If you’re someone who meets a lot of people but your relationships don’t last or it gets boring very quickly. The problem is value. You may be someone who gains a lot of initial attention but once you go deeper into the relationship and find out more about each other, you realize there’s nothing beyond the attention. You need to build attraction. This can ONLY be done by developing value beyond your outer appearance. There are many attractive people with not so attractive partners and they are extremely happy. Then there are some where the partner ends up cheating or wanting to end it because they are not connecting on a deeper level. If you find yourself in this type of dilemma it means you need to develop beyond your looks.

You need to stop feeling like you deserve something because your appearance is a valuable reward for someone to be with you. When you think like this you stop yourself from developing real value. You stop looking to grow smarter, you stop taking risks, trying new things and you gain no passion.