Finding a life partner seems so difficult for many people. They much prefer to wait for a person to fall into their lap. They wish someone they like would talk with them and wait as long as they can for the easy pickings and the perfect opportunity to talk to someone. All because of fears of shame and embarrassment. What do you need to do to realize, you either choose who you want to be with or you're going to be left with a selection of choices forced by situations and accidents that most probably isn't what you want but have to accept. Fear can be a great motivator but it can never be a means to remain happy.