"The Kitchen Table" Presented by The Pacific Institute Canada

In this episode, Dave, Ron, and Gregg examine the motivation behind our speaking. Is it ego? Is it fear? Is it our generosity of spirit? What is the wise thinking that proceeds wise speaking? We have some ideas.Note: In this podcast we refer to spiral dynamics &  developmental theory here's a link in a summary. Spiral Dynamics- Clare Graves & Don Beck  https://spiraldynamics.net Summary of Developmental Theory- Spiral Dynamics - Eight Stages 1.     Beige: This is the most basic level of consciousness, characterized by a focus on survival and basic needs. At this level, individuals are primarily concerned with physical safety and security, and may not have a sense of self beyond their immediate surroundings.2.    Purple: At this level, individuals begin to develop a sense of community and belonging, and may adopt the values and beliefs of their tribe or family.3.    Red: This level is marked by a focus on power, domination, and self-assertion. Individuals at this level may be impulsive and rebellious, and may not have a strong sense of right and wrong.4.    Blue: At this level, individuals develop a sense of morality and order, and may adopt a more structured and hierarchical worldview. They may be more concerned with tradition and authority, and may have a strong sense of duty and loyalty.5.    Orange: This level is characterized by a focus on innovation, achievement, and self-actualization. Individuals at this level may be more individualistic and entrepreneurial, and may be less concerned with group identity or tradition.6.    Green: At this level, individuals may develop a more inclusive and pluralistic worldview, and may be more concerned with social justice and equality. They may be more open to new ideas and ways of thinking, and may be more accepting of diversity and difference.7.    Yellow: This level is marked by a focus on integration and balance, and may involve a synthesis of the values and perspectives of different memes. Individuals at this level may be more flexible and adaptable, and may be able to hold multiple perspectives simultaneously.8.    Turquoise: This is the highest level of consciousness, characterized by a sense of unity and oneness with all of creation. Individuals at this level may have a deep understanding of the interconnectedness of all things, and may be more compassionate and empathetic towards others

In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron explore how to aid wisdom to surface in our everyday lives. Dinner parties. Discussions over beer. Meeting an old friend. When discussing serious issues can we be kind and generous? Or is it just about looking smart, being right? We want to grow in wisdom, even if it costs us our certainty.In this episode we refer to Donning- Kruger effect here is the link to understandhttps://www.britannica.com/science/Dunning-Kruger-effect The difference between dialogue and discussion.Dialogue·      To inquire to learn·      To unfold shared meanings·      To integrate multiple perspective·      To uncover & examine AssumptionsDiscussion·      To tell, selling & persuade ·      To gain agreement on one of the meaning ·      To evaluate and select the best ·      To justify /defend assumptions

In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron describe what it’s like to stay vigilant in self-analysis. Beliefs, opinions, and positions must be open to periodic assessment. What’s behind our beliefs? How did we get here? Being simply for or against something is simple, but life requires more of us. Join us in looking at what healthy adulthood means.Wisdom Practice ModelStory- Ology’s – Explore Beliefs- Wisdom Your Story(s) screened through “the -Ology , exploring Beliefs adding to your Knowledge & Wisdom The word -ology is a back-formation from the names of certain disciplines. The -logy element basically means "the study of ____". Such words are formed from Greek or Latin roots with the terminal -logy derived from the Greek suffix -λογια (-logia), speaking, from λεγειν (legein), "to speak".

In this podcast, Gregg, Ron, and Dave examined the impact of our personal experience with theology. Or not. Pausing for self-analysis bears fruit. Even profound impact. What am I for? Or against? Has that evolved over time? Do my beliefs lead to me being conservative or liberal? What is my story?Wisdom Practice ModelStory- Ology’s – Explore Beliefs- Wisdom Your Story(s) screened through “the -Ology , exploring Beliefs adding to your Knowledge & WisdomThe word -ology is a back-formation from the names of certain disciplines. The -logy element basically means "the study of ____". Such words are formed from Greek or Latin roots with the terminal -logy derived from the Greek suffix -λογια (-logia), speaking, from λεγειν (legein), "to speak".

In this episode, Dave leads us off sharing his love and experience with the great outdoors. Plus his climate change concerns. Gregg and Ron join in. Beliefs. Concerns. Biases. Activism [or not]. So what? By running their stories and thoughts through the wisdom practice model, each gain something. Is the planet in a better place? We’re sure it is…we’re paying attention.

In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron examine their study of wisdom as a “personal learning model”. Stories, beliefs, and meaningful reflections on life. Their impact on self and others. Creating space between what happens in our life and our response  to it. At the end of this discussion is a sweet, simple story from Dave about a six-year-old and a Pumpkin

In this episode, Ron, Gregg, and Dave begin to practice what they preach. Understanding self begins with an understanding of our own stories, our own beliefs. Religion, love, politics, and more. What stories/beliefs have lasted a lifetime? Do we understand them intellectually, emotionally, and relationally? If we do, we grow, into a wisdom that makes life truly worth living.Wisdom Practice Model1. Story-2. Ology’s 3.Explore Beliefs-4.Wisdom Your Story(s) screened through “the -Ology , exploring Beliefs adding to your Knowledge & WisdomThe word -ology is a back-formation from the names of certain disciplines. The -logy element basically means "the study of ____". Such words are formed from Greek or Latin roots with the terminal -logy derived from the Greek suffix -λογια (-logia), speaking, from λεγειν (legein), "to speak". Developmental Levels:  1.     Beige: At this level, individuals are focused on survival and meeting their basic needs. To participate in the democratic process, individuals at this level might focus on advocating for policies that ensure basic needs such as food, shelter, and safety are met.2.    Purple: Individuals at this level are focused on belonging and connection. To participate in the democratic process, individuals at this level might focus on building community and promoting social cohesion.3.    Red: At this level, individuals are focused on power and control. To participate in the democratic process, individuals at this level might focus on advocating for policies that promote individual freedom and self-expression.4.    Blue: Individuals at this level are focused on order and structure. To participate in the democratic process, individuals at this level might focus on advocating for policies that promote tradition and stability.5.    Orange: At this level, individuals are focused on innovation and progress. To participate in the democratic process, individuals at this level might focus on advocating for policies that promote economic growth and scientific advancement.6.    Green: Individuals at this level are focused on equality and social justice. To participate in the democratic process, individuals at this level might focus on advocating for policies that promote diversity and inclusivity.7.    Yellow: At this level, individuals are focused on systems thinking and complexity. To participate in the democratic process, individuals at this level might focus on advocating for policies that take a holistic and long-term view of societal problems.8.    Turquoise: Individuals at this level are focused on global consciousness and spiritual unity. To participate in the democratic process, individuals at this level might focus on advocating for policies that promote global cooperation and sustainable development.  

In this episode, Gregg, Ron, and Dave analyze their respective reactions to the war. What’s my story, my perspective, my ability to understand the conflict [or not]? Yes, the conflict is complex. Realities can quickly become emotional. Even if I find myself at a safe distance, there is the risk of escalation. And the media brings the war right into our homes, again.Wisdom Practice Model: Story- Ology’s – Explore Beliefs- Wisdom Step One:Tell Your Story(s) Step Two: Screened through “the -Ology Step Three: Exploring Beliefs Step Four: Add  to your Knowledge & WisdomThe word -ology is a back-formation from the names of certain disciplines. The -logy element basically means "the study of ____". Such words are formed from Greek or Latin roots with the terminal -logy derived from the Greek suffix -λογια (-logia), speaking, from λεγειν (legein), "to speak".

In this episode, Gregg and Ron reintroduce concepts and models concerning the quest for wisdom. Our discussions over several months have surfaced practical steps leading to what we are calling our “wisdom process model”. Our stories lead to beliefs. Our beliefs form the basis for our wisdom. Are you ready for new perspectives? Join the journey…Wisdom Practice Model: Story- Ology’s – Explore Beliefs- Wisdom Step One:Tell Your Story(s) Step Two: Screened through “the -Ology Step Three: Exploring Beliefs Step Four: Add  to your Knowledge & WisdomThe word -ology is a back-formation from the names of certain disciplines. The -logy element basically means "the study of ____". Such words are formed from Greek or Latin roots with the terminal -logy derived from the Greek suffix -λογια (-logia), speaking, from λεγειν (legein), "to speak".

In this episode, Ron tells a story of love and growth, during a profound life changing realization. Gregg and Dave help Ron find the wisdom in his story. How did he arrive at certainty? What were the theological and psychological factors at play? How do we find a solid confidence in our inner voice? Important questions, especially in the afternoon of life.