
"I'm sorry for your loss, but she's in a better place now." For weeks after my wife passed, those words rang hollow. My pain was so great that I couldn't appreciate that Roz really was in a better place. My attention was fixed on the temporal rather than the eternal. Most emotional pain we feel after loss is like that -- fixated on the temporal. But as we learn to see the unseen reality (the eternal), we can regain joy even in the midst of pain. Join me for Today's Daily Word & Prayer to ...
Sep 4
18 min

I come to you today from Roz's art studio, where she had some unfinished art projects. It's sad for me to see these, but I think God left them as a reminder of the importance of preparing for the end of life and realizing I don't have forever to accomplish what He's given me to do. Do you have unfinished business? Do you live with the realization that your race will one day be finished -- your life will be over? Join me for Today's Daily Word & Prayer to learn more..
Sep 3
19 min

It's hard to be happy if your life has no purpose. Traumatic loss rocks our lives and can rob us of any sense of purpose we previously had. So, how do we discover, or rediscover, purpose once we've been through such a life-altering experience? The answer might be simpler than you realize. Join me for Today's Daily Word & Prayer to learn the answer.
Sep 2
18 min

Losing my wife closed a big chapter of my life. Looking back on memories, both pleasant and painful, makes me feel older. Do you want to get old? Most of us don't. But life happens, and God has a purpose for us even when age requires us to make changes. Join me for Today's Daily Word & Prayer to learn more.
Sep 1
22 min

If you've suffered great loss, you don't "move on" from it, nor does your life ever get "back to normal." You have a wound that will be with you the rest of your life. But that wound need not be debilitating. Rather, we integrate our pain and our loss into our life story as we move forward. I'm trying to do this, and I believe I will have a story to tell that will benefit others suffering through painful loss. I made progress in this integration this weekend; join me for Today's Daily Word &a...
Aug 31
17 min

Preparing for death is about a LOT more than writing a will and other end-of-life documents. Having recently lost my wife, I now believe that preparing for the grief and heartache of loss is far more important than how to distribute your financial assets. If you're married, you have a 50% chance of experiencing this terrible pain. Some people never recover from it. Join me for Today's Daily Word & Prayer as I share four ways you can prepare for this dreadful experience.
Aug 28
21 min

Suffering loss is painful. It's only human to grieve over it. Some people get stuck in their grief, and it sours them for the rest of their lives. Others become sweeter through their painful struggles. In Today's Daily Word & Prayer, I will share some things I do to help restore happiness into my life that will help you gain insight into what you can also do to restore joy into your life.
Aug 27
22 min

When traumatic life events, such as the loss of a loved one, occur, I believe we need to let the grief do its work. The pain has a purpose and can make you a better person. But if we're not careful, the pain can master us and we never recover so as to move forward. Sometimes wet need to make choices that will help us overcome the pain. Join me for Today's Daily Word & Prayer as I share one of those choices I made yesterday.
Aug 26
18 min

It's been two months since Roz passed. I've been flooded with emotions that I'm not used to . It's been the toughest two months of my life. Join me for Today's Daily Word & Prayer as I give an overview of some of these feelings and share why I'm beginning to see some light at the end of the tunnel.
Aug 25
18 min

What do you do with regret after losing a loved one? They're gone, and now you can't correct or make right something you said or did, or didn't say or do. It's too late. These feelings can haunt you with guilt and lead to self-condemnation. There is a way out! I discovered it three days ago! Join me for Today's Daily Word & Prayer to learn how I found freedom from my regrets.
Aug 24
11 min
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