The Project Roots and Wings podcast
The Project Roots and Wings podcast
Scott Holden and Emily Holden
The "Project Roots and Wings" podcast is hosted by husband and wife team Scott and Emily Holden. Scott, Emily and guests share perspectives, opinions and insights on current events and topics ranging from marriage, music, movies, sex, faith and politics...nothing is off limits. The hope is you walk away with more questions than answers. You will not agree with everything we discuss. That is not the goal. The goal is that you are challenged to think better and to understand why you hold certain beliefs or opinions around that topic. The desire of this podcast is to welcome you into the conversations Scott and Emily have around their kitchen table or living room everyday with each other, friends and family. Intro Music by Trent Cokley www.trentcmusic.com/lets-work Email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram @projectrootsandwings Learn more at: www.ProjectRootsandWings.com Support us at: http://projectrootsandwings.libsyn.com/
Episode: 63:  What do Men Need from Each Other in Healthy a Relationship?  A Conversation with the Urban Counselor Dana Lewis.
"As Iron Sharpens Iron….."   Project Roots and Wings helping you create a life and a marriage that are Flourishing!   Today Scott welcomes back his good friend Dana Lewis to the podcast.  Today's topic is a deeper dive into men's mental health.  You can fine our first conversation here. Dana and Scott are both passionate about helping men connect to their heart as well as their head.  This conversation is for men and the women that love them.  It is time to break the negative stereotype and bring this conversation to the light of day.  There are a few men that I trust to be real and raw with and Dana is one of those men.  His passion and heart to break the cycles of black men and people of color is a driving force in all he does. It is a bit confessional, again.  It is Scott's hope and prayer that this podcast encourages you ask yourself some deep questions and reach out for help.     Our Mission: DISCOVER guiding life principles. IMPLEMENT an empowering life vision. CREATE a life that is flourishing.   This mission is a driving force that runs throughout our coaching and mentoring here at Project Roots and Wings.        If you want to set up a time to talk with Dana you can find him at Whole Life Center   You can find Dana on Instagram here  and Whole Life Baltimore here If you are in a crisis mode please reach out to 988 which is a national suicide hotline.       Interested in learning more about coaching with us email Scott at: [email protected] or go to : www.projectrootsandwings.com      
Feb 3, 2023
1 hr 5 min
Best of 2022 - A Journey to a Far Country:  Two men talking about their journey with trauma With Dana Lewis.
Project Roots and Wings building a bridge between who you are and who you are  BECOMING!   "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." Viktor Frankl   "I judge you unfortunate because you have never lived through misfortune. You have passed through life without an opponent—no one can ever know what you are capable of, not even you." Seneca   Today Scott jumps back into the podcast with his good friend Dana Lewis.  He is the CEO of Whole Life Center Baltimore Today's topic is somethings that Dana and Scott are both passionate about and that is men's mental health.  This conversation is for men and the women that love them.  It is time to break the negative stereotype and bring this conversation to the light of day.  There are a few men that I trust to be real and raw with and Dana is one of those men.  His passion and heart to break the cycles of black men and people of color is a driving force in all he does. It is a bit confessional, again.  It is Scott's hope and prayer that this podcast encourages you ask yourself some deep questions and reach out for help.     Our Mission: We help you DISCOVER Guiding Life Principles, IMPLEMENT a Vision that empowers you to ACHIEVE Optimal Performance  and CREATE a life that is Flourishing.   This mission is a driving force that runs throughout our coaching and mentoring here at Project Roots and Wings.    We believe Discovering the road to a life that is thriving Is a journey worth taking.  We help you build the bridge between who you are and who you are BECOMING!   Resources:   You can find Dana on Instagram here    Interested in learning more about coaching with us email Scott at: [email protected] or go to : www.projectrootsandwings.com  
Dec 30, 2022
1 hr 16 min
Best of 2022- Friendship and Fidelity-  Building Blocks for a Healthy Marriage.  A conversation with Roye and Bimi Okupe
"One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and be understood." Seneca   Project Roots and Wings building a bridge between who you are and who you are  BECOMING!   Welcome Back!  Today Emily and Scott welcome Roye and Bimi Okupe to the podcast.  Scott had heard a few of his friends reference these two is passing conversations.  Words like friendly, wise, generous and grounded always came up.  So, Scott knew he had to have them as the first guest of the brand new Project Roots and Wings podcast. These two are the real deal.  There are several moments where Scott and Emily have to take a moment and catch their breath.  Roye and Bimi share the story of how they met and how those formative years laid a foundation built on friendship and fidelity.  These two model a marriage built on and supported by their deep like and even deeper love for one another.  At Project Roots and Wings we believe that our lives and marriages are formed by practicing certain virtues and or principles.  There are several key principles that these two live out almost daily to create a marriage that is flourishing.  Honesty, gratitude, grit, and a growth mindset are just a few that you may recognize as you listen to today's podcast.   Our Mission: DISCOVER guiding life principles. IMPLEMENT an empowering life vision. CREATE a life that is flourishing.   This mission is a driving force that runs throughout our coaching and mentoring here at Project Roots and Wings.    We believe Discovering the road to a life that is thriving Is a journey worth taking.  We help you build the bridge between who you are and who you are BECOMING!   Interested in learning more about coaching with us email Scott at: [email protected] or go to : www.projectrootsandwings.com  
Dec 27, 2022
1 hr 21 min
Episode: 62:  Friendship as the foundation for a Healthy and Sustainable Relationship: More Conversations with Tim and Pauline Wheeler
"A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short." – Andre Marois   Project Roots and Wings helping you create a life and a marriage that are Flourishing!   Today Emily and Scott welcome back their friends Tim and Pauline Wheeler to the podcast.  The last conversation was so good that Scott and Emily wanted them to do a deep and practical dive into what they are doing to help couples create healthy and whole relationships.  On the last episode we heard how and why Tim and Pauline created We Are Just Dating and Just Dating University.  Today these two share practical guidance on how to experience wholeness and health in your relationship.  These principles and strategies will help to go deep and wide in your relationship. These two are the real deal and it was a real treat reconnecting with them.   These two model a marriage built on and supported by their deep commitment and self-sacrificial love for one another. These two model that friendship is foundational for any relationship to flourish. At Project Roots and Wings we believe that our lives and marriages are formed by practicing certain virtues and or principles.  There are several key principles that these two live out almost daily to create a marriage that is flourishing.  Humility, Curiosity and Humor are just a few that you may recognize as you listen to today's podcast. Our Mission: DISCOVER guiding life principles. IMPLEMENT an empowering life vision. CREATE a life that is flourishing.   This mission is a driving force that runs throughout our coaching and mentoring here at Project Roots and Wings.    We believe Discovering the road to a life that is thriving Is a journey worth taking.  We help you build the bridge between who you are and who you are BECOMING!   You can connect with Tim and Pauline on Instagram Tim Pauline   Find out more about what Tim and Pauline are doing: We Are Just Dating Just Dating University Watch every episode of the W Podcast here Get free resources here Interested in learning more about coaching with us email Scott at: [email protected] or go to : www.projectrootsandwings.com
Dec 22, 2022
1 hr 20 min
Episode: 61:  A Blueprint for Success: Conversations about Healthy Dating with Tim and Pauline Wheeler
"You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear." — Oscar Wilde   Project Roots and Wings helping you create a life and a marriage that are Flourishing!   Today Emily and Scott welcome their friends Tim and Pauline Wheeler to the podcast.  Scott and Emily have watched these two build a really strong marriage built on deep friendship.  Tim and Pauline share a desire to help others not repeat some of the mistakes they made during their early dating experiences.  To facilitate this Tim and Pauline created We Are Just Dating and Just Dating University.  Today these two share how wanting to experience wholeness and health in their own relationship led to thousands of individuals and couples being positively impacted.  These principles and strategies will help to go deep and wide in your relationship. These two are the real deal.  There are several moments where Scott and Emily have to take a moment and catch their breath.  These two model a marriage built on and supported by their deep commitment and self-sacrificial love for one another.  At Project Roots and Wings we believe that our lives and marriages are formed by practicing certain virtues and or principles.  There are several key principles that these two live out almost daily to create a marriage that is flourishing.  Vulnerability, selflessness, gratitude, and honest open communication are just a few that you may recognize as you listen to today's podcast.   Our Mission: DISCOVER guiding life principles. IMPLEMENT an empowering life vision. CREATE a life that is flourishing.   This mission is a driving force that runs throughout our coaching and mentoring here at Project Roots and Wings.  Helping you create a Life and a Marriage that are Flourishing!   You can connect with Tim and Pauline on Instagram Tim Pauline   Find out more about what Tim and Pauline are doing: We Are Just Dating Just Dating University Watch every episode of the W Podcast here Get free resources here   Interested in learning more about coaching with us email Scott at: [email protected] or go to : www.projectrootsandwings.com        
Dec 16, 2022
54 min
Episode 60: Commitment, Self-lessness and Communication:  Building Blocks for a Healthy Marriage.  A conversation with Peter and Sarah Andoh-Kesson
"One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and be understood." Seneca   Project Roots and Wings helping you create a life and a marriage that are flourishing!   Today Emily and Scott welcome their good friends Peter and Sarah Andoh-Kesson to the podcast.  Scott and Emily have watched these two build a really strong marriage and partnership in a short amount of time.  Today these two share some of the principles and strategies that they utilized to go deep and wide in their marriage.  So, These two are the real deal.  Scott and Emily have been with these two since the beginning and watching them grow and flourish is such a joy.  There are several moments where Scott and Emily have to take a moment and catch their breath.  These two model a marriage built on and supported by their deep commitment and self-sacrificial love for one another.  At Project Roots and Wings we believe that our lives and marriages are formed by practicing certain virtues and or principles.  There are several key principles that these two live out almost daily to create a marriage that is flourishing.  Vulnerability, selflessness, gratitude, resilience, and honest open communication are just a few that you may recognize as you listen to today's podcast.   Our Mission: DISCOVER guiding life principles. IMPLEMENT an empowering life vision. CREATE a life that is flourishing.   This mission is a driving force that runs throughout our coaching and mentoring here at Project Roots and Wings.    We believe Discovering the road to a life that is thriving Is a journey worth taking.  We help you build the bridge between who you are and who you are BECOMING!   Resources: you can find Peter and Sarah on Instagram: Peter Sarah You can learn more about their business ventures here: Caliber Music Management The Modern PM   Interested in learning more about coaching with us email Scott at: [email protected] or go to : www.projectrootsandwings.com  
Oct 28, 2022
1 hr 4 min
Episode 59 Friendship and Fidelity:  Building Blocks for a Healthy Marriage.  A conversation with Roye and Bimi Okupe
"One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and be understood." Seneca   Project Roots and Wings building a bridge between who you are and who you are  BECOMING!   Welcome Back!  Today Emily and Scott welcome Roye and Bimi Okupe to the podcast.  Scott had heard a few of his friends reference these two is passing conversations.  Words like friendly, wise, generous and grounded always came up.  So, Scott knew he had to have them as the first guest of the brand new Project Roots and Wings podcast. These two are the real deal.  There are several moments where Scott and Emily have to take a moment and catch their breath.  Roye and Bimi share the story of how they met and how those formative years laid a foundation built on friendship and fidelity.  These two model a marriage built on and supported by their deep like and even deeper love for one another.  At Project Roots and Wings we believe that our lives and marriages are formed by practicing certain virtues and or principles.  There are several key principles that these two live out almost daily to create a marriage that is flourishing.  Honesty, gratitude, grit, and a growth mindset are just a few that you may recognize as you listen to today's podcast.   Our Mission: DISCOVER guiding life principles. IMPLEMENT an empowering life vision. CREATE a life that is flourishing.   This mission is a driving force that runs throughout our coaching and mentoring here at Project Roots and Wings.    We believe Discovering the road to a life that is thriving Is a journey worth taking.  We help you build the bridge between who you are and who you are BECOMING!   Interested in learning more about coaching with us email Scott at: [email protected] or go to : www.projectrootsandwings.com      
Oct 7, 2022
1 hr 21 min
Episode: 58: A Journey to a Far Country:  Two men talking about their journey with trauma With Dana Lewis.
Project Roots and Wings building a bridge between who you are and who you are  BECOMING!   "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." Viktor Frankl   "I judge you unfortunate because you have never lived through misfortune. You have passed through life without an opponent—no one can ever know what you are capable of, not even you." Seneca Today Scott jumps back into the podcast with his good friend Dana Lewis.  He is the CEO of Whole Life Center Baltimore Today's topic is somethings that Dana and Scott are both passionate about and that is men's mental health.  This conversation is for men and the women that love them.  It is time to break the negative stereotype and bring this conversation to the light of day.  There are a few men that I trust to be real and raw with and Dana is one of those men.  His passion and heart to break the cycles of black men and people of color is a driving force in all he does. It is a bit confessional, again.  It is Scott's hope and prayer that this podcast encourages you ask yourself some deep questions and reach out for help.   Our Mission We help you: DISCOVER Guiding Life Principles, IMPLEMENT a Vision that empowers you to CREATE a life that is Flourishing.   This mission is a driving force that runs throughout our coaching and mentoring here at Project Roots and Wings.  We believe Discovering the road to a life that is thriving Is a journey worth taking.  We help you build the bridge between who you are and who you are BECOMING! Resources: You can find Dana on Instagram here  Interested in learning more about coaching with us email Scott at: [email protected] or go to : www.projectrootsandwings.com  
May 27, 2022
1 hr 16 min
Episode: 57: Who are you, Who am I?  Continuing the conversation about Identity
Project Roots and Wings building a bridge between who you are and who you are  BECOMING!   "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." Viktor Frankl   Today Scott shares about the deep thoughts that he has been wrestling with for the last few weeks around the story he is telling himself about himself.  This struggle has been challenging his identity at very deep levels.  This is a story been telling himself for the last thirty years.  It is a bit confessional, again.  It is Scott's hope and prayer that this podcast encourages you to ask yourself some deep questions about who you are.  Strip away the non-essential and find your anchor point.  For Scott it is belief that he is a Son of God.  What's your anchor point?   Our Mission: We help you DISCOVER Guiding Life Principles, IMPLEMENT a Vision that empowers you to ACHIEVE Optimal Performance  and CREATE a life that is Flourishing.   This mission is a driving force that runs throughout our coaching and mentoring here at Project Roots and Wings.    We believe Discovering the road to a life that is thriving Is a journey worth taking.  We help you build the bridge between who you are and who you are BECOMING!   Resources: Interested in learning more about coaching with us email Scott at: [email protected] or go to : www.projectrootsandwings.com    
Apr 11, 2022
26 min
Episode: 56: Whose Story, Which Reality?  Continuing the conversation about Identity
Project Roots and Wings building a bridge between who you are and who you are  BECOMING!   "I can be grateful for my experiences, or I can be worse off because of my experiences and let my experiences be the driver of my life rather than me being the driver of my own experience, and so I don't think that there's any experience you can have that you can't be better off without if you choose to contextualize them in a way that benefits you and makes you better."  Dr. Benjamin Hardy   Today Scott jumps back in to the podcast after choosing to take care of his soul.  Today Scott shares about the slump he hit after learning some things about the story he had been telling himself for the last thirty years.  This is a long time coming.  It is a bit confessional.  Scott provides some context as to why when people have big gains can sometimes self-sabotage.  The inner monologue we are having with ourselves needs to change so that we can overcome and grow into the next iteration of ourselves.   Our Mission: We help you DISCOVER Guiding Life Principles, IMPLEMENT a Vision that empowers you to ACHIEVE Optimal Performance  and CREATE a life that is Flourishing.   This mission is a driving force that runs throughout our coaching and mentoring here at Project Roots and Wings.    We believe Discovering the road to a life that is thriving Is a journey worth taking.  We help you build the bridge between who you are and who you are BECOMING!   Resources:   The Gap and The Gain: The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success   Interested in learning more about coaching with us email Scott at: [email protected] or go to : www.projectrootsandwings.com
Apr 1, 2022
25 min
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