They won't teach you in school that WHEN you start to experience some wins and taste a little success that your friends will become your enemies.  And then when this happens, YOU begin to think something is wrong and then you let off the throttle, you'll turn down your thermostat and you'll slow back down just to make THEM more comfortable.  Fuck that.  Lets dissect what happens when you start growing and start leaving them in the dust.  What's normal, what to expect, how to handle it and how to dominate the dynamic. .