This year, Christmas falls on a Sunday and, right on queue, the attendance hall monitors are taking to the internet to remind people that it's Jesus' birthday, and you shouldn't cancel, adjust, or in any way acknowledge that even Christians might not be super excited about spending their Christmas at the church building.  It's just one of many ways that churches can ruin the holidays, and turn a time of blessing into a time of cursing...maybe literally.  Nate and Mark have some fund sharing memories and discussing this topic on today's episode. Enjoy!  And have a merry whatever.

In this episode, Nate and Mark talk at length about the challenge of facing confrontation, and having the difficult conversations that are sometimes necessary in life, but especially as it relates to the church world.  This topic deserves more than one episode, but at least we hope to get the conversation started. 

In episode 11, Nate and Mark take a pause to discuss what our heart truly is for The Hideous Bride.  Are we just looking to poke fun, cause trouble, stir the pot?  Or, are we actually trying to help.  If so, what is our goal?  We invite you into this conversation, and hope that you find it of value.

In this week's episode Nate and Mark have a chat about doctrinal statements.  Specifically why the are not in favor of them.  While the topic may be controversial, it is our hope that it will spark conversation and thought.  As always, we could be wrong, but we don't think so!

Just in case you have noticed that people are a little uptight these days, Nate and Mark decide to take a lighthearted pass at dealing with the issue of humor and laughter.  Fair warning...if you are easily offended, you might want to pass on this episode.  While we are talking generally about Christians, the topic is applicable to those in all walks of life. #Christianity #Church

In this episode, Nate and Mark finally get around to talking about the problem of really bad use of the Bible in preaching and daily use.  Pastors are not immune, and certainly we all need to do a better job.  Caution...this one gets a little hot!

We all think we are right.  There is nothing wrong with holding to a set of beliefs, and believing they are the right ones.  The problem comes when we make ourselves the standard of what is right. We might be tempted to believe we would never do that, but as Nate and Mark discuss in this episode, we often do it more than we think.

In this week's episode, Nate and Mark chat about why pastors take it so personally when people leave their churches.  We recognize that sometimes leaving is necessary, even recommended, but even in the best of circumstances, pastors will still be hurt.  Understanding this can help may a tough situation a little easier.   ALSO!!! In this episode, for the very first time, we answer a question asked by a viewer.  You don't want to miss it! #HideousBride #Church #Christianity #Christianpodcast

In this episode, Nate and I talk about the pros and cons of joining different size churches. Is one better than another? What should we expect when we join one or the other?  Warning...there may have also been some poop jokes in this episode. #churchmembership #church #Christianity

Sometimes Christians represent themselves as if their lives are better than they actually are.  Why do we do that?  Why do we feel the need to lie to people?  In this episode, Mark and Nate tackle this subject with some humor, but also a serious discussion on why this behavior can cause so much harm, and what to do about it.