The Kink Consultant
The Kink Consultant
Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant
The Kink Conversation with Your Partner | How to Tell Your Partner You're Kinky Part 2
15 minutes Posted Oct 15, 2026 at 11:00 am.
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In part two of this special three-part solo series, I am breaking down exactly how to have the conversation with your partner about your kink.


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This week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, I continue the series on how to tell your partner you are kinky. In part two, I walk you through the actual conversation from start to finish. I explain how to set up the conversation at the right time, how to lead with curiosity before you share, and why asking for consent to share your fantasy changes everything. I also break down how to explain your kink in a way your partner can actually understand by naming the feeling underneath it, how to give them space to process, and why closing the conversation with gratitude and a future check-in date matters.


If you have been ready to have the conversation but are not sure what to actually say, this episode gives you the exact framework.


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