The Pleasure Seeker
The Pleasure Seeker
Lydia Feldman
This podcast is here to remind you of your natural birthright as a pleasure seeker so you can go create your most vibrant, turned on life.
BONUS: IS The Art of Self-Seduction for YOU?
If You Can't Seduce Yourself... NO ONE Can. The Art of Self Seduction is starting 2.7.22 and I have gotten lots of questions and curiosities regarding this program! Could this one-month pleasure salon be right for you?? YES if you want to: ❤️ understand and TRUST yourself to be in charge of your desire and turn on. ❤️stop WAITING for arousal (that barely comes). ❤️ know HOW to get turned on (and why you're turned off). ❤️TRUST yourself to say what you want (and how you want it). ❤️here are some deets! We start next week! Doors open for pre-partying next week & officially begin 2/7! 4 weeks Small group ✨pleasure mapping ✨fantasy exploration ✨boudoir selfie workshop🤳🏼 ✨solo tantra ✨erotic movement ✨4 group coaching calls ✨ 1:1 coaching for those who sign up by 1/31! ✨plus seductive bonuses! $500 (Seriously, this is a stupid good deal). so grab the link below (or dm me) to get in there!! IT'S GONNA BE SOOOO FUN!!! 🔥 https://lydia-feldman-coaching.mailchimpsites.com/store/products/ac97e9c8-fa84-4545-8109-87a747c1816b?mc_cid=3f713a83ca&mc_eid=d59aa69748
Jan 31, 2022
11 min
53. Let Your DESIRE Scare You!
So often we don't even allow ourselves to imagine, fantasize and WANT what we deeply want... because it feels emotionally risky. But maybe that's a sign that you're tapped into something that actually really fucking matters to you (and this WILL require some growing pains or change). In this episode, I talk about exploring desire and fantasy (including any ole goal you have) in a way that FEELS GOOD. Being honest with your true wants. Letting them scare you. Deciding what you want to create in REAL life. Then the delicate, messy work of allowing negative emotions as you tinker with your fantasy creation. Let your Pleasurescape guide you and evolve your life. XX ALSO, if you're interested in my February small coaching salon: The Art of Self Seduction, click here! 
Jan 26, 2022
19 min
52. Boozy Sex & Dry January w/ Jennie Juechter
This conversation all about boozy sex and sexy booze and snoozy boozy bluesy sex is perfect for the new year. Y'all doin Dry January??  Well in this podcast, I talk with Jennie Juechter, an Activatrix of Aliveness life coach who helps women check their over-drinking and eating habits.  We talk about WHY we want to drink, social anxiety, radical self-ownership, and ultimately the relationship between alcohol and sexual pleasure. If you're curious about how to curate a SEXY AF and INTENTIONAL lapdance-in-my-mouth kind of relationship with drinking (that doesn't leave you sloppy or zonked by 9pm)... LISTEN UP!! Plus Jennie is hella funny.  Check out Jennie on IG (and Follow like a mofo!)  Here's a link to our collab interview we did last fall on her MILF's Droppin the Mic series:  https://www.instagram.com/p/CWBgmoKJaZb/
Jan 4, 2022
39 min
51. Creating a Pleasurescape for 2022
2022 doesn't have to be about willing yourself off bread or cranking out brutally consistent IG posts. Your resolutions don't have to feel dry, repentant, desperate, or *gasp* HARD AS HELL! In fact, it's possible your planning for next year (or next week) can feel delightful, salacious & opulent. So let's start with some basics for pleasurescaping: YES you can have pleasure goals YES the reason you have ANY goal is for the expected pleasure gained from it. YES creating said salacious pleasure CAN BE FUN & surprising (even while hella challenging). YES you deserve EVERYTHING you desire (and more). YES you CAN create it (faster than you think). 🤔😍🤩💋 In this episode I talk about the masculine and feminine pillars to creating A PLEASURESCAPE:   1. Imagination  2. Planning  3. Embodiment  4. Creation  5. Amplification Want to design a sinfully delicious 2022? Meet me in my Zoom Parlor THIS Thursday 12/30 @ 12pm PT. (register free here) Or message me at [email protected] for a 1:1 consultation.  We'll map it out, feeeeeel it and start the courageous work of creating epic pleasure.
Dec 28, 2021
34 min
50. When Fantasy and Nostalgia Hurt
Time to check your imagination!! Does it actually bring more pleasure and connection into your body and life?
Dec 23, 2021
9 min
49. Creating an honest YES for Pleasure with Cassandra Anderson
I'm joined by my lovely and turned-on client Cassandra Anderson as we talk about her journey that started with TON of DIS-trust of her body and desire as broken and subpar.   Now she uses her embodiment practice as a means to ALWAYS check in with her body for what she wants.... and trusts her ability to create it.  Listen on if you want some super practical, easy ways to create a FULL BODY YES to pleasure and intimacy.  ALSO, if getting out of your head and into your body sounds undeniably delicious AND you are ready to take your pleasure to the next level, reach out!   The Embodied Woman group coaching program has just begun (11/15) and there are also spaces in my 1:1 calendar. YOUR PLEASURE IS BEYOND WORTH IT. XO Lydia
Nov 16, 2021
22 min
48. The Art of the FIGHT: How to Embody your Fury with Tosca Necoechea
When I talk about embodiment, I'm not just talking about feeling sexy and relaxed.   I'm talking about befriending and channeling your BIGNESS.  Your frustration and fury, sorrow and untapped desire... your uncanny power & truest self.  In this episode, Tosca Necoechea and I talk about her work and practice of Krav Maga self-defense and her women's fight club in Oakland, Ca.  We talk about combat training as a practical tool for women and more importantly, WHY physicalizing our unsavory emotions in a healthy way is radically therapeutic.  As Tosca puts it, "it's more than just defending yourself; it's about the personal transformation that can occur when you enter your body and befriend the emotions you've been advised to suppress."  #MICDROP  Interested in more ways to EMBODY your bigness and get out of your head? Join my Embodied Woman course this month (November) or send me a message to set up a 1:1 consultation. 
Nov 9, 2021
27 min
47. Embodiment to Feel Better (my process)
We usually think we need to DO something in order to feel better.  Fix something, change someone, make more money, solve a problem...etc. I want to offer that no emotion is "bad"... in fact, we want to be able to feel it, understand WHY we're feeling it, and then let it go (FULLY).  With a little drama as possible.  Here's my process which is SO SO helpful in simply letting myself feel shitty before thought work or blatant numbing out or springing into reaction mode.  If you want more support in learning how to embody your FULL range of self so you can access deeper pleasure and connection, JOIN my new small group coaching program The Embodied Woman.  It's short and sweet, 4 weeks and we'll dive into it ALL: Mindset, Breathwork, Erotic Movement, Intuitive Tapping, and your Orgasmic YES. $500  Starting November 15th, 2021 Message me here for more info!
Oct 25, 2021
25 min
46. Pussy Activated? Here's a sneak peak...
I have a sparkling, amazingly intimate offering just for YOU, woman!! I have just released my self-pleasure Pussy Activation series, and it is sooo 🔥🔥! These 15min guided masturbation audios are designed to connect you deeper to your pleasure and orgasm (of course!) But even better, they start the conversation with your body, desire and deep KNOWING -- Aka your powerfully LIT inner voice and intuition. Your breath Your heart Your pussy power💥 Trusting your body and your own orgasmic energy is the foundation of being a turned on woman. How do I connect to my body? My orgasm? My "pussy wisdom" ?? How do I enhance my orgasm to include my WHOLE body & trust my pleasure? The answer is between your legs 😉 And of course, getting on my early release Pussy Activation list! It's free this month and then goes on sale via my website! Get your free audio pack Now by submitting your info 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼 https://lydiafeldmancoaching.com/contact/ Otherwise, If you're catching this episode after November 1, 2021, Just head over to my website to purchase your Activation Pack~ www.lydiafeldmancoaching.com
Oct 5, 2021
10 min
45. Unlocking Your Erotic Dancer, Interview with Sisters In Motion SF
POLE CURIOUS? Join us for a fun conversation about the power of POLE and Erotic Movement. Today I’m interviewing Jen Pearce and Kerry Anne Aldridge, founders of Sisters In Motion, an S Factor dance and erotic embodiment studio for women in San Francisco. If you’re getting stuck in your head and want to explore embodiment and erotic expansion… Listen UP! Also, find more of their work and class schedule here: https://www.sistersinmotionsf.com/ If you’re listening to this upon release of the podcast, join their free class Saturday, 10/9 at 12pm PT with the promo code “foundation.” Also, check out their variety of classes including a new 8-week Foundations Course for a deep dive into erotic embodiment starting this month. FINALLY, If you haven't seen the Netflix Documentary Strip Down & Rise Up, it's all about S-Factor and the power of sensual movement for women! IT'S SO GOOD!
Oct 2, 2021
47 min
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