Finding love isn't a contest, or is it? Are you a winner this Valentine's Day?4:40 Valentine's Day has been around for centuries but it's origins might surprise (and horrify you).7:15 Maybe you don't have a "Valentine" to spend the day with, but you probably have one of these thank Leslie Knope. 9:45 Avoid this on Valentine's Day and increase your chances not to be bitter and disappointed.12:00 Set your relationship up for success by having this one conversation. 14:50 Want to avoid the stress of Valentine's Day? According to this research, you're not alone and there's a name for you.17:30 What is the elephant in room when it comes to Valentine's Day? Yep - SEX! Does your sex life need a little spice this Valentine's Day? 21:00 How would focusing on what we have rather than what we don't change Valentine's Day this year?24:00 Are you missing the love notes that God sends throughout the year?27:45 This is the ONE thing that every partner wants you to give them on Valentine's Day - and it's FREE.ResourcesValentine's Day Facts, January 31, 2019, History.com editors https://www.history.com/topics/valentines-day/valentines-day-factsThe Five Love Languages by Gary ChapmanWant to connect with Robin and Rachel?Find them on Instagram here:https://instagram.com/theproblemwithperfect?igshid=9jvum57yip6lInterested in having Robin speak at your next event? Connect with her on Facebook at Robin May Ministrieshttps://www.facebook.com/2330042033706535/posts/2871699789540754?sfns=moor on Instagram at:  https://ww.instagram.com/p/B3lFRS8HELd/Connect with Rachel and her life at the loft:https://instagram.com/rachel__leigh__?igshid=1erbjftzgyje9Email us your thoughts, questions or anything you want us to know at [email protected]