The Detroit Dadcast
The Detroit Dadcast
Rory Hughes
Welcome to The Detroit Dadcast. I’m your host, regular dad, Rory Hughes. I started this podcast with a simple goal: to have authentic conversations with other dads about fatherhood. Nothing more, nothing less. In my experience, real discussions among men about anything other than money and sports are hard to come by. Hearing stories of these other dads might spark an insight for you. Or perhaps you’ll just nod your head and say, “Yeah, I can totally relate.” Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
#16. Collaborating with Taye Diggs, Why a Urethroscope is Less Painful Than Watching Michigan Football, and The Future of Education (with Brian Galvin)
For this episode I sat down with Brian Galvin (BG), a a good friend who looks like Matt Damon and also happens to be wicked smart. No seriously, he has a photographic memory. In this heady discussion, BG reveals the dude’s side of the in vitro saga, goes full Bezos on his predictions about K-12 education, presents an interesting thesis on why Michigan weather is a source of unity, and reflects on collaborations with the likes of Taye Diggs and Common. And a lot more. Some of you may recognize BG's voice from our critically acclaimed 2005 single, "Manifesto," back when being a middle-class white rapper was actually considered ironic. Enjoy. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
Feb 26, 2021
1 hr 12 min
#15. Why We Deglaze the Pan, Forgetting the Diaper Bag, and Spiritual Death and Rebirth (with James Boardman)
For this episode I sat down with my great friend James Boardman, a man who single-handedly forced me to change the podcast's profanity policy. James riffs on the curiously poor dental health in England, the life of a stay-at-home dad, growing up in a cult, having a winless record in arguments against his badass lawyer wife, developing flavor in the kitchen, and his spiritual death and subsequent awakening after his sister Sarah's death. James is one of the most generous, reflective, and genuine people I know. He's also British, so that makes him more fun to listen to. I want to apologize for the ticking noise in the background - the Boardman family just got a dog. Don't worry, we won't talk about the dog. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
Feb 10, 2021
43 min
#14. Being The Pastor's Kid, Chasing Adrenaline, and Why You Take Your Kid Outside No Matter How Cold It Is (with Ben Jacobs)
For Episode 14 I sat down with Ben Jacobs, whom I’ve known for 40 years.  His folks have been second parents to me and though I can’t quite call him a brother he's definitely more than a cousin. We also share a man crush on Aaron Rodgers so I think that makes us related in some way.  Ben has always been an adrenaline junkie, which explains why he was a nationally ranked gymnast and a stunt man at Disney for several years.  A big kid himself, he has always loved kids and been a natural with them, which is why it was so much fun to listen to him talk about dad life with his two daughters. I hope you enjoy this wide-ranging chat with a guy who's developed one hell of a Wisconsin accent. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
Jan 27, 2021
47 min
#13. Picking Your Own Trash, The Joy of Coaching Your Kids, and Why Quality Beats Quantity (with Joe Johnson)
For this episode I sat down with Joe Johnson, AKA MC Schlep, one of the two good friends I made in graduate school.  Joe has always been just ahead of me in most life events--getting married, buying a house, having kids, becoming a functioning adult--so I feel lucky to have learned from him.  In this chat we explore, among other topics:  the mindset of an East Sider; how his experience at Warren De La Salle, an all-boys Catholic school, shaped him; trash picking; bargain grocery-shopping; coaching his kids; losing both parents relatively young; and the importance of low post position in a marriage. Enjoy. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
Jan 13, 2021
44 min
#12. A Wild Adoption Journey, Sleeping in Your In-Laws’ Bedroom, and How Child-Rearing Prepares You For Dealing with Politicians (with Senator Jim Ananich)
For Episode #13, I sat down with Michigan State Senator Jim Ananich, a friend of nearly three decades. Our relationship had been characterized by tennis and basketball, using my 50% discount at Bennigan’s when we weren’t hungry, and spontaneous explosions of Dayton Family rap sessions in public. Somehow we’ve become responsible adults with children, and Jim is now the highest ranking democrat in the Michigan Senate. Thankfully he has not lost his integrity or his sense of humor.  In this chat we cover a lot: his harrowing adoption journey; losing both parents at a young age; and fatherhood as a catalyst for growth. Sit back, get ready to learn and to laugh.  Also: When your kid doesn't care that the governor is calling Peabo Bryson;  Why dumb people shouldn't form education policy;  Raising a biracial son Dragging days, flying weeks. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
Dec 28, 2020
55 min
#11. The Dangers of Free Range Parenting, Running a Business With Your Wife, and How a Syrian Father and Maltese Mother Realized the American Dream (with Sami Aljallad)
For this episode I sat down with Sami Aljallad, an old friend and and fellow father of only boys. Among other topics, Sami discusses the joys and challenges of running a business with your spouse, how being the son of immigrants informs his parenting, and why free-range doesn’t work for him. Sami’s life moves as quickly as his brain, but he’s a true family man with a relentless focus on making a better future for his kids.  Enjoy this meandering chat with the one and only Sami the Bull. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
Aug 17, 2019
39 min
#10. Picking the Right Woman, Word-Up Magazine x 1000, and Why Pictures of Old-Ass Relatives in Parlors Still Matter (with Quentin Barrett)
For this episode I sat down with Quentin Barrett, a fellow thespian and father of two teenage girls. Among other topics, Quentin discusses raising girls in the age of social media, the importance of identity, and why making education a priority takes care of most problems. Quentin holds a rare combination of conviction and humility; listen to him talk and you wonder why he’s not a teacher or a preacher.  I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
May 11, 2019
47 min
#9. Checking the Tape at Day Care, Dad Power, and Being Right vs. Being Happy (with Jeff Beeler)
For Episode 9, I sat down with the rambling Jeff Beeler, a guy who defies all convention.  He’s an East Tennessee boy who would feel equally comfortable freestyle rapping with Lil’ Wayne as singing a duet with Dierks Bentley. In fact there’s a good chance he’s done both.  Jeff embodies one of my favorite Emerson quotes:  “Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.”  He’s an adventurer, an explorer, a guy who “sucks the marrow out of life,” and for this conversation we zero in on the struggles and joys of being a father to his 18-month old daughter.  Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
Apr 14, 2019
33 min
#8. Is Walt Disney The Antichrist?, The Baker Mayfield Workout, and Why Kids Share More DNA with Sharks Than With Chimps (with Peter Hughes)
For Episode 8, I sat down with my oldest brother, Peter Hughes,  someone I've looked up to (literally and figuratively) for over four decades.   Among topics covered: The real story on Disney, why moving weight at 4:45 am is the best way to start your day;  parenting as a left-brainer, and why kids are more like sharks than monkeys. I've always admired Peter's analytical nature, his broad knowledge on a ridiculous number of subjects --we used to call him "The Peternet"-- and his unwavering love for and commitment to his family.  It's been one of my greatest pleasures in life to see our relationship grow from physical and verbal abuse (he used to punch me, I used to call him "pizza face"), to watching our kids grow up together.  Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
Mar 25, 2019
37 min
#7. The Sensible Approach to Youth Sports, Why It's Okay to Ignore Your Wife Sometimes, and The Easy Choice Between Sleep and Exercise (with Paul Vance)
For Episode 7, I sat down with close friend, accomplished athlete, and equally accomplished attorney, Paul Vance.   Among the topics he covers:  the challenges of balancing family, work, and physical fitness; the evils of the iPad; the insanity of youth sports; why it's okay to just sit silently in the same room and not talk to your wife. As always, Paul is honest, insightful, and succinct.  He also happens to be one of the most loyal, stand-up guys I know.  I hope you get as much out of this conversation as I did.   Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
Mar 15, 2019
28 min
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