I truly believe that how we feel about ourselves impacts on our sexual confidence and that's why I was very interested in reading Beautiful Unique Faces. I also wanted to understand why women (particularly people in reality TV shows), decide to have their lips and cheeks overdone. I just don't get it!  The book does explain this to me and now I feel compassion for those women. This episode is for everyone and anyone. Particularly those who are considering having cosmetic procedures such as botox and dermal fillers.  I had the good fortune to speak with Anita East, author of Beautiful Unique Faces. Anita is a professional actress turned nurse practitioner in the cosmetic medicine industry. In this episode, we touch on multiple topics that Anita covers in her book. Oxytocin is troll bait Strategies to change your mindset and tap into your inner power of practice, Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Princesses and Queens The secret knowledge that lives within us, that we can only find when we stop paying attention to external factors. 'Earn the right to sing' Comparing yourself to others And you know what?  If ever you have doubts about your beauty, read this book.  You will then realise that you ARE beautiful.   For further information: https://anitaeast.com.au/shop/product/beautiful-unique-faces-book --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-maven/message

Is it possible for cancer, chemotherapy and sex to co-exist?  Yes.  Yes, it is. Not many people would even consider talking about sex and cancer and sadly it's one of those topics that doesn't receive much coverage. Not many people who were living with cancer and undergoing treatment would consider talking about their experience let alone building resources to help those experiencing the life with cancer. But then, not many people are like Tess Deveze, The Intimacy OT from ConnectAble Therapies. You will find this episode very worthwhile and you may just stumble upon important information to help someone in your life too. To download The Intimacy and Cancer Toolkit please visit www.connectabletherapies.com You can watch Tess's videos via her YouTube Channel The Intimacy OT And of course, you can tune in and subscribe to The Maven's Private Diaries on YouTube for more information, resources, products and information about sexuality. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-maven/message

I am pleased to announce our new partnership with Dave Wells, Clinical Sexologist, and The Spicy Boudoir.   Dave will be joining The Spicy Boudoir community to share his knowledge and wisdom about all things sexuality, with a focus on male sexuality, which sometimes tends to take a back seat. To learn more about Dave and to engage his services please visit: https://davewellstherapies.com.au/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-maven/message

In this episode, I had the privilege to speak with two cast members from jessica drake's Wicked Guide to Senior Sex: Co-created with Joan Price.  I ask Bonnie and Joel what their motivation was for being in the film and what they hope people will learn. We touch on many interesting topics in our chat, such as dry, male orgasms, swinging, squirting and more.  We have a strong feeling that we'll be speaking with Bonnie and Joel again in the future and we certainly look forward to that! If you would like to purchase a copy of the film you can do so from the following: Australia and New Zealand: https://www.thespicyboudoir.com/jessica-drakes-wicked-guide-to-senior-sex USA https://www.wicked.com/en/sexguide https://joanprice.com/wicked-sex --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-maven/message

Too often older persons are depicted in the world as sexless beings, well, that just ain't true! We are all sexual beings until the day we die! Two beautiful minds came together and created something very special, a guide to sex for seniors. This episode is The Maven speaking with Joan Price, senior sex advocate and co-creator of Jessica Drake's Wicked Guide to Senior Sex. The film is available to purchase for Australian and New Zealand audience via https://www.thespicyboudoir.com/jessica-drakes-wicked-guide-to-senior-sex Audiences in USA please visit: https://joanprice.com/wicked-sex --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-maven/message

In this episode, I’m going to talk about how celibacy…or rather…'abstinence from having orgasms'…helps me to maintain my ability to achieve orgasm.  Yes…that’s right. Abstinence strengthens my ability to orgasm as well as influences the intensity.  Sounds incredible doesn't? Stick around to the end because I’m going to stand on my box of vibrators and deliver a moral to my story. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-maven/message

How do you navigate the loss of a beloved? How do you know when it's the right time to reconnect with your body? How do you deal with feelings of guilt and being unfaithful if you find intimacy and/or love again? Joan Price has experienced all of this and more when she lost the love of her life, Robert. Knowing that many...many people need to discuss the topic of sex after grief...Joan set about researching the stories of both grievers and non-grievers.  Her latest work is the collective wisdom of those stories now cleverly crafted into words written with deep kindness and compassion for others. Her advice is delivered in a manner that is true to the heart of deep emotion and a celebration of joy.  If you are in Australia you can purchase Sex After Grief via www.thespicyboudoir.com and Booktopia.  Overseas buyers can purchase directly from Joan:  https://joanprice.com/books/sex-after-grief  It was my absolute pleasure to speak with Joan for an hour and this is just a snippet of what we covered. Stay tuned for updates as I will be publishing bonus episodes with Joan in the future. You can also watch this interview on YouTube Channel:  The Maven from The Spicy Boudoir --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-maven/message

Despite being a person who is very comfortable with their sexuality and talking about sex, I have never been to a workshop to explore and develop my sexual persona and knowledge. That is about to change with my participation in workshops conducted by the good people from Curious Creatures.  In this episode, I am speaking with one of the facilitators, Roger Butler, about what to expect and what to wear. My partner and I will be attending 'Fun Little Sex Games' and 'Kink 101'. We're looking forward to sharing this experience together. Stay tuned to the podcast as I'll be speaking with Roger again next week when I debrief with him about our learnings. Thank you for listening! Warm regards, Susan, The Maven --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-maven/message

In this episode I am chatting with Richelle Menzies, a Clinical Sexologist based in Hobart, Tasmania.  Aside from her private practice, Sensual Potential, Richelle is also the resident sexologist on BENT FM and has been a guest speaker with renown sexologist Isiah McKimmie talking about non-monogamous relationships and vulvas. Richelle is very well-known in the Queer community for her work.  Richelle is a lifetime member of Queensland Aids Council, a member of the LGBTI Health Alliance, the Society of Australian Sexology (SAS), the Australian Counselling Association, the Australian Community Workers Association and the National Disability Practitioners network.  If you would like to work with Richelle you can contact her via her website:  http://www.sensualpotential.com.au/  The 101 year old Sexologist mentioned by Richelle is Dr Shirley Zussman. Pssst...The vibrator mentioned in the podcast is my all-time favourite. It's not your ordinary, run of the mill vibrator, no...it's fit for a Queen! Click here for the Zalo --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-maven/message

My tips for women when dating in the 'adult' online dating-sphere. You will hear how I approached writing my profile and I hope you find some valuable lessons in how to write a profile that will attract the right person. Unlike some, I chose to date on an adult site because I could not find mature, like-minded people on the more conservative sites. There will be a guide for men in the future too.   Regards, Susan, The Maven --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-maven/message