Being part of the LGBTQ+ community is a challenging life. People judge, discriminate and bully you. The struggle of expressing yourself with your family is real. But, that is okay.  Whatever is going on in your life, if you are straight, gay, lesbian, or trans it’s OKAY to be who you are! In this episode, we have August Rocha, a beautiful trans man who spreads trans joy over the internet. August shares his story with his family and on TikTok, the emotional response of his family, and his life after coming out. Highlights August as an “EXTRA” child in China The pain and struggle of explaining who you are to your parents Catholic school full of queer people Fighting the silent battles of life The controversial dream before the wedding; and TikTok as the biggest community August had Links Follow August on TikTok @withloveaugust and Instagram @withlove_august. Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @drlulutalkradio Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @drlulutalkradio Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: DrLuluTalkRadio LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ 5 Simple Steps Parents of LGBTQ+ Children Use to Create Loving, Affirming and Supportive Homes: https://www.drlulus5shifts.com/r/a

Love and support are power. They can either make or break a young child’s life. For parents, having these two things can create a big difference in raising their children.  By loving them for who they are and supporting them in what they are going through in life because every beautiful human deserves to be happy whatever gender they take or path they choose to walk.  In today’s episode, we have Bailey Latronica, also known as “baayfree,” who is a magazine writer and a proud genderqueer, to share their very unique, inviting in story. Bailey talks about their childhood liking girls in a tiny town, how ze come out to the whole family, and the initial reaction of people around when they walk out of the closet. They also talk about people’s freedom of their gender, clothing, and life in general. So, if you are a queer or a parent of queer who wants to live a life with embodied experience, then this episode is perfect for you. In this episode, you’ll hear: Bailey’s unexpected comment about Katy Perry The “Trevor Project” Having a loving and accepting dad Living the full embodied experience; and Why does Bailey refer themself as demisexual Links Follow Bailey Latronica on Instagram @baayfree Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parentingInstagram: @drlulutalkradio Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @drlulutalkradio Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: DrLuluTalkRadio LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.

The family has a significant role in building the core foundation of every person's being. Every queer individual for once dreamed of having a family that is supportive, affirming, and loving. And so, having an open rainbow family for a queer is a dream come true. In today's episode, Patrice, also known as "blackiswhoiam" in Tik Tok, shares her stepping-in story. This beautiful human being talks about her childhood, her traumatic relationship experience, and her way of breaking the silence and being a proud black lesbian.  Patrice also shares her rainbow family's acceptance of her true self and how they support each other's journey to discovery.  In this episode, you'll hear: The biggest coming out in the family Busting the closet open and not going back Patrice's first real girlfriend A tribe of women that support each other; and The perverted people with their issues Links Follow Patrice Strachan on Instagram @patricestrachan and TikTok @blackiswhoiam Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @drlulutalkradio Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @drlulutalkradio Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: DrLuluTalkRadio LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.

Most queer folks are afraid of spreading their colorful wings to the world because they feel pressured, unsafe, unsupported, and not celebrated. For Kevin, these are some of the reasons he kept lying, hiding his true self, and exploring in secrecy until one pivotal moment happened to him.  Kevin Shah also known as “Captain Empathy” is a beautiful queer person of color that helps promote empathy and shares that anyone can learn the superpower of empathy and become captain empathy themselves. In this episode, Kevin get really raw and vulnerable in sharing his coming out story, the fear and shame of being seen as gay by his community, the pain of hiding his colorful personality, and the initial reaction of his Indian family to his coming out. He also talks about the importance of being true and having empathy in finding your purpose in life. Highlights Kevin’s secret exploration into his queerness The gay bar incident with his friend Solving the “gay character” problem  The true meaning of unconditional love and celebration Pulse nightclub shooting; and Learn to run away from lying and build a foundation of truth Links To connect and follow Kevin Shah, head to:: LinkedIn: Kevin Shah Twitter: @shahkevin Instagram @kevinshah2018 Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @drlulutalkradio Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @drlulutalkradio Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: DrLuluTalkRadio LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/  

What is your definition of a good person? Does being a good person mean following the rules even if you know inside that you're hiding your true feelings and emotions?  For Megs, being a good person is being and loving yourself. Accept who you are no matter how different and extra you can be. Be a good person to yourself first before being good to others. In this episode, Megs shares her inviting in story, the distress she felt trying to figure out how to navigate her situation as a young queer, her heartbreaks, and the reaction and response of her family to her queerness. She also gives advice to young queers and parents who struggle to accept and love themselves. Megs Pulvermacher is a proud queer, entrepreneur, podcast host, and school psychologist. She is one of the best queer connection facilitators in the game. Meg's dream is to bring the coolest people together to share ideas, think big, and have an incredibly fun time.    Highlights Megs as a badass little queer kid Come out to the family or breakup The safe feeling of disclosing the sexuality Being single as a queer is totally okay; and Self-soothing, self-love, and self-acceptance Links Follow Megs Pulvermacher on Instagram at @megspulvermache and @queerimpactcollective, listen to her podcast @outwhatnowpodcast, and visit Megs website megsthebrand.com Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @drlulutalkradio Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @drlulutalkradio Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: DrLuluTalkRadio LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/

People are always afraid of new things. They are worried that people may judge them for their decision, so they tend to hide their powerful divinity with a mask. But it’s time to end the old pattern and criticism to embrace the new world of queerness and love. In this episode, Johnny and Dr. Lulu talk about the rebirth, transformation, and reclamation of the world that invites and accepts transness and queerness. Johnny also shares his coming out story, his family’s response to his new way of existence, and how he supports beautiful humans with his heart and art.  Johnny Brantley III is a broadway actor, musical comedian, and a proud queer. His dream is for a better world full of love, equity, and harmony. Activism and art are Johnny’s ways of helping society to welcome the new world that accept and love the queer community. Highlights Jonny’s rebirth of transness and queerness Putting on a mask to feel safe from people’s judgment The experiences of indirect homophobia and racism Who is Johnny’s greatest teacher; and The reclamation of the word “queer.” Links Follow Johnny Brantley III on Instagram @johnnyleeb3 and check out his website johnnyb3.com Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.

Every person needs one affirmation from their parents to thrive, and that is “I love you.” No conditions, no judgment, just love. As a mother, Blair always turned to books when she wanted to understand her children’s feelings, but even with the constant searching, she realized that these books didn’t exist outside. Blair Bryan, also known as Ninya, is a proud mother of a queer child and the author of various books, including “When Wren Came Out.” Her ultimate hope in writing this book is for people to read her work with an open heart. In this episode, Blair shares her unconventional story of coming out as a parent of a queer child. She highlights the power of making room for conversation with your child and loving them under no conditions. Blair also talks about her journey of writing books and the biggest learnings she gained to understand her children. Highlights The importance of learning the person’s pronoun How did Blair come up with her book title “When Ren Came Out.” Parents have the same feelings for their children Blair’s story of the rainbow turtle; and Why do people feel ashamed talking about their queer children Links Follow Blair Bryan on Instagram @tealbutterflypress, check out her website tealbutterflypress.com, and grab a copy of her book When Wren Came Out Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.  

LGBTQ health discrimination is a serious topic that needs to be addressed in our society. Every human being has the right and privilege to have better health assistance. Martha De la Paz is a trans woman and an LGBTQ rights and health advocate. She is helping on educating people about sexual orientation and gender identity. In today’s episode, Martha shares her story of coming out and acceptance as a trans woman living in a predominantly Catholic society, the Philippines. She talks about how she met a group of people called Dollhouse that educates her about trans gender. Martha also speaks about LGBTQ health rights and gives her message to the parent and children who are struggling with acceptance.   Highlights Martha’s two instances of coming out The story of “Why doesn't your bag match with your shoes?’’ What are the reasons why LGBTQ health services are lacking; and Her motivation for advocating for LGBTQ rights and health in the Philippines   Links Follow Martha De la Paz on Instagram @_callmemartha Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.

Being different is not seen as a good thing by most people, especially if you are queer, non-binary, and transgender. The feeling of being rejected and the loneliness to be different is so painful. Harmony, aka @yourgaydanceteacher,  is a non-binary and transgender who is rejected by his own family. In this episode, Harmony shares his journey of coming out as a non-binary and a trans-gender. He talks about the painful experience of not being accepted by his family and how he moves forward and shows everyone that every non-binary or transgender human being deserves to be seen, understood, and loved.   Highlights Why trans people are common in the military The difference between gender expression and gender identity Where did she find acceptance for her gender identity What happens when parents of LGBT youth fails to accept their child; and Harmony's message for parents who have difficulties accepting their children   Links Follow Harmony Lee on Instagram @yourgaydanceteacher and visit his website yourgaydanceteacher.com if you want to learn more about self-defense. Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.

Parents' support is like a treasure for children. The parent's love and support make them feel safe, and their acceptance can help them overcome peer pressure and life struggles. Dr. Chinyelu is an ally who accepts and supports the LGBTQ+ community. Dr. Chinyelu is an extraordinary physician, wife, mother, medical student mentor, and co-author of the best-selling book The Warrior Women Project. In today's episode, Dr. Lulu and Dr. Chinyelu talk about the need for parents' acceptance and support of their LGBTQ+ children. Dr. Chinyelu explains how children are very open-minded, love their parents unconditionally, and talk about their amazing contribution to the world.   Highlights Learn to stop venting you're anger to your child The creative contribution of the LGBTQ+ community to the world Why do members of the community try to make themselves invisible How kids actually educate their parents about life; and  The importance of supporting your child   Links Follow Dr. Chinyelu E. Oraedu on Instagram @dr_chy   Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu   Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/   Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.