The Problem With Perfect
The Problem With Perfect
Robin May and Rachel Leigh
If perfection is an illusion, why are so many of us chasing it? We live in a world that is constantly telling us we need to be it all and have it all to be worthy. It leads us to hide our imperfections and overcompensate our strengths - and leaves us exhausted. Join hosts Rachel Leigh (a 20-something) and Robin May (who is not 20 something) for meaningful, cross-generational conversations that will leave you uplifted and encouraged about a future freed from the problem with perfect.
Food Guilt & The Holidays With Guest RD Isabelle Bouchard
Food. It’s everywhere! From Thanksgiving to Christmas and even into the New Year, food is at the center of all our celebrations. But for many of us, it’s also the source of fear and guilt. We worry about over indulging and dread the emotions that come with it. So what if this year could be different? What if we could enjoy food and listen to our bodies when they tell us they are hungry and when they are full?In this episode, registered dietitian Isabelle Bouchard tells us how to make this holiday dream come true. Special Guest:Isabelle Bouchard, Bamboo Nutritionhttps://www.bamboonutritionrd.com/
Dec 7, 2021
42 min
Major Life Milestones And How They Change Us
In this episode, we are celebrating Robin's 50th birthday! We reflect on life's major milestones and how we can learn from them at any age. 
Nov 30, 2021
34 min
How to Find Balance with your Physical and Mental Health
“People overestimate what they can accomplish in a month but underestimate what they can accomplish in a year.” Lexi Johnson of Lexi J WellnessWellness is a complex state of being that combines our physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health.  Getting well is a challenge. Staying well is a lifestyle- one that includes a healthy amount of exercise and good nutrition. But how much exercise is healthy? And how many calories do I need to burn to “feel” healthy? Or is there more to wellness than simple calorie eating and burning?Join us for this interview with Wellness Coach Lexi Johnson to get the answers to these and other questions, as we search for the “perfect” balance with food and exercise. Special Guest: Lexi Johnson of Lexi J Wellness  -> https://www.lexijwellness.com/Lexi's Mission: To create a community of uplifting, driven women with the common goal of self-improvement. We foster a bond of accountability while celebrating each others’ successes along the way. Lexi J Wellness exercises have no physical prerequisite and can be performed at any fitness level with the usage of modifications provided by Lexi. By approaching workout regimens with our physiology in mind, we will understand and anticipate what our bodies demand from us.Watch Lexi's story read the letter she wrote to her dad: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CWCCyuVAw_f/?utm_medium=copy_link
Nov 23, 2021
48 min
Is Your Perfectionism Creating Unrealistic Expectations?
Psychologists tell us that unrealistic expectations form the core of perfectionism. As perfectionists, we expect ourselves to be perfect and are disappointed when we can't meet our unobtainable standards. But our unrealistic expectations don't end there. They likely extend to most areas of our lives- including those around us. Whether it's our ideas about the perfect partner, the perfect date or the perfect family gathering - our quest for perfection might just be doing us more harm than good. Join us for this eye-opening episode, as we hope to leave you resetting your expectations - making you and those around you happier in the process.
Nov 16, 2021
24 min
Why It Feels Like You're Never Enough
Many of us who struggle with perfectionism often find ourselves thinking about how we're not enough. Not smart enough. Not successful enough. Not attractive enough. Not good enough to be loved and fully known. Where do these thoughts come from? Why do they have so much power over us? And perhaps most importantly, is it possible to overcome them?As we tackle this tough topic in this episode, we'll discuss two main reasons why we feel like we're never enough and offer some practical tips for moving forward knowing we are ENOUGH.SHOW NOTES:To listen to the podcast Robin guest hosted on Ten Minute Bible Talks: https://tenminutebibletalks.captivate.fm/episode/349bTo learn more about why we don't ever feel like we're enough:https://www.harleytherapy.co.uk/counselling/feeling-not-good-enough.htmInterested in Compassion Focused Therapy:https://psychwire.com/ask/topics/t552om/ask-paul-gilbert-about-compassion-focused-therapy-cft-https://www.harleytherapy.co.uk/counselling/compassion-focused-therapy.htm
Nov 9, 2021
39 min
How to Disappoint People During the Holidays Without Feeling Disappointed
With the turn of the calendar to November, so comes the holiday season and all the hustle and bustle- and added stress- that comes with it. So what is it about the holidays that make them so stressful? Whose expectations are we trying to meet? And how do simplify the holidays without disappointing someone?In this episode, we tackle these questions and offer some practical and timely insight to help us keep the peace - both internally and with those around us. 
Nov 2, 2021
23 min
How to Move Forward: A Father's Story of Grief and Redemption
“There is always a seed of opportunity planted in the field of despair.”-John Wampler, The Problem With PerfectLizzy Wampler was just 9 years old when she and her parents learned that the aches in her legs were not growing pains. Instead, they were something much worse. Lizzy had osteosarcoma, an aggressive cancerous tumor in her bone, that would take her life just 15 months later. Now nearly four years later, Lizzy’s parents, Jennifer and John Wampler, honor Lizzy’s life by finding the joy in the gift of today and encouraging others to do the same. But how? How did these broken-hearted parents overcome the loss of their baby girl? What did they learn about God and their faith in the process? And what advice would they give to those of us who think we could never survive such suffering? In this special episode of The Problem With Perfect, John Wampler shares his family’s story of how his daughter’s life and death transformed all those who knew her – and how her memory lives on in their passion for others and through Lizzy’s foundation. For anyone who thinks God has given them more than they can handle, please give this a listen and share it with those who need to find hope for tomorrow.Special Guest: John Wampler
Oct 26, 2021
1 hr 3 min
How to Live Authentically Transparent
We've never been more accessible and our lives have never been more on display.  Undeniably, technology has transformed our interactions and shaped the way we communicate. As a result, in some ways, we've never been more connected. Yet in other ways, we've never felt more insecure and disconnected - forever worried about showing others who we really are instead of who we want others to think we are. At the heart of the worry is our fear that if people knew us they wouldn’t like us. And this fear doesn’t just impact our virtual interactions; it shapes what we do and do not allow people to see of us in our everyday lives. It keeps us from genuine vulnerability and transparent dialogue, leaving us isolated from others.In this episode, we tackle what true transparency looks like, try to understand the why behind it, and suggest some tips for living a more transparent (and satisfying) life by being real with ourselves and others.
Oct 19, 2021
30 min
Why Making Decisions is So Hard
Decisions, decisions. What to wear to work. What to say in an email. How to respond to your partner or co-worker. What route to take home from work. How much money to spend on your upcoming vacation.The list of decisions to be made seems never-ending which is why we find ourselves so worn out at the end of the day that something as simple as what to eat for dinner becomes OVERWHELMING?! Psychologists call this feeling decision fatigue and in a post-Covid world where nothing can be automatic, it is plaguing us all - even if we don't know it. In this episode, we discuss the definition of decision fatigue, ways it rears its ugly head in our lives, and suggest some ways we can all be more energized and able to make good decisions. Discussion based on the article originally published by the Wall Street Journal:https://www.seattletimes.com/nation-world/decision-fatigue-why-its-so-hard-to-make-up-your-mind-these-days-and-how-to-make-it-easier/
Oct 12, 2021
30 min
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