The Thought Spot
The Thought Spot
Irene
A safe space for neurodivergent souls to feel understood and represented. This is where I give advice on how we can embrace our Autism and empower ourselves with our neurodivergencies. Here I look to be vulnerable and honest. Thanks for being present with me.
How can you tell when you're beginning to trust yourself more?
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Jan 10, 2024
20 min
an Autistic's take on your 'aita' scenarios
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Dec 19, 2023
35 min
Reacting to Unhelpful Advice
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Dec 12, 2023
27 min
Dressing for Sensory Sensitivities
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Dec 5, 2023
25 min
let's learn about PDA autism together
♑𝗠𝗬 π—˜π—§π—¦π—¬ 𝗦𝗛𝗒𝗣♑ Rest & Regulation Guided Workbook for Neurodivergents https://www.etsy.com/listing/1550174351/ Discovering your Masks ADHD & Autism Workbook https://www.etsy.com/listing/1333179566/ ADHD & Autism Uncovering Your Stims Workbook https://www.etsy.com/listing/1263026080/ ADHD-friendly Weekly Planner Β· Helps with Executive Dysfunction https://etsy.me/3NigpLR β™‘π—’π—‘π—˜ 𝗒𝗑 π—’π—‘π—˜ π—–π—’π—”π—–π—›π—œπ—‘π—šβ™‘ https://selfembark.com β™‘π—–π—Όπ—»π—»π—²π—°π˜ π˜„π—Άπ˜π—΅ 𝗺𝗲♑ 🌱 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@irene_selfembark 🌿 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/self_embark/ 🍊 Self Empowerment Coach: https://selfembark.com Tik toks: https://www.tiktok.com/@erinrackham/video/7290926309436378410 https://www.tiktok.com/@anautisticguide/video/7201328282590088491 https://www.tiktok.com/@mynameis.april/video/7296680922429066497?q=pda%20autism&t=1700174827303 https://www.tiktok.com/@audhd_formerteacher/video/7253062837310901550?q=pda%20autism&t=1700174827303 Article: https://theactgroup.com.au/pathological-demand-avoidance/#:~:text=Pathological%20Demand%20Avoidance%20is%20a,causing%20meltdowns%20and%20violent%20outbursts. Timestamps: Intro 00:00-02:00 What is PDA 02:01-04:14 Social Constructs 04:15-08:34 Inconsistent Expectations 08:35-11:04 Contradicting Roles 11:05-12:06 Nonsensical Rules 12:07-14:45 Compliance 14:46-24:03 Consistency 24:04-30:09 Tik toks 30:10-51:09 Wrap up 51:10-52:25
Nov 28, 2023
52 min
Autism & why we can sometimes struggle with hygiene🫧
πŸŽͺ𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐝𝐞: yourparade.com/THOUGHT40 π‚π¨ππž: π“π‡πŽπ”π†π‡π“πŸ’πŸŽ for 40% off sitewide (does not apply to 70% off sale) Intro 00:00-00:05 Parade 00:05-01:28 Dispelling Shame 01:29-02:50 Childhood 02:51-09:09 Sensory Struggles 09:10-12:42 Adulthood 12:43-19:22 My Accommodations 19:23-24:52 Wrap up 24:53-26:01 ♑𝗠𝗬 π—˜π—§π—¦π—¬ 𝗦𝗛𝗒𝗣♑ Rest & Regulation Guided Workbook for Neurodivergents https://www.etsy.com/listing/1550174351/ Discovering your Masks ADHD & Autism Workbook https://www.etsy.com/listing/1333179566/ ADHD & Autism Uncovering Your Stims Workbook https://www.etsy.com/listing/1263026080/ ADHD-friendly Weekly Planner Β· Helps with Executive Dysfunction https://etsy.me/3NigpLR β™‘π—’π—‘π—˜ 𝗒𝗑 π—’π—‘π—˜ π—–π—’π—”π—–π—›π—œπ—‘π—šβ™‘ https://selfembark.com β™‘π—–π—Όπ—»π—»π—²π—°π˜ π˜„π—Άπ˜π—΅ 𝗺𝗲♑ 🌱 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@irene_selfembark 🌿 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/self_embark/ 🍊 Self Empowerment Coach: https://selfembark.com
Nov 15, 2023
26 min
let's explore the abstract idea of how being Autistic is inherently linked to Ego Death
🍡𝐌𝐚𝐠𝐒𝐜 𝐌𝐒𝐧𝐝: https://www.magicmind.com/thoughtspot IRENE20 gets you up to 56% off your first subscription for the next 10 days tiktoks: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRv1TLN7/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRv1aTrY/ Timestamps: Intro 00:00-03:06 Magic Mind 03:07-05:13 What is Ego Death? 05:14-06:02 Negative impacts of no Ego 06:03-07:05 Ego Death in childhood 07:06-09:27 Fear of being perceived 12:48-13:42 Painfully self-aware 13:43-15:23 Links to masking 15:24-15:56 Links to BPD 15:57-16:52 Being perceived accurately 16:53-17:43 Part of survival 17:44-20:13 Scapegoating 20:14-21:50 Questioning your reality 21:51-21:41 Positive effects 21:42-30:14 Closing thoughts 30:15-33:00 ♑𝗠𝗬 π—˜π—§π—¦π—¬ 𝗦𝗛𝗒𝗣♑ Rest & Regulation Guided Workbook for Neurodivergents https://www.etsy.com/listing/1550174351/ Discovering your Masks ADHD & Autism Workbook https://www.etsy.com/listing/1333179566/ ADHD & Autism Uncovering Your Stims Workbook https://www.etsy.com/listing/1263026080/ ADHD-friendly Weekly Planner Β· Helps with Executive Dysfunction https://etsy.me/3NigpLR β™‘π—’π—‘π—˜ 𝗒𝗑 π—’π—‘π—˜ π—–π—’π—”π—–π—›π—œπ—‘π—šβ™‘ https://selfembark.com β™‘π—–π—Όπ—»π—»π—²π—°π˜ π˜„π—Άπ˜π—΅ 𝗺𝗲♑ 🌱 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@irene_selfembark 🌿 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/self_embark/ 🍊 Self Empowerment Coach: https://selfembark.com
Nov 6, 2023
32 min
Dispelling Autistic Stereotypes pt 2 Β· Infantilization, savants, anti-social
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Nov 2, 2023
15 min
Dispelling some Autism stereotypes β€’ We CAN make eye contact β€’ We CAN empathize
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Oct 26, 2023
19 min
Seeing the rheumatologist, TMJ replacement, chronic pain, moving againπŸ¦‹
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Oct 18, 2023
16 min
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