The Mindful Babes
The Mindful Babes
Valerie Adams
Part 2: The 5 Most Common Ways Women Self-Sabotage in Dating [The End of Almost]
56 minutes Posted Jun 19, 2025 at 7:15 pm.
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Part 2: The 5 Most Common Ways Women Sabotage The Dating Process 
 
Welcome back to The End of Almost! 
 
A 3-part podcast series to help you break the cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable men and start becoming the woman who effortlessly calls in secure, lasting love.
 
In Part 2, I’m peeling back the curtain on the patterns I see even the most self-aware women fall into. These are patterns that sabotage your dating progress and keep the love you want at arm’s length.
 
This is the truth most TikTok videos aren’t talking about and once you see it, you won’t be able to unsee it.
 
🎧 In Part 2 of The End of Almost we’ll explore:
The sneaky mindset that makes it harder to bounce back from disappointment in dating
A belief most women don’t realize is pulling them toward the wrong men again and again
What to focus on instead of "fixing yourself" to actually become magnetic to secure love
The shift that helped me go from self-sabotage to being pursued by the kind of man I used to think didn’t exist
 
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