The Pleasure Provocateur
The Pleasure Provocateur
Lorrae Bradbury
Immerse yourself in a world where curiosity meets sensuality. Where you empower your pleasure, embrace your desires, and embody your authentic erotic self.Embark on a weekly journey of shattering cultural norms and societal expectations, as we dive deep into the realms of erotic exploration — and unravel the intersection of sex, society, and self-expression. From unearthing kink and non-monogamy, to exploring trauma-informed healing modalities, indulge your pleasure with captivating conversations, expert insights, and accessible tools to cultivate deeper connections and embolden your erotic essence. Join your host, Lorrae Bradbury, erotic embodiment coach and founder of Slutty Girl Problems, in a podcast that empowers the erotically curious to expand pleasure, release expectations, and embody our authentic selves.Get free ebooks, coaching, and workshops at www.sluttygirlproblems.com and www.lorraejo.com 
11. Playful and Provocative: Exploring Joy and Eroticism Through Art with Julie Mollo
Where sensuality and creativity flourish, inhibitions fade, and self-expression takes center stage – meet artist Julie Mollo, who creates a lively world of playful and provocative art that reclaims words and celebrates our empowered erotic selves.With a mission to bring smiles through her designs, Julie underscores the role of humor and “winky” nods to erotic innuendos. Sparked by a love for fun, flirty, retro rock 'n' roll aesthetics, Julie's playful creations indulge in subtle eroticism and boldly empowering themes. In this episode, we explore the fusion of art and sensuality, as playfully provocative elements like seashells and eggplants find their place in Julie's designs as cheeky reminders of the pleasure we get to create in our lives – where creativity knows no bounds, and the joy of self-expression takes center stage.Follow Lorrae:@sluttygrlprobs to play@Lorraejo to connect@thepleasureprovocateur for episode extrasResources:Get the authentic Magic Wand at my favorite sex-positive shopDownload my free sex-magic ebookVisit www.lorraejo.com for 1:1 coaching, courses, and workshopsVisit www.sluttygirlproblems.com for pleasure-based blogs, reviews, and interviewsConnect with Julie:Website: www.juliemollo.com – Get 15% OFF with code: PLEASUREIG & TikTok: @juliemollo 
Oct 25, 2023
41 min
10 BONUS: IOP/PHP Treatment, DBT + IFS Therapy, and Community Support with Erika Moen
Where mental health entwines with sexual expression, desire, and identity - Erika Moen of Oh Joy Sex Toy and Lorrae have a candid conversation about self-acceptance, embracing our quirks and differences, and complexities of navigating pain in a world where we seek to build more pleasure.Self-acceptance and community support are often vital elements in cultivating self-compassion and coming back home to ourselves. In this episode, we shed light on the challenges of learning to see ourselves more lovingly, navigating social media and its impact on mental health, and living an authentic life as we embrace the nature of our own changing relationship to Self over time.We take a personal deep-dive into our own experiences seeking mental health care through IOP/PHP treatment, DBT and IFS therapy, and as we recover, how we can regain our sense of selves AND our relationship to pleasure, eroticisim, and identities as a sexual being. Follow Lorrae:@sluttygrlprobs to play@Lorraejo to connect@thepleasureprovocateur for episode extrasResources:Get the authentic Magic Wand at my favorite sex-positive shopDownload my free sex-magic ebookVisit www.lorraejo.com for 1:1 coaching, courses, and workshopsVisit www.sluttygirlproblems.com for pleasure-based blogs, reviews, and interviewsConnect with Erika:Instagram and Threads: @FuckYeahErikaMoenTwitter and Substack: @ErikaMoenOh Joy Sex ToyLet's Talk About It BookOJST's Patreon | Erika's PatreonCelebrate 10 Years of Magic Wand
Oct 24, 2023
26 min
10. Unlearning Shame, Exploring Kinks, and Mental Health with Erika Moen of Oh Joy Sex Toy
Where art meets pleasure, inhibitions fade, and self-discovery reigns supreme – join us on a captivating journey with Erika Moen, the brilliant mind behind Oh Joy Sex Toy, in an intimate conversation as we unravel the tapestry of sex-positive art and it’s intersection with our own self-expression.Erika is a trailblazer in the realm of sex positivity and a champion of pleasure, inclusivity, and unapologetic self-expression. We explore the inspirations that ignited the creation of Erika’s Oh Joy Sex Toy, a unique comic series that redefines sex education, the exploration of pleasure, and demystifying taboo topics – from niche kinks to myths about reproductive health care. Voyage through the heart of unlearning shame and embodying sex positivity, where Erika shares her personal odyssey in shedding the weight of societal narratives and embracing a world filled with pleasure, while navigating personal identity and how we relate to ourselves as erotic beings. Erika's art dares to illuminate the taboo, sparks curiosity, and invites you to explore the corners of your desires, too. It's a journey that transcends boundaries, inviting you to embrace the joy of toys and their power to become instruments of self-expression. Follow Lorrae:@sluttygrlprobs to play@Lorraejo to connect@thepleasureprovocateur for episode extrasResources:Get the authentic Magic Wand at my favorite sex-positive shopDownload my free sex-magic ebookVisit www.lorraejo.com for 1:1 coaching, courses, and workshopsVisit www.sluttygirlproblems.com for pleasure-based blogs, reviews, and interviewsConnect with Erika:Instagram and Threads: @FuckYeahErikaMoenTwitter and Substack: @ErikaMoenOh Joy Sex ToyLet's Talk About It BookOJST's Patreon | Erika's PatreonCelebrate 10 Years of Magic Wand
Oct 17, 2023
1 hr 3 min
9. The Science of Pleasure: The Magic Wand Experiment with Sex Ed with DB
We explore the transformative journey at the crossroads of pleasure, data, and self-discovery with Danielle Bezalel (DB), a renowned sex educator and the host of the "Sex Ed with DB" podcast!In this episode, we delve deep into DB's groundbreaking masturbation study, which explores the intriguing impact of daily Magic Wand use on a variety of data points - from happiness and stress, to strength of orgasms and overall horniness. DB meticulously traced data points encompassing the impact of masturbation on anxiety, confidence, focus, and so much more. This episode unveils unexpected trends as we venture through the study's results – discovering how masturbation leads to a reduction in physical tension and anxiety, increased mood and confidence, and even faster, more enjoyable orgasms.But it's not just about data – we also examine the societal stigma surrounding pleasure and how embracing curiosity can lead to more fulfilling experiences. Danielle shares her own intimate odyssey, underscoring the transformative power of authenticity and unbridled self-expression in her sensuality. Her mission revolves around nurturing fellow travelers on their unique paths and championing a sex-positive ethos. Whether you're drawn to the allure of pleasure's science or contemplating a voyage into sex-positive realms, this episode offers valuable insights and comforting encouragement – all set to awaken your senses and empower your journey.Follow Lorrae:@sluttygrlprobs to play@Lorraejo to connect@thepleasureprovocateur for episode extrasResources:Get the authentic Magic Wand at my favorite sex-positive shopDownload my free sex-magic ebookVisit www.lorraejo.com for 1:1 coaching, courses, and workshopsVisit www.sluttygirlproblems.com for pleasure-based blogs, reviews, and interviewsConnect with Danielle:www.sexedwithdb.comMagic Wand ExperimentWorkshop - Building a Profitable Online Sexual Health BrandDanielle’s YouTube | Apple Podcasts | Spotify | IG | TikTok | Twitter
Oct 10, 2023
45 min
8. Crowdsourcing Pleasure: Success & Authenticity for Sex-Positive Creators
Explore behind-the-scenes of building a sex-positive career, and overcoming the challenges of marketing within the adult industry, when social media limitations and censorship have taken over. Casey Murphy, sex toy industry veteran of 18 years and digital marketing strategist for sexual wellness brands + sex-positive entrepreneurs, shares invaluable guidance on navigating the field and building a thriving sex-positive business. Casey's unique path from the music industry to the intimate world of pleasure products was not only a career transition, but a profound personal transformation. We delve into overcoming shame in our sexuality and emboldening our erotic expression, and as we build careers in the adult industry and create a path toward pleasure and success.We explore the power of embracing authenticity in personal relationships and our online presence, how to avoid burnout and prioritize self-care, and how our unique voice is essential in establishing successful business branding.We also explore how online communities, such as Instagram and Reddit, play a crucial role in crowdsourcing essential sex education, pleasure, and product knowledge. Join us on this enlightening journey into marketing, authenticity, and growth within the pleasure products industry, with profound insights to empower your pleasure and a rare glimpse into an industry often shrouded in mystery.Follow Lorrae:@sluttygrlprobs to play@Lorraejo to connect@thepleasureprovocateur for episode extrasResources:Get the authentic Magic Wand at my favorite sex-positive shopDownload my free sex-magic ebookVisit www.lorraejo.com for 1:1 coaching, courses, and workshopsVisit www.sluttygirlproblems.com for pleasure-based blogs, reviews, and interviewsConnect with Casey:thecaseymurphy.comThe Business of Pleasure Podcastthepleasureparlor.comCasey’s Instagram | Twitter | Threads | Bluesky
Oct 3, 2023
57 min
7. Breaking Stigmas and Sparking Conversations: Art as a Tool for Sexual Empowerment
Art, desire, and the pursuit of pleasure. Join us as we delve into the captivating intersection of craftwork and sexuality, exploring boundaries and igniting sultry conversation starters that stir the senses and spark intriguing discussions.Intimately connect with Nicole Ortiz, the enchanting artist and visionary behind GrlPwrArt, your ultimate online destination for mini Magic-Wand earrings and cute kewpie accessories. In this captivating conversation, we go deep into Nicole's firsthand experiences working at the Museum of Sex, where her passionate support for the sexually curious guides visitors to embrace their deepest desires. Plus, we explore the blossoming sensations that awaken within visitors as they enter the immersive realm of the museum!Throughout this episode, our conversation delves into the importance of cultivating an atmosphere of sex-positive acceptance and providing open and accessible sex education in a society that often stifles the flames of sexual enlightenment.We also explore Nicole's captivating artistic process as she reveals her unique approach to infusing art and jewelry with sex-positive imagery. With a seductive emphasis on consent and open dialogue, we explore the allure of adorning oneself with sexually charged art, where each piece becomes a cherished symbol of honor and intrigue. Join us on a journey of self-expression, empowerment, and the celebration of sensuality!Follow Lorrae:@sluttygrlprobs to play@Lorraejo to connect@thepleasureprovocateur for episode extrasResources:Download my free sex-magic ebookVisit www.lorraejo.com for 1:1 coaching, courses, and workshopsVisit www.sluttygirlproblems.com for pleasure-based blogs, reviews, and interviewsGet the authentic Magic Wand at my favorite sex-positive shopConnect with Nicole of GrlPwrArt:IG - @GrlPwrArt Linktree: linktr.ee/grlpwrart 
Jul 16, 2023
46 min
6. Instagram’s Sex-Positive Bans: Silencing Empowerment & Expression
Instagram recently deactivated hundreds of sex-positive creators' accounts, including my own personal (@Lorraejo). The impact is far-reaching, extending beyond creators to society as a whole, diminishing access to sex-positive content, community, activism, and empowerment for all, and limiting our personal expression of our identities. This censorship and suppression also impacts creators (and their teams) livelihoods, and has wider implications for marginalized groups, limiting their ability to organize, advocate, and build communities. It's disheartening to see the spaces for expression, acceptance, and support being taken away from everyone, as the digital landscape becomes more and more censored.My personal IG has been the primary place where I connect with you all — a loss greatly hampers my ability to create solo episodes, as it’s the main place where I share them with you. I’m hopeful for its reinstatement, and I am exploring other channels to continue sharing, but in the meantime, am taking a short break from solo episodes while this all gets sorted out. Guest episodes will return in September :) I am truly grateful for the incredible support I have received from our empowering community, and stay tuned for further updates!How you can help! On Instagram, shake your phone to submit a report (or go to Profile → Settings → Help/Support) to advocate for @Lorraejo and other sex-positive accounts to be reinstated. These accounts help the world with activism, advocacy, education, empowerment, and community. Our collective voices and vital to ensure free, sex-positive expression on the web!Follow Lorrae:@sluttygrlprobs to play@thepleasureprovocateur for episode extrasResources:Download my free sex-magic ebookVisit www.lorraejo.com for 1:1 coaching, courses, and workshopsVisit www.sluttygirlproblems.com for pleasure-based blogs, reviews, and interviews
Jul 11, 2023
20 min
5. Bedazzled Pleasure: Queer Joy, Self-Love and Creative Self-Expression
Join us on a journey of self-discovery, sensuality, and creative expression. In this episode, we unveil the power of self-expression and authenticity, explore the transformative strength inherent in artistic expression, and delve into art’s capacity to serve as a catalyst for healing, self-love, and liberation. Immerse yourself in conversations and enchanting stories with Alex Simon, extraordinary artist and founder of Make Good Choices, a one-stop-shop for all things ceramic, sparkly, and spirited. In this episode, we venture into the depths of the human experience, uncovering the hidden nuances of artistic processes intertwined with her own personal voyage of self-discovery.Dive into the whimsical and euphoric facets of the creative process, while discovering how the infusion of intentional rituals into your daily habits can bring forth a sense of pleasure and presence.Witness the significance of rituals and routines in nurturing creative momentum, and gain insight into how Alex's ceramic art serves as a profound medium for self-exploration and love. Our hope is that this episode kindles a flame of inspiration within you, encouraging you to embrace your own unique journey of self-expression, while finding joy and beauty in the rituals that breathe life into your everyday existence.In this episode, we explore:The deep connection between art, sexuality, and personal growth The hidden nuances of artistic processes and self-discoveryHow pottery becomes a channel for sensual expression and self-acceptanceThe powerful link between astrology, emotion, and personal transformationThe significance of nurturing sacred queer spaces, fostering consent and community, and embracing authenticityEnchanting rituals to infuse your everyday life with joy and sensualityFollow Lorrae:@sluttygrlprobs to play@Lorraejo to connect@thepleasureprovocateur for episode extrasResources:Download my free sex-magic ebookVisit www.lorraejo.com for 1:1 coaching, courses, and workshopsVisit www.sluttygirlproblems.com for pleasure-based blogs, reviews, and interviewsGet the authentic Magic Wand at my favorite sex-positive shopConnect with Alex of Make Good Choices:IG - @makegoodchoices TikTok - @makegoodchoicesshopWebsite: www.makegoodchoicesshop.com 
Jul 3, 2023
57 min
4. Sexuality, Spirituality, and Divination with Vibrating Tarot
Embark on an exploration of pleasure and presence as we dive into the visionary world of Frank Lawrence and his creation, the Vibrating Tarot deck. This unique twist on the timeless practice of tarot takes us on a pleasure-forward journey like no other. In this episode, Lorrae engages in a mesmerizing conversation with Frank, where they venture into a realm where spirituality, divination, sex, and love intersect.Drawing upon the rich concepts of symbolism, sexuality, and self-discovery, Lorrae and Frank dive deep into the profound significance of pleasure in our lives and its divine alignment with the art of tarot card readings. Prepare to be inspired as Frank shares the very essence of his vision. He reveals the meaningful placement of pleasure products, like the Magic Wand, on his tarot cards, as well as guides you through his personal voyage of exploring the inspirational sparks that led to Vibrating Tarot.Join the conversation as we delve into the transformative power of creative processes, witnessing firsthand how ideas evolve and flourish. Plus, discover the inherent value of feedback and interaction within your own community, as Lorrae and Frank shed light on the collaborative nature of their own passion projects while uncovering the delicate balance of active engagement and stepping away to let ideas mature and evolve.In this episode, we explore:The intersection of sexuality, divination, spiritual tools, and symbolismFrank's personal journey and inspirationsSexual awakening and stripping away shameThe role of dreams and intuition in creative processesThe importance of engaging with community How life cycles through highs and lows Follow Lorrae:@sluttygrlprobs to play@Lorraejo to connect@thepleasureprovocateur for episode extrasResources:Download my free sex-magic ebookVisit www.lorraejo.com for 1:1 coaching, courses, and workshopsVisit www.sluttygirlproblems.com for pleasure-based blogs, reviews, and interviewsGet the authentic Magic Wand at my favorite sex-positive shopConnect with Frank of Vibrating Tarot:Crowdfunding with BackerKit Pre-Launch Mailing ListWebsite: www.vibratingtarot.com, www.pallorpublishing.com/vibrating-tarot-homeAll Social Media: @VibratingTarot
Jun 27, 2023
43 min
3. Tools for Rebirth: Healing Trauma, Setting Boundaries, and Embracing Growth
Step into the raw realities of the rebirth journey and discover new tools to navigate big shifts in your life, as you transform your relationships, set boundaries, and follow your intuition. In this episode, Lorrae unveils personal experiences and offers insights on navigating toxic relationships, setting boundaries, and following your intuition as you embark on the challenging yet ultimately rewarding process of rebirth. Lorrae illuminates the transformation process, as we build our birth team, acquire tools for growth, and prioritize ourselves — reconnecting with intuition, extending self-compassion, and following our passions with excitement and curiosity. We also explore how to identify toxic relationships that hinder personal growth, advocate for ourselves, and set boundaries to protect our emotional well-being.If you are seeking guidance and inspiration on your own path of rebirth, this episode is a must-listen.In this episode, we exploreBuilding your birth teamNavigating relationships + setting boundariesPreparing yourself with tools + knowledgePrioritizing yourself + Reconnecting with your intuitionSelf-trust and self-compassionFollowing your passion, excitement, and curiosityFollow Lorrae:@sluttygrlprobs to play@Lorraejo to connect@thepleasureprovocateur for episode extrasResources:Download my free sex-magic ebookVisit www.lorraejo.com for 1:1 coaching, courses, and workshopsVisit www.sluttygirlproblems.com for pleasure-based blogs, reviews, and interviews
Jun 20, 2023
28 min
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