Join these two queer best friends as they invite you to discuss life, love and the pursuit of good sex! Nikki and the DuTchess have been out of the game for a minute due to technical difficulties, but were determined to finish this shit year on a positive note.  In today's episode, these two best friends redefine the meaning of "kiki" as they cackle about Dionne Warwick's Twitter antics and Will Ferrell's "Eurovision Song Contest:  The Story of Fire Saga." Also, make sure to visit our friends over at Schwarz Watches.  Mention us and get a 10% discount on your next purchase.  Simply type in the code “TRENDYDIPLOMAT2020” at checkout As always, if you have any questions, go ahead and shoot us an email at [email protected] and we will read them aloud . . . at some point!

Join these two queer best friends as they invite you to discuss life, love and the pursuit of good sex! This week, Nikki and the DuTchess had a bad week so we talk about things that make us happy with a walk down memory lane. More importantly . . . GO VOTE . . . please visit FVAP.GOV for more information about how you can still vote.  Please go vote! Also, make sure to visit our friends over at Schwarz Watches.  Mention us and get a 10% discount on your next purchase.  Simply type in the code “TRENDYDIPLOMAT2020” at checkout As always, if you have any questions, go ahead and shoot us an email at [email protected]

Join these two queer best friends as they invite you to discuss life, love and the pursuit of good sex! This week, Nikki and the DuTchess are back chatting about the woes of adulting and that raging bitch co-host, the Rona. More importantly . . . GO VOTE . . . please visit FVAP.GOV for more information about how you can still vote.  Please go vote! Also, make sure to visit our friends over at Schwarz Watches.  Mention us and get a 10% discount on your next purchase.  Simply type in the code “TRENDYDIPLOMAT2020” at checkout

Nikki and the DuTchess are back for a bonus episode as we talk about the Fly that turned into an overnight sensation.   Join these two queer best friends as they invite you to discuss life, love and the pursuit of good sex! Also, make sure to visit our friends over at Schwarz Watches.  Mention us and get a 10% discount on your next purchase.  Simply type in the code “TRENDYDIPLOMAT2020” at checkout

Hey friends, Nikki and the DuTchess are back after an extended summer vacation.  We chat about an incredibly eventful summer for both of us personally including international moves and house purchases, how the Rona has run roughshod over the White House.  You don't want to miss it! Join these two queer best friends as they invite you to discuss life, love and the pursuit of good sex! Also, make sure to visit our friends over at Schwarz Watches.  Mention us and get a 10% discount on your next purchase.  Simply type in the code “TRENDYDIPLOMAT2020” at checkout

This week in the Coronapacolypse, Nikki and The DuTchess talk about how the EU recently banned Americans from traveling to Europe, the new Will Ferrell Film "Eurovision" and what it is actually like getting tested for Ms. Rona.  Also . . . what is an August Alsina (sp?), why was he sleeping with Jada Pinkett Smith, why did Will let him, and why is Jada talking about it (AGAIN!)? Have questions or comments?  Please send those to "[email protected]."  Also, please like, follow and subscribe to our podcast on iTunes, Spotify and all other major platforms.

In this episode, Nikki and The DuTchess talk about how most folks don't wash they damn hands, how the Rona has not been cancelled, and what we want corporate activism to look like. Out "Netflix and Chill" of the week:  "8:46" - The Dave Chappelle comedy special New Muzak: Chloe x Halle ungodly Hour album https://open.spotify.com/album/1ReoUTt497nUg3u1ERgYwS?si=MAwI5ahGTMa5dzcvaZFVDw and in honor of the finale Insecure Season 4 playlist again (all songs from season 4!) https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DX3Ei2cOBgIym?si=c9J8yulXRByfX-3grvghYg The Challenge:  Open your purse and donate! I've made a small personal donation and I'm discussing a larger or recurring donations with my wife. The Next Challenge: Celebrate Juneteenth! As always, a big thank you to our friends over at Schwarz Watches!  Make sure to visit them and get 15% off using discount code "THEFAMILYWECHOOSE"

In this episode of "The Family We Choose," Nikki and The Dutchess discuss supporting black business, protesting with wypipo and these funky ass Kente Cloth Stoles. Netflix and Chill:  Are we really watching anything other than “Insecure?” New Muzak: Black, Queer, and Proud Playlist on Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DWYdV3Fs5eWjC?si=Ewkko89gROimo-OyGSmpnw The Challenge:  We made it to this week. Yay! The next challenge: If you can't hit these streets, open your purse! Donate to the cause! This article lists 115 opportunities to donate broken out by category including: Victim Memorial Funds, Bail Funds, Mega Funds, Frontline Funds, Community Restoration/Enrichment, Youth Oriented, Policy/Police/Incarceration reform, Political organizations, Black LGBTQ funds/organizations, Media organizations, Mental Health organizations, Healthcare funds/organizations.  Pick one! https://nymag.com/strategist/article/where-to-donate-for-black-lives-matter.html

Nicki and the DuTchess take a moment to discuss the Police Brutality Protests in detail.  For more information about how you can contribute to the cause, please visit trendydiplomat.com. This episode is dedicated to All Black Lives . . . but especially Black Trans Lives!

This episode is dedicated to the memory of George Floyd who was murdered in a now viral social media video.  Nikki and the DuTchess are reeling from a string of crimes against brown and black bodies, but use this episode to talk about one of our joint passions . . . music.  Join Nikki and the DuTchess as they discuss life, love and the pursuit of good sex in the 10th installment of "The Family We Choose" entitled:  "I can't breathe!