People seem to always build themselves up for such high maintenance and needs which they can never truly maintain financially or socially. They never take the action to secure their finances or social statuses, never take action to create for themselves a lifestyle that can support such high maintenance and yet are willing to go through the pain and suffering that comes afterwards. Then when they can’t have it they go into debt, get angry and upset, break rules and do things which gets them into more problems to try and maintain. Either put in the work to support your high maintenance or reduce your lifestyle down to meet your earning and capacity.Find out how you should live with others in your community and neighbourhood so that you are not influenced to create an unhappy lifestyle out of fears, cultural narratives and want of status.