex education, jealousy, pleasure, relationships and more.
The Sex in Public (Book) Episode
Angela Jones is a former sex worker, a Professor of Women, Gender, and Sexuality Studies in New York. Their newest book is called "Sex In Public", and we talk about their research about race, sex dolls, respectability politics and so much more. THANK YOU for a great fifth season, and have a happy summer!!!
Jun 16
1 hr 6 min
The Tech and Sexuality Episode
Let’s talk tips for playing or working online and with ever-changing technology. As a lawyer, digital policy activist and community organizer, with the Electronic Frontier Foundation, Paige Collings works to dismantle systems of oppression. Check out EFF.org for more info on adapting to state surveillance and corporate restrictions stifling marginalized communities - and most of us.
Apr 21
1 hr 13 min
The Disability Rights and Sexuality Episode 2
Let’s create supportive environments where individuals feel empowered to explore complex topics and perspectives, like queer imposter syndrome or STI disclosure. Everyone needs advocacy and especially queer and disabled communities. Are you a clinician or healthcare provider? Even better to talk with Lena Peak, MSW, CSE.
Apr 7
55 min
The Ex-Seventh Day Adventist and Sexuality Episode
Our guest grew up in a fundamentalist Seventh Day Adventist church and led a risky life of rebellion after she left it. High powered jobs and risky hookups shaped Melissa Duge Spiers before she learned that her father was a serial child predator shielded from the church, and thus began another stage in her reconstruction of self. Let’s talk about her memoir; called “Holy Disobedience - Sex, Sin, and Secrets in the Biggest Church No One Knows”.
Mar 31
53 min
The Somatic Pleasure Episode
Our guest is a male provider of touch to women clients. He has worked as a surrogate partner, coach and more. Let's talk about clients, and attachment, and our own personal relationship tips and pitfalls.
Mar 16
58 min
The Brothel Discussions Episode
Miss M has worked in sex in a variety of ways, but never a brothel. Let’s talk about the pros and cons of sugaring, escorting, companion and dominatrix work - and why sex workers tend to prefer decriminalization instead of legalization models, when given the option. We’ve also got safety and pleasure tips for everyone!
Mar 9
1 hr 4 min
The Pornmaker and Intimacy Episode
Sinn Sage is an an Adult Video Hall of Famer, who offers reflections and advice for people who want to make their own materials and seek to understand the market. Let’s talk about how years of pornmaking has lended insight into intimacy and the politics between touch and advocacy.
Feb 17
1 hr 15 min
The Girl Sex and Storytelling Episode
This is a pleasure-centric episode! Learn some tips for pleasing people with vulvas, and get an insider’s idea of different ways to play. Allison Moon talks sex geek stuff like lesbianism, theater, and sexual skills.
Feb 3
1 hr 2 min
The Weird History and Sexuality Episode 2
Kaytlin Bailey is a comedian and former escort who founded a nonprofit organization that uses storytelling to advocate for human rights. She produces conferences and podcasts episodes and is touring The Oldest Profession Live Show now! Let’s talk about 10,000 years of sex work in history.
Jan 11
1 hr 5 min
The Female Pain and Pleasure Episode
Suzannah Weiss is an American sexologist and author of “Eve’s Blessing”, which discusses how people with vulvas can lead pleasurable lives in a world that normalizes their pain, specifically related to sex, childbirth and menstruation. This book is for gender diverse people, and is not a critique of the Bible, but a more sex-positive re-imagining of it. Let’s talk!
Dec 23, 2025
58 min
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