Rose checks in with an update: summer break is in session! Patricia and Rose will be back in August with new episodes and guest hosts! Stay tuned!

Patricia shares a useful metaphor to an open heart, but only partially open. That is until a visitor earns access to the full treasures of the secret bodega. No scrotes allowed.

Why online dating is weird, and why the same strategies apply What does it mean to be a woman - an FDS queen - in the era of the internet? How do we date and approach online dating as a strategy? What approaches do we take and what are the means by which we vet and protect ourselves? Patricia and Rose host a freewheeling discussion of life, love, and FDS tactics online and on the ground! Are you interested in participating in a documentary series about being a woman in the world of the internet? Please reach out with an email to us and we will forward it along to the documentary crew!  [email protected] Also email if you want a PDF of the FDS Handbook!

What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest. "Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link [https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/08862605261432630] from the Journal of Interpersonal Violence Thich Nhat Hanh youtube video [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3-aJON5780] on helping hungry ghosts

Sometimes the best dating strategy is not dating at all. Here are 3 introspection questions you can ask yourself to figure out how that looks for you. We loved getting all the episode ideas as well as co-hosting offers from you! It will take us a moment to get back to everyone Let us know what you think via Spotify comments or email as at [email protected] Love you queens!  Scrotes die mad

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FDS OG Podcast Queen Savannah makes an appearance to offer her insights on pretty privilege and challenge the narrative. Is it really a privilege? Savannah and Rose discuss lesser-known facets of what pretty privileges signify for both the pretty and the plain. If you would like to be featured on the show to share your dating or level-up lessons with the community, please shoot us an email at: [email protected] Scrotes be mad and take it out on pretty ladies

Ladies, never date a philosopher - unless you want a masterclass in whataboutism, sealioning, gas lighting, and debates about your needs and boundaries! Want your dating lessons to be featured on the show? Submit your Roast-a-Scrote to: [email protected]

In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a Shame Renaissance on the horizon? Can or should  FDS Queens embrace shame as a necessary behavioral corrective in dating and courtship? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof. Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic Join the conversation by commenting on Spotify Also, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are here and aim to keep the consistency ♡♡♡