The Focused Fundraiser
The Focused Fundraiser
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"How Dare You Assume They Don’t Want to Give?"
19 minutes Posted Dec 2, 2025 at 8:40 pm.
Intro – Welcome to The Focused Fundraiser00:28 Ashley’s NICU story & founding Dear NICU Mama03:05 Fundraising when the mission is personal06:03 Measuring impact for peer support nonprofits09:25 How Ashley stays focused as an executive director13:06 The one thing she’d invest in sooner: the board14:57 Building a supportive, high-impact nonprofit board17:50 “How dare you assume they don’t want to give?”19:39 DonorDock and episode wrap-upWant to learn how DonorDock can help you find clarity and build a strong donor base through smart stewardship?Visit: DonorDock.com
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What if your most personal pain became the fuel for a powerful fundraising mission? 💛In this episode of The Focused Fundraiser, host Rob Burke talks with Ashley Hamm, co-founder and Executive Director of Dear NICU Mama. Ashley shares how her son’s 3-month NICU stay led her to launch a nonprofit that provides peer support for NICU moms—and how she’s learned to focus her fundraising, not just “do more.”You’ll hear:– Ashley’s NICU story and why Dear NICU Mama exists– The surprising challenge of fundraising for a deeply personal mission– How a small nonprofit measures impact when the work is emotional and relational– Why revitalizing their nonprofit board in 2024 was a game changer– Practical ways small-shop executive directors can stay focused and avoid burnout– The fundraising quote that changed everything: “How dare you assume they don’t want to give?” (via Patrick Kirby)– How tools like DonorDock help build a strong donor base through better stewardshipIf you’re a nonprofit leader, fundraiser, or executive director wearing “all the hats,” this conversation will encourage you to focus on what matters most: your mission, your people, and your donors.CHAPTERS00:00 Intro – Welcome to The Focused Fundraiser00:28 Ashley’s NICU story & founding Dear NICU Mama03:05 Fundraising when the mission is personal06:03 Measuring impact for peer support nonprofits09:25 How Ashley stays focused as an executive director13:06 The one thing she’d invest in sooner: the board14:57 Building a supportive, high-impact nonprofit board17:50 “How dare you assume they don’t want to give?”19:39 DonorDock and episode wrap-upWant to learn how DonorDock can help you find clarity and build a strong donor base through smart stewardship?Visit: DonorDock.com