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Théa Beaury
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Comparison
43 minutes Posted Feb 11, 2021 at 10:30 am.
= “I feel like I’ve always been drawn to the ways other people do things”
= “I feel like I could be doing more”
= “Comparison is the surface of the problem, to fix it, you need to work on all the underlying insecurities”
= “Comparison is the manifestation of deeper insecurities”
= “Comparison keeps you on your toes and prevents you from getting too comfortable”
= “Growing up, you get to know the world on a deeper level”
= “I used to think everything was perfect, and when I realised it wasn’t, I understood that I didn’t need to be perfect either”
= “I got so busy that at the end of the day I knew that I had done everything humanely possible for me, and that was enough”
= “Somebody else’s beauty is not the lack of your own”
= “There’s room for so many smart people in the world”
= “Stop trying to be interesting and start being interested” (@spencer.barbosa)
= “I know how much I did”
= “These people I idealised weren’t perfect themselves”
= “If my friends are succeeding, I shouldn’t be ashamed of being myself around them, I can be inspired instead”
= “There’s so much hurt inside of us”
= “Comparison leads people to think that those next to you are so much more”
= “Since we’ve become so debilitated, it leads us to take everything so personally and get defensive”
= “Working on myself made me care less about other people”
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Hey there! In this week’s tea talk I share my peach-blueberry tea in the iconic green mug. In my life update, I navigate school, social life, breakdowns, and the future. I introduce the topic of comparison with a few disclaimers, approaches, and the episode’s structure. Then, I share my story growing up, personal distinctions, intelectual realisations, and my thoughts on the typical advice. Next, I talk about how things improved for me: focusing on myself, appreciating others’ beauty, and positive affirmations. I move on to reflecting on today’s society: how hurt we are and how we can fix it. I wrap up with my takeaways and share my current favourites in routines, driving, and nail care.
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CHECK OUT THE THINGS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE (IN ORDER OF APPEARANCE):
Listen to my episode on self worth (On Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/episode/2WsqikIHbrj7qyZnAFrkli?si=ilZyttP8Tl2BabeOZorAZw
TikTok about confidence and being interested: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMedeHTc6/
Listen to my episode on toxic friendships (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/episode/2R23Ex7NadxPLRkYFbF4ol?si=I83sGc6JSQ-clU_ivHnJRQ
Check out @versaci podcast (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/0pFvE6QV9RbqbeCINH2D9f?si=hgDugdFdT3WIrOjLMQ_CrQ
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