In this episode, we explore the idea that children should never need to earn our love, but rather they should rest in our love. We often focus too much on the negatives, critiquing and correcting our children, rather than simply loving them for who they are. 

In this episode, we talk about how maturity is not something that can be taught, but rather it is something that has to be demonstrated through actions. 

In this episode, we delve into the importance of being present as a father and building strong relationships with your children. We discuss the value of putting in the work to nurture those relationships and how it can positively impact your family dynamic.

In this episode of the podcast, Matt Gubb and Brian Tande share their insights and experiences on how to navigate holiday expectations as a parent. We all want to make the holidays special for our children, but it can be challenging to balance traditions, family dynamics, and our own values and beliefs.

Part 3 with guest, Matt Praetzel.   In this final part Matt shares a very painful experience that he and his wife  went through and are still going through.  About 10 months go his wife was  pregnant, in her 2nd trimester and they lost their baby.  Matt shares some emotional details of that experience and how they have found some healing through community and walking through all the emotions as a family. 

Part 2 with guest, Matt Praetzel.  In this part, Matt shares what it was like growing up with a dad who worked  a lot while at the same time Matt felt loved by his dad.  He shares what his dad did to make him feel that way.  Matt also talks about some struggles he went through in his teen years and how he has overcome them. 

On this episode Brian has a guest, Matt Praetzel. Matt is a member of the Zero Seconds Community and a founder of a non-profit organization Mission 91.  In part one they talk about Matt's Jiu Jitsu journey and the mission of Mission 91. 

On this episode Matt and Brian discuss what it would be like to be with your child in a life threatening situation and how that would change perspective.  

On this episode Matt and Brian discuss Fathers Day  and expectations as parents.

Matt & Brian discuss the zero seconds app and how its being used to challenge dads to become more engaged with their kids.