The Friday ReFresh
The Friday ReFresh
Ben and Travis
Hello and welcome to the Friday ReFresh, a Ben and Travis podcast. I’m Ben from Ben and Travis and I have been working as a minister for 23 years and as a counselor for the last 10 years. I recognize that there are a lot of things in our world that impact different people in different ways. Working in counseling I’ve learned that there are a lot more things that can rock our world that I never knew existed. Many of those things are hidden struggles that others may never know about — or at least they don’t know about until something comes along and quite literally “opens up a can” of past trauma or hidden struggles. So I invite you to come along with me on this journey of exploration and understanding through this podcast which offers short episodes and hopefully informational and motivational material to help you as you prepare for the last day of the week. Not every episode will be about a mental health struggle but there will certainly be weeks that are. Sometimes we will just hope to give you a boost as you close out the week. However, there are some rules of engagement here though - some understanding that I want you to have before you agree to go on the journey. 1. Keep An Open Mind - Some of the things we talk about here may be new territory. It may be like one of those movies like Journey to the Center of the Earth where you see things that seem hard to comprehend. I know there were a lot of things that were hard for me to grasp at first and has certainly been hard to relate to others. So think of it like Journey to the Center of Your Soul. 2. It’s an Ever-Changing Landscape - The counseling field is something that seems to change all the time so understand that I may say some things that may be different than what you might have been taught in the past. It may also change as I record these over time. It is also true that various theories of counseling reveal different techniques for dealing with things so I will likely be sharing things from a wide variety of therapeutic mindsets. 3. No Two Experiences are the Same - Just because we share a thought about anxiety or depression doesn’t mean it will apply to every person who hears and so this is certainly not a replacement for good person centered counseling - but you may very well find some helpful tips for various things you may face. So, do you think you are good to start that journey? I hope so. Travis and I hope through this short podcast, along with the weekly Helping, Healing, Humor Podcast and our website to bring a better understanding of mental health to all people but especially to the church. It is a part of us that has been ignored for far too long. I hope that even in this short little podcast to help us have a little more understanding.
Finnish
This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by… Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007. It was November of 1939 and the country of Finland was staring down the barrel of a war machine of unimaginable power. Only three months before the German forces, led by Adolf Hitler, had invaded Poland, triggering a declaration of war. Now, the people of Finland were facing their own war with the Soviet Army lead by Joseph Stalin. They had rejected a proposal from the Soviet Union to move some of their shared border, give up some of their land, tear down their fortifications, and lease a Peninsula to build a military base. As the Soviets prepare to strike no one believes the skirmish would last more than 2 weeks. The Soviets had 3X more soldiers, 5X more artillery, 30X more aircraft, and 100X more tanks. On paper this would be a rout. And little more than a blip on the radar of world history. Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book https://www.benandtravis.com/books Helping. Healing. Humor. with Ben and Travis: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/batify/id1457601152?mt=2&uo=4 Good Old Fashioned Dislike podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-old-fashioned-dislike/id1643163790 Co-Producers: Justin B., Doris C., Rhonda F., Scott K., Mary H. This podcast is hosted by ZenCast.fm
Feb 16, 2024
6 min
Influence
This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by… Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007. How does one measure influence? There are standards for weight, height, and volume. There are even ways that people attempt to measure success. But influence is pretty hard to determine. Because influence is an open ended concept. Influence cannot be turned off. Influence cannot be contained. Influence cannot be measured simply because it’s still growing even as you attempt to put it on the scales. In fact Stephen King once said, “We never know which lives we influence, or when or why!” You cannot measure that for which you don’t have the full product. Only heaven knows. Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book https://www.benandtravis.com/books Helping. Healing. Humor. with Ben and Travis: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/batify/id1457601152?mt=2&uo=4 Good Old Fashioned Dislike podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-old-fashioned-dislike/id1643163790 Co-Producers: Justin B., Doris C., Rhonda F., Scott K., Mary H. This podcast is hosted by ZenCast.fm
Feb 2, 2024
4 min
Wrestling Bears
This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by… Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007. Have you ever ‘Rastled a Bear? I’ve read a few stories of men who did and most of them were on the losing end of that fight. Of course there was that one fella named Paul who at 13 years old stood 6’1’’ and weighed 180 pounds. He was challenged to wrestle a bear at a carnival for the whopping payout of $1. Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book https://www.benandtravis.com/books Helping. Healing. Humor. with Ben and Travis: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/batify/id1457601152?mt=2&uo=4 Good Old Fashioned Dislike podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-old-fashioned-dislike/id1643163790 Co-Producers: Justin B., Cayron M., Doris C., Rhonda F., Scott K., Mary H. This podcast is hosted by ZenCast.fm
Jan 12, 2024
5 min
The Christmas Secret
This is Your Friday Refresh brought to you by the UNA Christian Student Center. If you have a college age student in north west Alabama look up the Christian Student Center and get them connected. You will be glad you did. You can find them at Facebook.com/unacsc (http://Facebook.com/unacsc). I asked the 4 year olds at school this week what their favorite part about Christmas was. The answers were just as you might expect from little kiddos: Santa Claus Presents Food Candy Snow Snow men snow ball fights We live in Alabama…I can probably count on one hand the times it has snowed on Christmas…but still it’s associated with Christmas so whatever…we will go with it. Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book https://www.benandtravis.com/books Helping. Healing. Humor. with Ben and Travis: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/batify/id1457601152?mt=2&uo=4 Good Old Fashioned Dislike podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-old-fashioned-dislike/id1643163790 Co-Producers: Justin B., Doris C., Rhonda F., Scott K., Mary H. This podcast is hosted by ZenCast.fm
Dec 15, 2023
3 min
It Glows
This is Your Friday Refresh brought to you by the UNA Christian Student Center. If you have a college age student in north west Alabama look up the Christian Student Center and get them connected. You will be glad you did. You can find them at Facebook.com/unacsc. Well you know Dasher and Dancer and Prancer and Vixon. Comet and Cupid and Donner and Blitzen…but do you recall the most famous reindeer of all? Of course you do….you’ve sung the song…you’ve watched the claymation…and you have probably read the book  — or some variation of the story, hundreds of times. You have seen the decorations in every town across the globe… But do you know the story behind the story? Fiction often mimics real life in strange ways and the story behind the story certainly has some of the same elements. Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book https://www.benandtravis.com/books Helping. Healing. Humor. with Ben and Travis: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/batify/id1457601152?mt=2&uo=4 Good Old Fashioned Dislike podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-old-fashioned-dislike/id1643163790 Co-Producers: Justin B., Doris C., Rhonda F., Scott K., Mary H. This podcast is hosted by ZenCast.fm
Dec 1, 2023
5 min
Be The Reason
This is Your Friday Refresh brought to you by the UNA Christian Student Center. If you have a college age student in north west Alabama look up the Christian Student Center and get them connected. You will be glad you did. You can find them at Facebook.com/unacsc. I’m sure that by now you have been asked to share what you are thankful for at some point during this season. If you haven’t, then prepare yourself, it’s coming. It might be a round table discussion at Thanksgiving…or a DJ on the radio…or someone in a class at school or church. But at some point you are likely to be asked what you are thankful for. And I’m confident that without much prompting you could rattle off a long list of things for which to show gratitude. We are all blessed. Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book https://www.benandtravis.com/books Helping. Healing. Humor. with Ben and Travis: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/batify/id1457601152?mt=2&uo=4 Good Old Fashioned Dislike podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-old-fashioned-dislike/id1643163790 Co-Producers: Justin B., Doris C., Rhonda F., Scott K., Mary H. This podcast is hosted by ZenCast.fm
Nov 17, 2023
4 min
To This Day
This episode is brought to you by Three Cord Counseling in Muscle Shoals, Alabama. Check them out here: https://www.threecordshoals.com/ This weekend is one of the most anticipated weekends of the year for me. Nine years ago kenya and I attended the very first Ministering to Youth Conference (M2YConference.com) in Orlando, Florida. My friend, Brian Staron, had invited me to join the board for this new event to encourage anyone who worked with young people in the church. I gladly accepted and it’s been rolling along ever since. We did Orlando one year, Chattanooga one year, Pigeon Forge for 5 years, Knoxville last year and then Heritage Christian in Florence AL for this year’s conference. This year’s theme is “to this day.” Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book https://www.benandtravis.com/books Helping. Healing. Humor. with Ben and Travis: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/batify/id1457601152?mt=2&uo=4 Good Old Fashioned Dislike podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-old-fashioned-dislike/id1643163790 Co-Producers: Justin B., Cayron M., Doris C., Rhonda F., Scott K., Mary H. This podcast is hosted by ZenCast.fm
Nov 4, 2023
3 min
Time Travel
This episode is brought to you by Three Cord Counseling in Muscle Shoals, Alabama. Check them out here: https://www.threecordshoals.com/ Where would you go if you could drop everything and go anywhere you wanted to right now? But don’t limit yourself to where you can go with roads…where I’m talking about you don’t need roads. Let’s say you could travel back in time. Perhaps you had built a Time Machine…974 of a Delorian and equipped it with a flux capacitor that would go exactly 88 miles per hour. Or perhaps you could step into a Quantum Leap mechanism. Or any number machine that would allow you to go anywhere you wanted to. Where would you go? And why? Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book https://www.benandtravis.com/books Helping. Healing. Humor. with Ben and Travis: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/batify/id1457601152?mt=2&uo=4 Good Old Fashioned Dislike podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-old-fashioned-dislike/id1643163790 Co-Producers: Justin B., Cayron M., Doris C., Rhonda F., Scott K., Mary H. This podcast is hosted by ZenCast.fm
Oct 20, 2023
3 min
Who Not What
Who Not What Welcome in to the Friday Refresh brought to you by the Good Old Fashioned Dislike podcast (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-old-fashioned-dislike/id1643163790) If you love football and rivalries intrigue you, then the Good Ole Fashioned Dislike Podcast is for you. Each week Travis picks a match up to highlight and the panel decides what they love and hate about each team—mostly based on non-football aspects of the school or town or history. So check it out every Monday morning wherever you find your podcasts. ———————- Speaking of football. I honestly can’t remember a time when I didn’t love football. The only time I actually played organized football was at Freed-Hardeman and it was an intramural flag football team. But I remember watching Monday Night football with my dad and pretending to run into the couches in the living room like they were the defensive line. I’m not sure which wore out faster — the couches or my dads nerves. Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book https://www.benandtravis.com/books Helping. Healing. Humor. with Ben and Travis: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/batify/id1457601152?mt=2&uo=4 Good Old Fashioned Dislike podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-old-fashioned-dislike/id1643163790 This podcast is hosted by ZenCast.fm
Oct 6, 2023
4 min
Smell the Flowers
This episode is brought to you by Three Cord Counseling in Muscle Shoals, Alabama. Check them out here: https://www.threecordshoals.com/ Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book https://www.benandtravis.com/books Helping. Healing. Humor. with Ben and Travis: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/batify/id1457601152?mt=2&uo=4 Good Old Fashioned Dislike podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-old-fashioned-dislike/id1643163790 This podcast is hosted by ZenCast.fm
Sep 22, 2023
3 min
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