The Deep Dive with Adam Roa
The Deep Dive with Adam Roa
Adam Roa
Why Men Stay In Situationships (from a man who did)
13 minutes Posted Oct 29, 2026 at 5:43 pm.
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Stuck in situationships while saying you're ready for a relationship? For years I said I wanted one. Fifteen years of journals told a different story: I loved the highs of single life, and I was waiting for someone who would make them higher. In this episode I talk about the two wants hiding inside "I want a relationship," why fireworks are the wrong test for love, the difference between an activated love and a settled one, and what happened two weeks after I finally committed on the inside. If you keep saying you're ready and nothing changes, this one is for you.

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