Okay sooooooooo...... I have a special guest with me tonight. Melissa is family the blood or marriage license to signify it. Melissa is a single girl in her early 20's and talks a lot about the dating scene. . We are complete opposites. I am talking day and midnight. Our differences is what brought us together. She is a Scorpio queen who could careless about what others think. ME, the Cancer that I am, I can care a lot about what others think( but we working that cuz fuck that negative vibe! We are a powerful duo with energy that is unmatched! Please give a warm welcome to my fellow bad bitch Melissa!!!!! 

Why y'all in our business? Why does it matter what we do as a women? We are beautiful in our own way. Our bodies should NOT be up for discussion. There should not be a law against our own rights. We have been fighting for equal rights for centuries. We shouldn't have too. Abortion is our choice. Case closed.   

The weed had me trippen y'all! I had to take a step back and re-evaluate my life. I was spending $20 on 8ths and then found myself buying more expensive weed. It's okay to take a break, or a step break from something you once enjoyed. I use to nanny kids because I thought that was my purpose on this earth. But since I took a break , I understood it was not my sole purpose but a great chapter to tap into for something greater. One of the best experiences in my life that shaped me for the greater. I have NO idea what my purpose is in this world but I am tapping into who I am everyday. I may never know, but I do want to explore my options.    **I DO NOT APPROVE OF SMOKING WEED AROUND CHILDREN. MARIJUANA IS A DRUG. IT MAY BE LEGAL IN SOME STATE BUT CHILDREN'S LUNGS ARE STILL FRAGILE. ** 

"It is okay to be alone." I hated being alone. Didn't matter who you were, I always wanted a friend. I have a hard time being an actual friend because I am the ride or die type. I am teaching myself to ride or die for myself. It is okay to be in your own space. Learn what you like, dislike and what you are willing to put up with. Friendships are relationships so you gotta chose wisely. Plus.. anyone else ever blacked out and caused a scene? Nah? Just me? Okay! 

Oh relationships how we love them!! My boyfriend purposed a question to me the other day and I didn't know how to react. Relationships are never easy. Living together forever comes with complications. I don't have a great role model of a "successful" marriage. He doesn't t want to marry or we both know we're not ready for the next step? 

It has been a minute. What can I say? Life got hectic as f*ck! I wanted to come on here and basically just chit chat and have some girl talk. I have been going through personal things behind the scenes. Not life changing but a change. I was preaching self love but still struggled loving myself. Life is a journey and it all about baby steps. Perfection is in the eye of the  beholder. I started a new job (fingers crossed I keep it for a while). I took a hiatus from working out due to my new job and struggled finding my rhythm again. 

Ladies, its okay to touch ourselves. I know society or the older generations has called it " sinning" but in my journey of self love, its one of the needed moments. Whether you're single or in relationship, go to a sex shop and find something that is your speed. The store itself can be intimidating, just take a deep breathe, get a toy or sexy outfit that makes you comfortable. My sex life is private, yes, but this has actually helped me be comfortable with my partner because its a whole moment for myself. Light those candles, drink that wine, and vibe out. Pussy isn't a bad word either :) 

Its been a minute. How y'all doing?  In todays episode, I took a trip to the famous Randys donuts in Los Angeles, California. Let's just say, the attraction is for the tourist. Not the locals who know better places are around! Since I didn't like the donuts I thought it would be a great "act of kindness" if I gave them to a homeless person. I was rejected the nice gesture!  I discuss the lives we have lost due to hatred in Atlanta. My heart is the families who lost a loved one due to hate violence. Asian Lives Matter

When you are soul searching, you have to be honest with yourself. I can understand why I currently do not have friends. Vibe will not always match and I forced my love not other women. I know I am not perfect and I will never strive to be. It's okay if YOU ARE THE TOXIC FRIEND. Learn from your mistakes and move forward. Hi, my name is Jasmine and I was a fake bitch once upon a time. I understand why some friendships were toxic and how I played a roll. Anyways late night thoughts are my best thought.