The Show UP Dad
The Show UP Dad
David Mendonca
As Fathers, we sometimes underestimate the influence we wield in our homes. Our Passion is to "Ignite the Fire for Father Engagement". What would your life be like if you felt celebrated rather than merely tolerated at home? As a father, I have experienced the void created by my absence. I know what it's like to chase success in the workplace while your family falls to second place. This is a podcast for Hard working Fathers looking to level up the Fathering skills and be more than just a paycheck or provider for the home.
The Shocking Origin of the Jezebel Spirit—What Every Christian Must Know
Most discussions around the Jezebel spirit miss the mark. Pastor Craig Caster shatters the misconceptions, revealing its true origin rooted in spiritual warfare — not just a demonic label, but a call to awakening. If you’re tired of being deceived and ready to understand how this spirit influences women, men, and the church, this episode is your breakthrough.Explore how Jezebel’s roots stretch back to Genesis and the rise of idolatry, rebellion, and manipulation — all tactics Satan used then, and still uses today. Pastor Craig shares eye-opening insights on Satan’s three primary lies: doubting God's Word, denying consequences, and embracing independence from His authority. You’ll discover how these deceptions fuel not just the spirit of Jezebel but the chaos we witness in families, churches, and communities.We break down real, tangible strategies to combat this spirit—how to disciple women, defend your marriage, and confront spiritual blindness. Pastor Craig emphasizes the biblical truths that expose the devil’s schemes and empower believers to stand firm. If you want to protect your loved ones, recognize the lies, and reclaim authority over your spiritual life, this is essential listening.In a culture obsessed with self-reliance and rebellion, understanding the spiritual warfare behind Jezebel isn’t optional—it’s vital. This episode will ignite your faith, refine your discernment, and equip you to confront evil with truth. The spiritual battle is real, but victory is available when you know your authority in Christ.Are you ready to break free from deception? To see past the lies and step into biblical victory? Then don't miss this episode—your spiritual awakening starts now.
Jun 28
59 min
What Cain and Abel Teach Us About Jealousy and Envy with Jacob Ryan Gustafson
Most Christian music sounds the same—until now. Jacob Gustafson, a firefighter, singer, and powerhouse storyteller, drops truth bombs in a way that hits your heart, challenges your faith, and pushes you to live boldly. His latest song, Cain and Abel, is more than a biblical warning—it's a wake-up call for the modern man craving authenticity and real spiritual strength.In this fiery episode, Jacob shares how his journey from a rough past to a victorious faith inspired him to create music that doesn't hold back. You’ll discover how biblical stories are powerful warnings for today’s struggles—jealousy, envy, and the fight to remain faithful when life’s fires threaten to consume us. He unpacks the profound lessons from Cain and Abel, Job’s suffering, and walking on water—reminding us that our trials are opportunities for divine growth.We break down:How to interpret biblical warnings and turn them into practical modern-day revelationsThe importance of staying in God's Word to avoid spiritual driftThe raw, relatable truth about the struggles of sobriety, stress, and the line between faith and vulnerabilityWhy living lives of integrity, fueled by truth and boldness, can transform your entire family and communityThis isn't just another Christian artist sharing lyrics—it's a call to awaken your spirit, confront your shame, and step into the power God intended for you. Perfect for fathers, first responders, leaders, or anyone hungry for authenticity and spiritual revival. If you're tired of superficial faith—and ready to walk in real power—this episode will hit home.Jacob Ryan Gustafson is a passionate singer-songwriter, a devout father, and a voice for men who refuse to settle for “good enough” faith. His mission? To inspire a generation to live loudly, love fiercely, and walk boldly in God's warnings and promises.Are you ready to stop surviving and start thriving—by the truth that sets you free? Hit play, step into your calling, and let this episode ignite the fire within.
Jun 15
43 min
Why Modern men are lost without Biblical Identity and how to find yours with Travis and Pastor David
Most men are living like they’re in a fog—lost, overwhelmed, and disconnected from their true purpose. But what if the key to transformation isn’t just in pounding the pavement or hustle, but in real biblical discipline and radical faith? Travis Ala, a former Marine and SWAT leader turned purpose-driven mentor, pulls back the curtain on what it takes to lead with integrity, humility, and a fearless heart rooted in God’s truth.In this episode, you’ll discover how faith deeply influences leadership—how to stand firm when the world says falter. Travis shares his raw journey from chaos to clarity, revealing the power of discipleship, accountability, and understanding your true identity in Christ. He cuts through the noise about masculinity, showing you how biblical principles can empower you to love well, lead courageously, and own your role as a spiritual protector and provider.We break down: the biblical blueprint for marriage and fatherhood, how to recognize real authority, and why authentic strength means embracing both righteous anger and compassionate love. Travis dives into how spiritual warfare is more subtle—and more powerful—than many realize, and how understanding the voices of God, the enemy, and your own sin nature can be your ultimate weapon.Why does so much of our culture push us into passivity and confusion? Because we’ve lost sight of our divine purpose, and the consequences are devastating. But here’s the truth—you’re not too far gone. You can rebuild, restore, and lead your family like never before—if you understand the biblical principles that hold everything together.This isn’t just talk—this is real, raw, and relevant. It’s perfect for men tired of the chaos, longing for clarity, and ready to step up as leaders in their homes, churches, and communities. Whether you’ve fallen, failed, or simply forgotten your worth—listen. Your transformation begins now, with a renewed mind, a faith that acts, and a heart that’s committed to God’s ultimate plan.Are you ready to stop existing and start leading with purpose? Your call to authentic masculinity starts here. Step into the truth. Hit play and become the leader God has designed you to be.
May 24
58 min
Family Through Lines: Timeless Wisdom for Today's Chaos with Dr Michael Whitaker
SummaryIn this episode, Dr. Michael Whitaker shares insights on navigating modern parenting challenges in a rapidly changing world, emphasizing the importance of timeless values, effective communication, and digital literacy for raising resilient children.Key TopicsImpact of AI on family and educationEffective communication strategies for parents and childrenUsing timeless family values as a guiding compassGuest NameDr. Michael Whitaker
May 10
51 min
The Shocking Spiritual Warfare That Changed a Man’s Life Forever
Most believers miss the true power of transformation because they’re caught up in religion, not relationship. Winston Ledger’s story will shake your foundations—and ignite a fire inside you to truly witness Jesus.From growing up disconnected from God, battling demonic warfare, to a life-changing encounter that revealed the supernatural realm—Winston’s journey is raw, real, and deeply relatable. He shares how spiritual warfare, fear, and deception tried to keep him blind, but God's mercy opened his eyes—literally—leading to a radical life of faith, surrender, and purpose.Discover the unfiltered truth about demonic activity in homes, the false doctrines that keep believers powerless, and the vital importance of trusting God's Word, not man’s versions.
Apr 26
1 hr 1 min
The Journey of Redemption: Empowering Fathers to Embrace Authenticity with Jason Lyle
In a world where fatherhood often comes with unrealistic expectations and societal pressures, the Show Up Dad podcast offers a refreshing perspective on the importance of authenticity in parenting. In a recent episode, Pastor Dave Mendonca and men's coach Jason Lyle dive deep into the struggles and triumphs of fatherhood, emphasizing the critical role of self-awareness and personal growth in becoming the best version of oneself.They explore topics such as nervous system regulation, the significance of obedience in faith, the dangers of a licentious mindset, and the necessity of breaking free from a victim mentality. The conversation emphasizes the importance of meditation, breath work, and self-love as tools for spiritual growth and connection with God.
Apr 13
46 min
From Struggles to Faith: Journeyman Lineman Richard Dixon's Journey
In the latest episode of the Show Up Dad podcast, host Pastor David Mendonca welcomes Richard Dixon, a remarkable father and follower of Christ. Richard's journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a lineman is filled with trials, triumphs, and the unwavering support of faith and family. Join us as we delve into Richard's inspiring story and discover the profound lessons he has learned along the way.Conclusion: Richard Dixon's story is a testament to the power of perseverance, faith, and the importance of family. His journey from a troubled childhood to a fulfilling career as a lineman illustrates the impact of determination and the support of a loving community. Key takeaways from Richard's journey include the importance of seeking help, prioritizing family, and never losing sight of one’s goals despite the obstacles.
Mar 30
58 min
Redefining Family: A Christian Perspective on Feminism and Faith
SummaryIn this episode of the Show Up Dad podcast, Pastor David Mendonca welcomes Haley Rochelle, a business owner and Air Force veteran, to discuss the importance of accountability, resilience, and personal growth from a Christian perspective. Haley shares her journey from a challenging upbringing to finding faith and purpose, emphasizing the need for a strong foundation in God for marriages and parenting. The conversation delves into the impact of feminism on family dynamics, the roles of men and women, and the importance of nurturing relationships within marriage. Both David and Haley highlight the significance of understanding one's role in a relationship and the consequences of neglecting these responsibilities.
Mar 15
1 hr 9 min
Roundin Up Real Leadership: Cowboy Wisdom from Pastor David and Ryan Carman
In this episode of the Show Up Dad podcast, Pastor David Mendonca and guest Ryan Carman discuss the importance of leadership in both the home and workplace, emphasizing authenticity and vulnerability. They explore the challenges of modern family dynamics, the impact of divorce on children, and the significance of personal growth through adversity. The conversation highlights the influence of parental behavior on children's choices and the power of words in parenting. They also touch on the importance of faith, the struggle with distractions, and the call to embrace one's uniqueness in life.
Mar 1
55 min
Resilience in Faith: John Pierce's Journey of Redemption and Strength
Introduction:In a world where challenges seem to multiply, the story of John Pierce stands as a beacon of hope and resilience. On this episode of the Show Up Dad podcast, we dive deep into John’s transformative journey that led him from struggles with addiction and divorce to a life of faith and mentorship. Join us as we explore how faith can redefine our identities and relationships, especially in the face of life's toughest battles.Conclusion:John Pierce's journey from adversity to faith serves as an inspiring testament to the resilience of the human spirit. His story reminds us that no matter how far we stray, it’s never too late to return to faith and rebuild our lives. As we navigate our own challenges, may we find strength in community, love, and the unwavering belief that with God, all things are possible.
Feb 8
53 min
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