The Final Say
The Final Say
Debra Jarvis
This is the podcast where you can get comfortable talking about death and learn some things about life from people who are facing death.
Mattering
Facing her own death, Jan says that the most important thing to her is that she mattered. In spite of "dancing" with cancer for 36 years, Jan spent years of service to the world and her story is filled with synchronicity and trusting your intuition. 
Oct 30, 2025
27 min
Speaking In Tongues
What does an excellent preacher do when he loses his ability to speak clearly? Find a translator who not only understands your words, but also understands your heart. For Rev. Randall Mullins, that person was his wife Sharon Pavelda. 
Apr 26, 2025
24 min
The Expert Says
Trudy James was a death and dying expert, a dynamic and articulate speaker and--a close friend of Debra's. She said some surprising things about facing her own death and some provocative things about facing life.   
Nov 1, 2024
26 min
Bullet Train
All of us are on a train ride to death. Some of us are on the milk run which makes the trip pretty long.  Some of us are on an express run which shortens things a bit. And then there are those of us, like Julie Davis, who found herself on a bullet train. Here's how she's handling the ride. 
Jul 13, 2024
30 min
Straight To Jail!
When he was kid, everyone thought Frank Marchand would go straight to jail as an adult. But things didn't turn out the way everyone expected--or the way Frank expected. 
May 23, 2024
23 min
Music In His Heart
Flamenco guitarist Ben Phipps explains how he finds meaning, purpose and joy in his life; the support of his family and friends and why he chose not to continue chemo for his brain cancer.
Mar 16, 2024
24 min
"And yet .  .  . " Mini-Episode/ Mark Goulston
Debra was rattled at the unexpected death of her last guest. In this episode, she talks about why. 
Feb 29, 2024
7 min
Can We Talk About It?
Even people who work in the field of dying and death have a hard time talking about their own deaths. But Dr. Mark Goulston has found talking about it and being emotionally vulnerable has set him free. 
Dec 31, 2023
24 min
Just Show Up!
What to say and how to keep meaning and purpose in your life? Here's what matters: Just show up.  Bill Gardner has some wise thoughts on those challenges. 
Oct 24, 2023
35 min
There's Love On the Other Side
Juliana Fodera has died twenty-one times. She tells us how she navigated those trips and we might experience. Her biggest piece of advice? "Stay curious!"
Aug 28, 2023
21 min
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