In episode 40, we felt it would be good to leave y’all with the story of Nfluence. The 3 pillars discussed are what the brand stands on and what we hope you hold with you in your life as we do ours. What is Nfluence? What are the pillars? We get into that in this episode.  HAVE QUESTIONS OR TOPIC SUGGESTIONS?? Be sure to reach out on our social’s BELOW  or in the COMMENTS. F O L L O W & S U P P O R T // S O C I A L Instagram ⇢ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/evrythngnfluence/⁠ Facebook ⇢ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/evrythngnfluence⁠ Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@evrythngnfluence⁠ Lydia Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lydthenfluence?lang=en Youtube ⇢⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcF5p-xthTGUuqACj6R0Mgg⁠ If you would like to donate: CASHAPP $Dante151 Timestamp 0:00 - Intro 3:03 - The Story of Nfluence 15:03 - The Message/ Pillars of Nfluence 19:00 - Relationship with God 23:25 - Relationship with Self 29:59 - Relationship with People 36:46 - Who is my biggest Nfluence? 38:55 - Outro 40:23 - THE BEST MESSAGE I WILL EVER GIVE

In episode 39, after our 1 year anniversary we talked about the lessons we learned in marriage. What are they? We get into that this episode.  HAVE QUESTIONS OR TOPIC SUGGESTIONS?? Be sure to reach out on our social’s BELOW  or in the COMMENTS. F O L L O W & S U P P O R T // S O C I A L Instagram ⇢ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/evrythngnfluence/⁠ Facebook ⇢ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/evrythngnfluence⁠ Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@evrythngnfluence⁠ Lydia Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lydthenfluence?lang=en Youtube ⇢⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcF5p-xthTGUuqACj6R0Mgg⁠ If you would like to donate: CASHAPP $Dante151 Timestamp 0:00 - Intro 1:57 - BREAKING NEWS!!! 6:01 - LESSON 1: THANKS AND APPRECIATION 8:19 - LESSON 2: DON’T TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THEM 15:15 - LESSON 3: KEEP CHRIST IN THE CENTER   20:48 - LESSON 4: SAY I LOVE YOU 22:48 - LESSON 5: DON’T ACCUSE THEM OF NEVER DOING ANYTHING 32:25 - LESSON 6: COMMUNICATE they can’t read your mind 35:47 - LESSON 7: SPEAK LIFE not death over your spouse/marriage 36:40 - LESSON 8: DATES ARE STILL IMPORTANT  40:39 - LESSON 9: ALONE OR ME TIME 42:05 - LESSON 10: PUTTING THEIR NEEDS FIRST 47:56 - LESSON 11: LOVE LANGUAGES  49:38 - LESSON 12: ENCOURAGE AND RESPECT EACH OTHER 50:18 - LESSON 13: GIVE GRACE  51:14 - LESSON 14: APOLOGIZE AND RECONCILE  01:03:13 - OUTRO

In episode 38 we wanted to help out the sisters and give some signs a man WONT MAKE YOU HIS WIFE. Some women are in relationships and are holding on to false hope and we really want to help by giving signs that at the very least, start making you question how much more time will be wasted. What are those signs? We get into that this episode.  HAVE QUESTIONS OR TOPIC SUGGESTIONS?? Be sure to reach out on our social’s BELOW  or in the COMMENTS. F O L L O W & S U P P O R T // S O C I A L Instagram ⇢ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/evrythngnfluence/⁠ Facebook ⇢ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/evrythngnfluence⁠ Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@evrythngnfluence⁠ Lydia Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lydthenfluence?lang=en Youtube ⇢⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcF5p-xthTGUuqACj6R0Mgg⁠ If you would like to donate: CASHAPP $Dante151 Timestamp 0:00 - Intro 4:53 - “IM NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP” 10:06 - NO FUTURE TALK  16:20 - NO PUBLIC OR DAYTIME DATES  19:04 - HE DOESN’T CLAIM YOU 24:52 - DOESN’T BRING YOU AROUND FAMILY OR FRIENDS 32:17 - MAKES EXCUSES AND INCONSISTENT  39:46 - NO RECIPROCITY  42:55 - ENTERTAINS OTHER WOMEN  

In episode 37 I talk about the wilderness season. During this time when walking with God it can get really overwhelming and seem like nothing is working out for you. Im hoping this ep gives y’all some clarity and encouragement to continue on. So what is the wilderness season and how do you survive? We get into that this episode.  HAVE QUESTIONS OR TOPIC SUGGESTIONS?? Be sure to reach out on our social’s BELOW  or in the COMMENTS. F O L L O W & S U P P O R T // S O C I A L Instagram ⇢ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/evrythngnfluence/⁠ Facebook ⇢ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/evrythngnfluence⁠ Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@evrythngnfluence⁠ Lydia Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lydthenfluence?lang=en Youtube ⇢⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcF5p-xthTGUuqACj6R0Mgg⁠ If you would like to donate: CASHAPP $Dante151 Timestamp 0:00 - Intro 3:10 - what is the WILDERNESS SEAON? 7:25 - Why does God put us through it? 24:56 - Feelings that you will experience during this time 26:10 - How do you SURVIVE? 37:05 - Outro

In episode 36 we continue discussing sex, but this time we are attempting to tear down your SEXPECTATIONS. Sex is an important part of marriage but before we are married we are often thinking about our own pleasure from it. But what if I told you sex will be hard work? That it isn’t about your own pleasure? We get into that this episode.  HAVE QUESTIONS OR TOPIC SUGGESTIONS?? Be sure to reach out on our social’s BELOW  or in the COMMENTS. F O L L O W & S U P P O R T // S O C I A L Instagram ⇢ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/evrythngnfluence/⁠ Facebook ⇢ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/evrythngnfluence⁠ Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@evrythngnfluence⁠ Lydia Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lydthenfluence?lang=en Youtube ⇢⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcF5p-xthTGUuqACj6R0Mgg⁠ If you would like to donate: CASHAPP $Dante151 Timestamp 0:00 - Intro 4:50 - Expectations we had for sex in marriage 9:10 - struggles for couples during pregnancy 16:51 - in marriage sex is IMPORTANT 20:01 - here is how the devil tries to keep you from sex in marriage  34:42 - thoughts on scheduling sex 42:25 - outro

In episode 35 we discuss our biggest struggle while dating and that was abstaining from sex. As believers we do believe God’s way is the best way but unfortunately we all haven’t done it that way.  We are NOT ADVOCATING FOR SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE but testifying how God blessed us to eventually experience his way. Please remember how he chose to handle us may not be how we will choose to handle you.   HAVE QUESTIONS OR TOPIC SUGGESTIONS?? Be sure to reach out on our social’s BELOW  or in the COMMENTS. F O L L O W & S U P P O R T // S O C I A L Instagram ⇢ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/evrythngnfluence/⁠ Facebook ⇢ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/evrythngnfluence⁠ Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@evrythngnfluence⁠ Youtube ⇢⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcF5p-xthTGUuqACj6R0Mgg⁠ If you would like to donate: CASHAPP $Dante151

In episode 34 we discuss relationships and dating. A big question people have is, should you go 50/50 in a relationship or dates? What does it mean if a man wants to go 50/50? we get into that in this episode.   HAVE QUESTIONS OR TOPIC SUGGESTIONS?? Be sure to reach out on our social’s BELOW. F O L L O W & S U P P O R T // S O C I A L Instagram ⇢ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/evrythngnfluence/⁠ Facebook ⇢ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/evrythngnfluence⁠ Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@evrythngnfluence⁠ Lydia Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lydthenfluence?lang=en Youtube ⇢⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcF5p-xthTGUuqACj6R0Mgg⁠ If you would like to donate: CASHAPP $Dante151

In this episode I talk about what it means to have your “OWN” journey with God. Is that a real thing? Can you have a relationship with God that is unique to other believers?  we get into that in this episode.   HAVE QUESTIONS OR TOPIC SUGGESTIONS?? Be sure to reach out on our social’s BELOW. F O L L O W & S U P P O R T // S O C I A L Instagram ⇢ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/evrythngnfluence/⁠ Facebook ⇢ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/evrythngnfluence⁠ Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@evrythngnfluence⁠ Lydia Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lydthenfluence?lang=en Youtube ⇢⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcF5p-xthTGUuqACj6R0Mgg⁠ If you would like to donate: CASHAPP $Dante151 Timestamp 0:00 - Intro 2:16 - Ike Slimster TikTok skit 5:25 - What does it mean when people say “my own journey with God” 7:34 - Reasons our journeys can look unique 16:51 - My testimony 24:03 - What does a journey with Christ look like? 36:33 - Outro

In this episode we are answering questions for y’all to get to know more about us. We reached our goal of 1,000 subscribers, so from questions about how we express our love to how we handle conflict, we get into that in this episode.   HAVE QUESTIONS OR TOPIC SUGGESTIONS?? Be sure to reach out on our social’s BELOW. F O L L O W & S U P P O R T // S O C I A L Instagram ⇢ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/evrythngnfluence/⁠ Facebook ⇢ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/evrythngnfluence⁠ Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@evrythngnfluence⁠ Lydia Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lydthenfluence?lang=en Youtube ⇢⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcF5p-xthTGUuqACj6R0Mgg⁠ If you would like to donate: CASHAPP $Dante151 Timestamp 0:00 - Intro 4:49 - things you do to maintain a sense of independence while also being in a committed relationship? 9:55 - things you do to maintain a sense of trust and respect in your relationship? 16:05 - How would you handle conflicts or disagreements about parenting styles in your relationship? 20:03 - most meaningful gestures or acts of love you’ve experienced in your relationship? 25:08 - How do you handle conflicts or disagreements about cultural or religious differences in your relationship? 31:31 - What are some of the most important things you do to maintain a sense of romance and intimacy in your long-term relationship? 34:05 - How do you handle conflicts or disagreements about intimacy or sexual preferences in your relationship? 45:44 - outro

In this episode we are talking about SEX. Keep the kids away. We have heard the conversations and we wanted to give our take on if it should matter before going into a relationship or marriage. From there we talk about which you should prefer to be entering marriage, a virgin or with experience? We get into that in this episode.   HAVE QUESTIONS OR TOPIC SUGGESTIONS?? Be sure to reach out on our social’s BELOW. F O L L O W & S U P P O R T // S O C I A L Instagram ⇢ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/evrythngnfluence/⁠ Facebook ⇢ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/evrythngnfluence⁠ Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@evrythngnfluence⁠ Lydia Tik Tok ⇢ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lydthenfluence?lang=en Youtube ⇢⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcF5p-xthTGUuqACj6R0Mgg⁠ If you would like to donate: CASHAPP $Dante151 Timestamp 0:00 - Intro 4:33 - Should body count matter? 26:19 - Be a virgin or gain the experience before marriage? 44:00 - Closing