Feeling like you're falling behind often means you're comparing your full story to someone else's highlight reel. In this Growth Spurt, Anthony Alibro challenges the idea of "borrowed deadlines," which are the timelines we inherit, infer, or impose on ourselves. Instead of asking, "Why am I not there yet?" ask, "Am I moving in the direction I want?" Growth isn't about keeping someone else's time. It's about setting your own clock.