The Chiming with Shy Podcast
The Chiming with Shy Podcast
Chiming with Shy
Disclaimer This podcast is not for the weak minded, sensitive, and easily offended. I express myself 99% of the show and so will my guests. Authenticity is exercised which creates a safe space for open and real thoughts. This platform is about welcoming different realties from ALL cultures and traditions in the form of table talks, stories, interviews, and unlimited entertainment. Trigger warning ⚠️ Shit gets real here!
Ep. 4 - The way you treat her is worship
The Way You Treat Her is Worship (Full Ep.)Welcome to episode 4 my lovelies!Stay till the end to watch John play our game called " Is it the Godly way or Chaotic way?"!How would you handle public disrespect from another person of the opposite sex towards your partner? Would you do what John said he would do 👊? Chime in by sharing your answers in the comments!See you next week for episode 5!
Jan 6
38 min
EPISODE 1: “Dear Brother, We Miss You“
Bridging the Gap: Understanding Emotional Disconnect Between Men and WomenIntroduction: In the latest episode of the Chime with Shy podcast, host Shy engages in a heartfelt discussion with three men, exploring the emotional disconnect that often exists between men and women, particularly in the Black community. This engaging conversation serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of communication, vulnerability, and mutual support in relationships.Main Content:1. **The Need for Open Dialogue** Shy opens the episode by addressing a pressing issue: how many men emotionally check out while physically present. With the alarming statistic that 30.7% of men reported feeling lonely in 2022, Shy emphasizes the need for understanding and communication. This episode is designed not to criticize but to foster connection and healing among men and women.2. **Meet the Guests** The episode features three men—Lil Will, Chris, and John—who bring diverse perspectives to the conversation. Will represents the raw, unfiltered male experience, while Chris offers a calming, analytical viewpoint. John delves into the emotional aspects, shedding light on the reasons behind men distancing themselves. Their insights aim to foster understanding rather than division. The episode serves as a powerful reminder of the necessity for open dialogue and emotional vulnerability among men and women. By understanding each other's struggles and fostering communication, we can bridge the gap between genders and build healthier relationships. Key takeaways include the importance of seeking help, the need for open communication, and recognizing the shared responsibility in nurturing emotional connections.Bridging the Gap: Understanding Emotional Disconnect Between Men and WomenThis engaging conversation serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of communication, vulnerability, and mutual support in relationships.Join us as we uncover the emotional battles men face and how we can better support each other. This isn’t about blame; it’s about understanding. Let's bridge the gap! What do you think is the key to stronger communication in relationships? Drop your thoughts!
Dec 2, 2025
48 min
Ep.7 The New Me Still Cries
Title: Embracing Healing: Lessons from the Final Episode of Help I'm ToxicIn the final episode of the transformative podcast series "Help I'm Toxic," host Shy takes listeners on a heartfelt journey of emotional healing and self-discovery. With a blend of personal stories and powerful insights, Shy empowers women to acknowledge their struggles and embrace the healing process, reminding us all that vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.Introduction In a world that often encourages us to sweep our struggles under the rug, the Chime in with Shy podcast stands as a beacon of hope and authenticity. In the last episode of the series "Help I'm Toxic," Shy invites listeners to confront their toxic traits and embrace the beautiful chaos of healing. With a mix of humor, raw emotion, and insightful statistics, she reminds us that healing is not linear and that it’s okay to cry while we grow. Understanding the Healing Process According to the American Psychological Association, a staggering seven out of ten women experience emotional regression during their healing seasons, even when their lives are improving. Shy acknowledges this reality, reassuring her audience that if the new you still cries, you are not alone—you are simply human and healing. Shy emphasizes that healing can sometimes look messy, describing how it might involve crying on a bathroom floor rather than a peaceful meditation session. She shares her personal experiences, including moments of grief for loved ones and the weight of emotional burdens, reminding us that we all face silent battles that often go unspoken. Emotional Sensitivity and Relapse Throughout the podcast, Shy highlights the fluctuations of emotional recovery, noting that it often happens in waves rather than straight lines. She encourages listeners to embrace their tears, explaining that crying can reduce cortisol levels and reset our nervous systems. Emotional sensitivity tends to increase significantly within the first year of trauma recovery, and Shy reassures her audience that crying while growing is still a sign of progress. One of the most important messages Shy shares is that relapse does not equate to failure. "Sometimes you have to fail your way up out of a situation," she states. By reframing setbacks as opportunities for growth, she encourages listeners to give themselves grace while holding themselves accountable. Tools for Emotional Detox Shy provides practical tools to aid in emotional detoxification, including:1. **Emotional Timeout** Take a few minutes to collect your thoughts and emotions before responding to triggers. 2. **Pinpoint the Trigger** Identify what specifically caused your emotional reaction to facilitate healing. 3. **Replace Toxic Habits** Engage in healthier activities like journaling, dancing, or meditating to transmute negative energy into positive actions. 4. **Ground Yourself** Affirm your healing journey by verbally acknowledging your safety and growth. By integrating these practices into daily life, Shy emphasizes that it's possible to transform toxic traits into creative expressions, fostering emotional resilience. Conclusion The final episode of "Help I'm Toxic" serves as a powerful reminder that healing is a journey filled with ups and downs. Shy’s candid reflections and practical advice empower listeners to face their emotions head-on and embrace their healing journeys. As Shy says, "The new me still cries, but she doesn't quit," encouraging us all to persist in our growth, no matter how challenging it may be. Key Takeaways: - Emotional healing is not linear; it comes in waves. - Crying is a natural and healthy part of the healing process. - Relapses are opportunities for growth rather than failures. - Practical tools can aid in emotional detoxification and resilience. Tags:
Nov 27, 2025
12 min
Ep.6 - Rebuilding Her
In this heartfelt episode of "Chime with Shy," we explore the journey of rebuilding oneself after leaving a toxic relationship. Shy shares her personal experiences of walking away from a marriage that stifled her spirit and the steps she took to detox her life. From battling addiction to embracing daily habits that nurture healing, this episode is a testament to resilience and transformation. Tune in to discover how you can reclaim your peace and rebuild your life with intention and grace. #RebuildingHer #HealingJourney #Empowerment
Nov 8, 2025
7 min
Ep5 - The Breakup You Need
In this episode of the Chime In With Shy podcast, Shy discusses the importance of breaking up with self-sabotage and unhealthy patterns. She emphasizes the need for personal growth and healing, encouraging listeners to reflect on their habits and relationships. The episode includes journal prompts, affirmations, and a motivational pep talk aimed at empowering listeners to embrace change and move forward in their lives.takeawaysBreaking up with self-sabotage is essential for growth.Loyalty to harmful relationships stems from fear.Peace can feel boring after chaos; it's a new normal.Identifying triggers is the first step to change.Replacing old patterns with new coping mechanisms is crucial.Celebrating small victories is important for progress.Writing a breakup letter to old habits can be therapeutic.Affirmations help reinforce positive changes.Empowerment comes from taking accountability for one's actions.A positive mindset attracts better opportunities.Chime in with your thoughts on todays episode by leaving a comment, following the Chiming Wih Shy Podcast on all social media platfirms, and call into our show to be featured on the show by dialing 513-428-6611. Thank you for Chiming with your girl, Shy.
Oct 28, 2025
11 min
Ep. 4 - The Damage You Do
Week 4 of the 7-week series "Help, I'm Toxic"Ep. 4 - The Damage You DoTheme - Consequences In this episode of The Chiming with Shy Podcast, Shy delves into the often overlooked consequences of toxic behavior, emphasizing the importance of accountability and personal growth. She discusses how emotional abuse manifests in subtle ways and the ripple effects it has on relationships and mental health. Through personal anecdotes and affirmations, Shy encourages listeners to acknowledge their actions, take responsibility, and strive for healing and improvement in their lives.Takeaways:* We often focus on what others did to us, forgetting our own contributions to the mess.* Emotional abuse can be subtle and pervasive, affecting mental health.*Toxic behavior has a ripple effect on relationships and personal well-being.*Taking accountability is essential for healing and growth.*It's possible to be both accountable and lovable.*Growth is demonstrated through behavior change, not just words.*Acknowledging our past mistakes is crucial for moving forward.*Self-sabotage can hinder personal and professional growth.*Writing down our thoughts can help us retain and process them better.*Every action has consequences, and we must be mindful of them.Be sure to Chime in with your thoughts by calling The Chiming w/ Shy Podcast 1+ 513-428-6611, and leave a comment.
Oct 21, 2025
19 min
Ep3 - The Mask You Were
🎙️ Episode 3: The Mask You Wear - Identity vs. ImageJoin Shy as she delves into the profound exploration of identity versus image in this thought-provoking episode. Discover the masks we wear, from the perfectionist to the strong friend, and uncover the emotional and spiritual costs of maintaining these facades. Through personal anecdotes, listener stories, and guided journaling exercises, Shy invites you to embark on a journey of self-reflection and authenticity. Learn how to break free from the performance and embrace your true self. Tune in for an empowering conversation that challenges you to live authentically and connect with your inner truth.#SelfDiscovery #Authenticity #PodcastEpisode #IdentityVsImage
Oct 14, 2025
38 min
The Detox Plan I Didn't Know I Needed
In this 45-minute heart-to-heart, I’m keeping it all the way real about what it means to detox from the things that keep you stuck — whether it’s weed, men, procrastination, or pain. I share my personal 3-month weed detox journey and how releasing what controlled me helped me get my peace, focus, and confidence back. My homie chimes in briefly on his sobriety journey with being free from alcohol for half a year.This episode isn’t about perfection — it’s about progress. It’s your reminder that you can heal, rebuild, and reset… one day at a time with your sis, Shy.Ready to heal in the next 90 days?✨ Grab my Free Detox Plan Layout and start creating your personal “Vice Detox” today.Because your next level starts when you finally let go of what’s been holding you back.Email me at [email protected] and grab your free Vice Detox Plan and let’s detox this life for real.Chime into the message center and tell me what can no longer come with you where you are headed! 💫
Oct 13, 2025
46 min
Ep2 Why You're Like This (Help, I'm Toxic 7-week series) Pt.1
The Chiming with Shy Podcast is officially back with a new 7-week series kicking off the new season with Help, I'm Toxic! Theme: Origin of the woundTrauma, abandonment, betrayal, and being silenced as a child is being called out in this episode. Introducing the ideas of defense mechanisms versus toxic habits and tying it into how unhealed wounds show up in adult relationships. Empowering reminders that you are not broken, but bruised, and bruises can heal. We grow deeper each week and invite you to chime in with your girl Shy in the message center and on our social media!
Oct 7, 2025
14 min
Ep2 Why You're Like This (Help, I'm Toxic 7-week series) Pt.2
part 2...The Chiming with Shy Podcast is officially back with a new 7-week series kicking offthe new season with Help, I'm Toxic! Theme: Origin of the woundTrauma, abandonment, betrayal, andbeing silenced as a child is being called out in this episode. Introducing theideas of defense mechanisms versus toxic habits and tying it into how unhealedwounds show up in adult relationships. Empowering reminders that you are not broken, butbruised, and bruises can heal. We grow deeper each week and invite you to chimein with your girl Shy in the message center and on our social media!
Oct 7, 2025
29 min
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