Sober Friends
Sober Friends
Matt J
The Sober Friends Podcast is a weekly show where you can listen to inspiring and honest conversations about sobriety, recovery, and wellness. Hosted by Matt J who has been there and done that, this podcast is for anyone who wants to learn more about living a sober and fulfilling life. Whether you’re sober curious, in recovery, or just looking for some motivation and support, this podcast is for you. Tune in every week to hear from guests who share their stories, struggles, and successes on their sober journey. You’ll also get tips, resources, and advice on how to stay sober and thrive in all areas of your life. The Sober Friends Podcast is your go-to source for sober inspiration, education, and entertainment. Subscribe now and join the sober friends community!We speak for no 12 step program but we do try to remain anonymous. 
E220: Wasted Energy- Breaking Free from the 'Why Me?' Mindset in Recovery
Send us a text Join Steve and Matt as they dive deep into how self-pity and victim mentality can become energy drains in recovery. Steve vulnerably shares his current struggles at home and how he's navigating difficult emotions without turning to alcohol. The hosts explore how shifting from "Why is this happening to me?" to "What's my next step?" can transform recovery journeys. Learn practical strategies for managing expectations, connecting with your higher power, and finding community supp...
Mar 18, 2025
32 min
E219: When Your Spouse Drinks But You Don't- Navigating Sobriety in a Mixed Household
Send us a text In this thought-provoking episode of Sober Friends, hosts Matt, and Steve tackle a common challenge in recovery: maintaining sobriety while living with partners who still drink. Steve shares his personal journey of negotiating alcohol in the home with his non-alcoholic wife, offering practical insights on establishing boundaries through honest communication. They discuss various scenarios, from living with moderate drinkers to active alcoholics, emphasizing that recovery is pos...
Mar 11, 2025
33 min
E218: Turning Pain into Purpose- Spiritual Growth Through Sobriety with Katie Campbell
Send us a text In this inspiring conversation, Katie Campbell, board-certified holistic health coach and founder of Mindful Constitution, shares her journey from binge drinking to sobriety and spiritual awakening. Katie opens up about childhood trauma, her years of self-medication, and the "cognitive dissonance" she experienced while studying health while still drinking. She explains how sobriety helped her discover her true purpose: guiding highly sensitive, empathic women through their own ...
Mar 4, 2025
39 min
E217: Finding Where I Belong- From Code-Switching to Sobriety with Colbi
Send us a text In this powerful episode, elementary teacher and TikTok creator Colbi (@collect.the.similarities) shares her journey from using alcohol as a social lubricant to finding authentic belonging in recovery. She discusses how postpartum depression accelerated her drinking, the moment she received "the gift of desperation," and why she now uses social media to create solidarity among sober-curious women. Colbi offers profound insights on the difference between "fitting in" versus...
Feb 25, 2025
41 min
E216: Beyond Belief- Navigating Higher Powers and Personal Spirituality in Recovery
Send us a text In this thought-provoking episode of Sober Friends, Matt and Steve engage in a candid conversation about spirituality in recovery following their experience at a Joe and Charlie Big Book study. They thoughtfully examine the suggestion that atheists cannot truly work the AA program, offering nuanced perspectives on what constitutes a "higher power." The discussion explores several important dimensions of recovery: Alternatives to traditional religious concepts of God in sobriety...
Feb 18, 2025
33 min
E215: Embracing Change in Recovery- Moving Forward Without Fear
Send us a text In this insightful episode of the Sober Friends podcast, hosts Steve and Matt explore the critical role of change in sustained sobriety and personal growth. Through candid discussion, they examine how resistance to change can impact recovery and why staying static often means sliding backward. The hosts share personal experiences about overcoming the fear of change, from career transitions to daily habits, while offering practical wisdom about taking manageable steps forward. T...
Feb 11, 2025
32 min
E214: Extending a Hand- The Power of Helping Others in Sobriety
Send us a text In this episode of The Sober Friends Podcast, Matt and Steve dive into the heart of what makes the 12-step program so impactful: the people who go above and beyond to help others, even when it's inconvenient. From late-night calls to long drives to meetings, these acts of service not only aid those in need but also enrich the lives of those who give. Matt and Steve also discuss the importance of having diverse voices on the show and put out a call for a regular female co-...
Feb 4, 2025
32 min
E213: Finding Peace in What We Can't Control- A Recovery Discussion on Anxiety, Work Stress, and Joy
Send us a text In this intimate conversation, the Sober Friends hosts dive deep into one of recovery's most challenging aspects: dealing with things beyond our control. Through personal stories about workplace anxiety, childhood trauma, and finding unexpected joy, they explore how fellowship, therapy, and individual solutions help navigate life's uncertainties. Whether you're wrestling with imposter syndrome, anxiety about the future, or searching for peace in sobriety, this episode offers pr...
Jan 28, 2025
31 min
E212: Breaking Free from Isolation- How Social Connection Saves Lives in Recovery
Send us a text In this powerful episode of Sober Friends, hosts Matt and Steve dive deep into the critical connection between isolation and addiction. Through personal stories of drinking alone and social anxiety, they explore how isolation can both trigger addiction and become a destructive pattern in recovery. The hosts share their journeys from basement drinking to building meaningful connections through hiking groups and recovery meetings. This episode offers hope and practical strategies...
Jan 21, 2025
33 min
E211: The Evolution of Recovery- Exploring Modern Sobriety Programs and Meeting Dynamics
Send us a text In this thought-provoking episode of the Sober Friends podcast, Steve and Matt dive deep into the changing landscape of recovery programs and what makes an effective support group. The conversation stems from their recent experience with a "Joe and Charlie" study session, leading to an authentic discussion about the evolution of recovery programs over the decades. The hosts explore several compelling topics, including the contrast between historical and modern recovery success ...
Jan 14, 2025
29 min
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