The Rising Leader
The Rising Leader
Mark J. Silverman
THERE ARE FEW NATURAL-BORN LEADERS Leadership is a learned skill and learning is never-ending. “What got you here won’t get you where you want to go,” is an uncomfortable truth Fast Rising High Achievers run into at every level of their career. In fact, what got you here won’t even help you do your new job effectively. Every step up the ladder requires a new level of leadership and “people skills.” Because “people” are now your job. This podcast is here to help you master skills on four fronts on your way to the senior leadership team. LEADING UP – You are now a trusted advisor. That means you are a sounding board, speak truth to power, and help your CEO get their job done, all while getting your job done. LEADING ACROSS – You are peers are the power players in the organization. This is the team you are on. Your job is to lead from within that team while being a part of it. You are now a student of the Art of Co-opetition. LEADING YOUR TEAM – You’ve spent a career honing your leadership skills and now have an even less direct impact on how things get done. Your success will only come from your team’s success. LEADING YOURSELF – Relentless pressure, ambition, burnout, sleepless nights, and resentments, are the price you may be paying for your lofty position. Mastering your emotions, perspective, health, and relationships are essential to make this fun and sustainable. The conversations, resources, and subject matter experts we will have is designed to help you “level up” in all four of these focus areas. Each week we will tackle a topic that will move you forward in your relationships with your boss, your peers, your team, and yourself. You'll be armed with tools and insights you will use throughout your career and in your personal life.
Maximizing the Impact of a Chief of Staff: Insights from a Top Executive Coach with Laurie Arron
In this week's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Laurie Aron, the founder of Aron Coaching LLC and author of the book "Who Has Your Back? A Leader's Guide to Getting the Support You Need from the Chief of Staff You De...
Jan 10, 2024
32 min
New Year - 5 Levers for Sustainable Success
In today's episode, I dive into the essential levers that can help us achieve sustainable success. I discuss the importance of caring for our energy levels and health, ensuring we have the vitality to tackle our responsibilities. I emphasize the significance of focus and concentration, allowing us to direct our attention where it matters most. I also explore the role of efficiency in our pursuits, finding creative and effective ways to reach our goals. Courage is another key lever pushing us to go beyond our comfort zones and achieve greatness. Lastly, I highlight the importance of having a solid support system, including friends, family, and a team, to help us navigate challenges and reach our full potential. Join me as we explore these levers and discover how they can contribute to our personal and professional growth. "You need courage to go beyond who you think you are, what you think you're capable of, to do more, bigger, better, crazy, amazing things." ~Mark Silverman This Week on Rising Leader: ·     The levers for sustainable success include energy levels, focus, efficiency, courage, and a support system. ·     Pay attention to your relationships and make time for your friends and family. ·     Take care of your health by getting enough sleep, eating well, and exercising regularly. ·     Groundedness and centeredness are essential for navigating a noisy world. ·     Cultivate a sense of spirit or connection to something bigger than yourself. Believing in something greater can provide perspective and help you focus on what truly matters. ·     Prioritize creativity to keep your mind and soul engaged and enhance your problem-solving abilities.  Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through the ranks of your company so fast that you wish you had a manual to becoming an effective leader? Then The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook gets published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and get started on mastering the skills you need to become the leader your team needs you to be. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/the-rising-leader/id1662751786) | TuneIn (https://tunein.com/radio/The-Rising-Leader-p3088211/) |
Jan 3, 2024
8 min
Scaling Success: The TCPS Model for Effective Leadership with Henry Stoever
In this week's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Henry Stoever, a principal at the Brentwood Advisory Group. Henry brings over 30 years of experience realizing growth at public companies and nonprofit...
Dec 27, 2023
28 min
Give Success The Time it Needs
In today's episode, I reflect on my journey from being a sales guy to a successful coach. I share how I started with no resume and faced rejection from every company in Silicon Valley due to my lack of experience. However, I persevered and eventually landed a position at NetApp, one of the fastest-growing companies in Silicon Valley. From there, I worked for other renowned tech companies, building an impressive resume in tech sales. I draw parallels between my sales career and my coaching business, emphasizing the importance of time and hard work in building a credible reputation. I also recount my early days as a waiter at the Four Seasons, where I initially felt terrified and out of my depth. However, with time and dedication, I became a trainer, helping new employees navigate the high-class environment. I encourage listeners to give themselves time to grow and learn, especially when transitioning to new roles or industries. By being patient, earnest, and believing in oneself, one can eventually become an expert in their field. I share my realization of the hard work I put in to reach where I am today and encourage those going through challenging times to keep pushing forward and building their success. "You can't be perfect, and you can't be great from the first minute." ~Mark Silverman This Week on Rising Leader:·     Building a successful career or business takes time and work.·     The importance of sticking around and getting better at what you do.·     Why it's important to let go of old habits and embrace new challenges.·     Why it's unrealistic to expect immediate perfection or greatness in a new role or industry.·     The importance of believing in yourself and having confidence in your abilities.·     Time is a key factor in achieving expertise and becoming a top performer in your field.·     Hard work and going through challenging times are necessary to earn success.·     How to keep moving forward and build your book of business.·      Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through the ranks of your company so fast that you wish you had a manual to becoming an effective leader? Then The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook gets published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and get started on mastering the skills you need to become the leader your team needs you to be. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode,
Dec 20, 2023
8 min
Embracing Enoughness: Finding Wholeness Beyond Achievement
In this week's episode, I had the privilege of diving deep into the topic of self-acceptance and overcoming the never-ending pursuit of achievement with the incredible Dr. Mandy Lehto. We explored the journey of an overachiever, the struggles of not feeling enough, and the transformative power of self-compassion. Dr. Lehto shared her personal experiences and insights, shedding light on the importance of pausing to self-regulate, accepting our perceived flaws, and finding joy outside of achievement. It was a profound conversation that reminded me of the power of embracing our humanity and finding wholeness beyond the confines of success.Dr. Mandy Leto is a renowned executive coach and global leadership development expert with over 15 years of experience working with senior executives at top organizations. She has been featured in Forbes, Fast Company, and Psychology Today and hosts the highly-ranked Enough podcast. Dr. Mandy's journey from being an overachiever to finding self-acceptance and purpose has shaped her unique approach to leadership development. With her deep understanding of the challenges high achievers face, she brings a compassionate and transformative perspective to her work, helping individuals navigate the complexities of leadership and find fulfillment beyond external achievements."The most challenging thing you may ever do is to accept parts of yourself that you feel are unacceptable and unlovable." - Dr. Mandy LetoThis Week on Rising Leader:·     Overachievers often struggle with feelings of not being enough, which can lead to a constant pursuit of achievement and validation.·     The pursuit of achievement can be exhausting and ultimately unfulfilling, as the bar for success keeps rising and the dopamine hit from accomplishments diminishes over time.·     Self-compassion is a powerful tool for transforming self-judgment into self-acceptance. It involves being curious about our feelings, acknowledging them, and finding ways to make ourselves feel better.·     Accepting parts of ourselves that we feel are unacceptable and unlovable can be challenging but is a necessary step towards self-acceptance and growth.·     Pausing to self-regulate when triggered is a superpower. Taking a moment to breathe, gather thoughts, and respond rather than react can lead to more effective and mindful actions.·     It's important to use difficulties as opportunities for growth and learning. Instead of avoiding or resisting challenges, embracing them can lead to personal development and resilience.·     Building emotional capacity is crucial for navigating self-judgment and criticism. Developing the ability to doubt our own thinking and be present with our emotions can lead to greater self-awareness and self-compassion.·     The journey towards self-acceptance and enoughness is ongoing and requires patience, experimentation, and a willingness to embrace imperfection. It's about finding joy and fulfillment outside of achievement and recognizing the value of our authentic selves. Resources Mentioned:* Rising Leader Handbook (to be published in January 2024) - mentioned as a resource by visiting the website www.markjsilverman.com (http://www.markjsilverman.com) and clicking the red button to get an advanced copy of the Executive Summary.* Only Tens - mentioned as a free copy available on the website www.markjsilverman.com (http://www.markjsilverman.com).* The Enough podcast - mentioned as Dr. Mandy Leto's podcast, frequently ranked in the top 100 podcasts.* "Spirituality is the Damnedest Thing" by Jed McKenna - mentioned as a book that Mandy Leto was reading during her journey.* The Handbook for Hard Times - mentioned as a book by Gelong Thubten, a monk,
Dec 13, 2023
45 min
I Got Scammed
In today's episode, Mark shares a personal story of being scammed out of $300 and the valuable lessons learned from the experience. Delving into the destructive power of holding onto resentments and the importance of forgiveness...
Dec 6, 2023
9 min
From NFL Player to Elite Brand Founder: Marques Ogden's Journey
Today, I sat down with Marques Ogden, former NFL player turned inspirational speaker and coach. Marcus shares his powerful journey from success to rock bottom and how he learned the importance of authenticity and teamwork in leadership. With valuable insights and personal anecdotes, Marques reminds us never to take our team for granted and always to listen and learn from others. Get ready to be inspired and motivated by Marques’s story of resilience and growth.Marques Ogden is a former NFL player turned elite brand specialist, inspirational keynote speaker, and host of the Get Authentic Podcast. After a successful career in the NFL, Marques faced personal and financial challenges that led him to bankruptcy and rock bottom. However, he used these experiences to transform himself and become a sought-after speaker and coach, helping others avoid the same mistakes he made. Marques's authenticity and dedication to personal growth make him a powerful force in the world of leadership and motivation."Be better than me. Learn from my mistakes and create a better future for yourself." ~ Marques OgdenThis week on The Rising Leader Podcast:·     The importance of authenticity in leadership and sharing your true story.·     The dangers of ego and arrogance in business and the need to listen to your team.·     The value of teamwork and collaboration in achieving success.·     The power of self-reflection and taking responsibility for your mistakes.·     The importance of aligning your values with your vision for a fulfilling life.·     The impact of personal experiences and struggles in shaping your leadership style.·     The need to constantly learn and grow as a leader.·     The significance of creating a unified vision and never losing sight of the mission and the team.Resources Mentioned: Marques Ogden's (http://www.marcusogden.com/) website:Marques Ogden's app: The Marques Ogden App (available on Android and Apple app stores) Marques Ogden's podcast: Get Authentic Podcast (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-authentic-with-marques-ogden/id1633323257) Marques Ogden's book: "Sleepless Nights: The NFL: A Business and Family" (https://www.amazon.com/Sleepless-Nights-NFL-BUSINESS-FAMILY/dp/1939670055)Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader HandbookDo you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you.In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait!
Nov 29, 2023
23 min
Giving Your Way to Success
Sometime around the 1920s or 1930s, Katherine Hepburn and her parents were lining up to go to the circus. In front of them was a family, and when the father didn’t have enough money to buy his family’s tickets, Katherine’s dad gave him $20. Because that $20 was the money they were going to use to buy their own tickets, Katherine and her parents had to go home—but, on the drive home, they were joyful. Making that family happy gave Katherine and her parents much more than they could get from the circus. This story—about giving and the joy that comes from it—inspires me to think about how a mindset of service and giving value has helped me become successful. In today’s episode, I recount a story from Katherine Hepburn’s childhood and discuss the significance of approaching interactions with a mindset of service, generosity, and providing value. I also underscore the importance of setting healthy boundaries and ensuring your well-being. “In your next meeting—the next time you walk into a room full of people—change your attitude and think about how you can give, be of service, and provide value. Watch it change your career.” - Mark J. Silverman This week on The Rising Leader Podcast: ●     Katherine Hepburn: her childhood and generosity●     The role of giving in professional success●     The importance of providing value before making requests●     Balancing generosity and self-care Resources Mentioned: ●     Book: The Go-Giver: A Little Story About a Powerful Business Idea by Bob Burg and John David Mann Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through the ranks of your company so fast that you wish you had a manual to becoming an effective leader? Then The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Head over to The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and get started on mastering the skills you need to become the leader your team needs you to be. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/the-rising-leader/id1662751786) | TuneIn (https://tunein.com/radio/The-Rising-Leader-p3088211/) | GooglePlay (https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5ibHVicnJ5LmNvbS9mZWVkcy8xNDcwNDM4LnhtbA) |
Nov 22, 2023
7 min
Heart-Centered Leadership with Geoffrey Roche
Geoffrey Roche is the inaugural Director of Workforce Development at Siemens Healthineers and the National Healthcare Practice Executive Advisor at Core Education PBC. A healthcare executive with over 15 years of experience lead...
Nov 15, 2023
37 min
Stop Overcomplicating Leadership
I recently read a review of the Rising Leader Podcast and it made me chuckle. The review explained that, although the podcast’s interview episodes are great, the solo episodes tend to be repetitive. And that’s understandable—I do repeat some of the same themes like a broken record, but for good reason. I always talk about leadership, and one reason for this is that most people tend to overcomplicate it. While I believe leadership isn’t easy—it’s really, really hard, to be honest—it’s actually fairly simple. In this episode, I discuss why leadership—although it’s hard—is simple. I discuss my recent interview with healthcare industry executive, Geffrey Roche, and explain how books and content on online platforms such as LinkedIn overcomplicate leadership. I also outline the components of great leadership and underscore why doing internal work—through staying grounded and reducing stress—is a critical part of being a leader. “Don't overcomplicate leadership. Have the conversations you need to have. Be as honest as you can in those conversations. If you make a mistake, admit it—fix it, right? Make amends.” - Mark J. Silverman This week on The Rising Leader Podcast: ●     Why I never wanted to call myself a “leadership coach”●     How leadership becomes an intimidating job●     Solid relationships, honest conversations, listening, and other foundations of leadership●     Lowering your allostatic load, staying grounded, and doing the internal work as a leader Resources Mentioned: ●     Book: Alisa Cohn: From Start-Up to Grown-Up: Grow Your Leadership to Grow Your Business Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through the ranks of your company so fast that you wish you had a manual to becoming an effective leader? Then The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook officially releases in October 2023, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and get started on mastering the skills you need to become the leader your team needs you to be.  Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/the-rising-leader/id1662751786) | TuneIn (https://tunein.com/radio/The-Rising-Leader-p3088211/) |
Nov 8, 2023
7 min
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