Hello. This was a quick definition of what I mean by Upper Class. I equate the highs and lows of society with Income not your condition at birth. 

Women over 40 must be careful of our money and health during this time in America. Keep a reserve account and do not discuss your financial affairs with anyone outside of tax attorney and Insurance carrier. Women live longer than men so let him provide for you. 

Go where you are praised not ridiculed. Income + Assets = Wealth