
In this episode, host Michelle McAnaney talks with Sean Dermody, a junior at the University of Virginia and current campus tour guide, about how families can get the most out of college tours. With a longtime personal connection (dating back to when Sean was 5 months old!) conversation is both warm and informative, offering valuable behind-the-scenes insights into what college tours are really like and how to approach them strategically.Sean shares his experience becoming a UVA tour guide, how he personalizes his tours and how students and parents can ask meaningful questions to get past the scripted basics. He also talks about lingering after the tour, the most and least helpful questions he’s received, and how families can connect with the right tour guide to learn about specific interests.The episode wraps with a spotlight on UVA, plus a reminder that any time is a good time to take a tour—summer included—and sign up info for The College Spy’s Summer Application Bootcamp.******* College SpotlightUniversity of Virginia******* Episode Highlights1:42 Meet Sean Dermody - the funny story about how Michelle and Sean know each other8:43 The worst part of UVA (spoiler: finding an open spot at the gym!)11:44 The best questions Sean has been asked on a tour12:55 Parents + tours18:40 How to customize your tour to fit your student's interest19:20 Sean's experience of working with The College Spy to build a list & work on his application21:21 A great essay tip to bring the reader along with you (celebrating Sean's 5 minute mile!)22:22 The best way to jumpstart your applications this summer********* Links & ContactRegister for The College Spy Bootcamp sessions this August: https://thecollegespy.com/coursesandcamps/the-college-spy-boot-campLearn more about The College Spy and the admissions advisory services offered by Michelle and her team: https://thecollegespy.com/Contact Michelle McAnaney at [email protected]
Jul 29, 2025
29 min

In this episode, host Michelle McAnaney of The College Spy speaks with Beth Felsen, founder of Spectrum Transition Coaching, about the challenges autistic students face when transitioning to college.Beth Felsen is the founder of Spectrum Transition Coaching and an autism specialist with a Master’s in Psychology. Beth brings over twenty years of experience in the autism community to her coaching practice and as a parent of an autistic young adult, she understands the challenges of raising autistic adults firsthand. Beth is a graduate of the Autism Association of New England’s Intensive Autism Coach Training & Teens and College Students Executive Function Coach Training through JST Coaching and Training. She is also a certified provider of the UCLA PEERS for Young Adults Social Skills intervention and a trained counselor for the Greenwood Holistic Career Assessment. Beth is a member of WISER and the College Autism Network (CAN) and a frequent speaker at neurodivergent focused events. We dive into why the college transition is hard for ALL students and how it can be specifically challenging for autistic students due to loss of familiar scaffolding, social challenges, executive function demands and self-advocacy requirements.Today's episode includes practical strategies for parents to help prepare their children for this significant life change. Start with understanding the differences between high school and college and helping your student discuss their diagnosis. Michelle and Beth also encourage parents to allow their student to experience controlled failure while still at home so they build confidence, resilience and independence. Also in this episode:Admission Tip of the Day: Don't hesitate to share an autism diagnosis on college applications. This information can help with acceptance as colleges seek diversity, including neurodiversity, and it highlights the student's unique strengths.***College Spotlight: Nova Southeastern University***Key points in this episode1:52 Meet Beth Felsen, Founder of Spectrum Transition Coaching6:57 Why the transition to college can be difficult for all students14:40 Deciding if college is the right next step after high school23:32 How College 101 helps families prepare in high school31:56 Tip of the Day32:30 College Spotlight on Nova Southeastern University***College 101: Preparing Your Autistic Student by Spectrum Transition Coaching: A comprehensive online course for parents. Use promo code "THECOLLEGESPY" to save $50. Spectrum Transition CoachingLearn more about our Countdown to College Package - our concierge package as your personal college counselor: https://thecollegespy.com/countdown-to-college-packageLearn more about The College Spy and the admissions advisory services offered by Michelle and her team -- Go to The College Spy WebsiteContact Michelle McAnaney at [email protected]
May 21, 2025
38 min

We all know that college admissions officers look at your student’s GPA, course rigor, extracurriculars and test results.
But would you be surprised to know that your intended major can also impact admissions decisions?
This conversation with Lisa Marker Robbins is a must-listen as your high school student plans for college applications. Thinking ahead to majors and career goals can have a significant impact on which universities your student wants to apply to as well as their admissions prospects at those schools. Lisa and her team completed in-depth research with the 50 flagship state universities to learn more about how majors play a role in their admissions decisions.
Lisa Marker Robbins has the heart of a teacher, coupled with a purpose and passion for supporting families, teens and young adults through her career coaching course, Launch Career Clarity. Since 1999, she has supported thousands of students as an independent college counselor.
In 2010, she doubled down specifically on college major and career coaching for students because she realized those two things were the cornerstone of post high school planning. Four thousand students have benefited from her proven three pillar framework, moving them from overwhelmed and confused to clear, confident and motivated about their future. In 2018, Forbes magazine cited her work as a crucial first step in improving the ROI of college.
Also in this episode:
Admission Tip of the Day: Start job shadow experiences and informational interviews in high school. Online resources are helpful but talking to a real person working in the field can bring a new perspective.
College Spotlight: Colorado College
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Key points in this episode
2:49 Meet Lisa Marker Robbins
5:28 Research on the impact of major & college selection
6:33 What do 90% of flagship colleges care about?
10:08 The busy phase of raising teenagers
12:07 Who owns the career exploration process?
15:40 How colleges try to balance their incoming class
20:01 Thoughts on transferring colleges
20:43 Recommended career resources
25:00 Flourish Coaching’s practice and data
29:05 Admissions Tip of the Day
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Additional Resources
BLS.gov - The Occupational Outlook Handbook
O-Net Online
Launch Career Clarity by Flourish Coaching
Lisa Marker Robbin's research for all 50 state flagship universities
Learn more about College Admissions 101
Learn more about The College Spy and the admissions advisory services offered by Michelle and her team -- Go to The College Spy Website
Contact Michelle McAnaney at [email protected]
Jan 31, 2025
34 min

Join us for my interview with Ryan Palm, Executive Director of the Brad McGarry Center for Neurodiversity at Mercyhurst University. Not only will you learn about the AIM program at Mercyhurst and how it supports autistic students, but we also cover how to research and evaluate these kinds of fee-based programs, how college is different from high school for neurodivergent students and what you can do as a parent of an autistic student to help prepare them for college while they're in high school.
Ryan Palm is the executive director of the Brad McGarry Center for Neurodiversity at Mercyhurst University and is working to expand the mission of the Autism Initiative at Mercyhurst (AIM) with a focus on increasing enrollment and building corporate relationships and employment opportunities. In this role, Ryan brings employment experience in three primary sectors, government, non profit, and corporate, and leverages those experiences and connections to help AIM students with their career aspirations. Ryan also identifies new partnership opportunities that will benefit both Mercyhurst students, as well as the external partner, creating a new or expanded pipeline of neurodivergent talent.
Also in this episode:
How Academic Coaching can help your neurodivegent student prepare for college.
Admission Tip of the Day: Make sure to be working on the following college ready skills while your student is in high school so they're most likely to have a successful transition to college.
The ability to make decisions on their own.
The ability to solve their own problems.
Money management skills.
Advocating for oneself
Being able to complete work independently
Learn about Academic Coaching: https://thecollegespy.com/academic-coaching-package-high-school
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College Spotlight: Elon University
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Key points in this episode
1:52 Meet Ryan Palm
4:25 Introduction to AIM and how does the program support autistic students
6:00 Why autistic students struggle in college
6:45 Modifications vs Accommodations
8:44 Recommendations for researching fee-based college support programs
13:45 Admissions at AIM is not related to admissions at Mercyhurst
17:22 Academic Coaching to prepare students for college
18:20 Challenges for families as their students transition to college
19:53 FERPA waiver discussions
21:50 Fees and financial aid for a fee-based support program
24.35 CREATE program at Mercyhurst
30:28 Tip of the Day
31:15 College Spotlight: Elon University
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Learn more about Mercyhurst University’s AIM program: https://www.mercyhurst.edu/student-services/autism-initiative
Learn more about our Countdown to College Package - our concierge package as your personal college counselor: https://thecollegespy.com/countdown-to-college-package
Learn more about The College Spy and the admissions advisory services offered by Michelle and her team -- Go to The College Spy Website
Contact Michelle McAnaney at [email protected]
Dec 3, 2024
36 min

Join us for my interview with Brett Fuller of Pioneer Academics, a company that coordinates research opportunities for high school students. We discuss the impact of academic research on the college admissions process, why it makes sense for some students and what to look for in a research program. You’ll learn if publication really matters, how to share this on your application and what a research experience with Pioneeer Academics looks like.
Brett Fuller has more than a decade of experience in the college admissions world. He began his career at Manhattan College before spending five years in the undergraduate admissions office at Columbia University, where he also earned his master's degree in higher and post-secondary administration. He later served as Associate Dean of Admissions for Wake Forest University before joining Pioneer Academics in 2022.
Also in this episode: What’s included in our concierge level package - Countdown to College. Looking for unlimited touchpoints and a personal approach? This is for you.
Admission Tip of the Day: Look for ways to extend and expand on your activities and interests. Start a blog, website or YouTube channel sharing your expertise. Or find a volunteer opportunity. Academic research is just one of the ways to show your interests and intellectual curiosity.
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College Spotlight: Howard University
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Key points in this episode
2:49 Meet Brett Fuller
3:39 What are the benefits of academic research in high school
8:34 Skipping ‘manufactured’ applications
9:32 How to find a research experience
11:04 Academic research programs - product fulfillment vs. guided research
12:45 Does publication matter?
15:34 What is intellectual curiosity?
19:44 What a Pioneer research experience looks like
23:27 Sharing research on a college application
30:10 Tip of the Day
31:01 College Spotlight
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Learn more about Pioneer Academics: https://pioneeracademics.com/
Learn more about our Countdown to College Package - our concierge package as your personal college counselor: https://thecollegespy.com/countdown-to-college-package
Learn more about The College Spy and the admissions advisory services offered by Michelle and her team -- Go to The College Spy WebsiteContact Michelle McAnaney at [email protected]
Nov 6, 2024
37 min

#23: Charting Your Course Preview: An Interview with Aaron Basko
Join us for an interview with Aaron Basko, author of “Find Your Purpose. Manage Your Career” and instructor for our upcoming live class Charting Your Course. As a higher education leader, speaker and author, Aaron has led four different colleges to enrollment turnarounds and been quoted in Forbes, Inside Higher Ed and the Chronicle of Higher Education. Today, we’ll be talking about his practical book full of hands-on advice to help students discover where their passions lie and turn that into a rewarding career. You’ll learn why starting early is so important, how to think about selecting a major and a pro tip for triangulation that you can use in creating a compelling application package.
Also in this episode:
Admission Tip of the Day: There is a wide range of competitiveness in college athletics from Division I to club sports to intramural sports. If sports have been an important and positive part of your high school career, look for ways that it can be part of your college life too! There will be a level where you are ‘good enough’ to play!
Course registration: Sign up for our live, interactive course with Aaron Basko starting on October 29. This class is designed to be taken by parents and students together to help students make progress towards deciding their major and career path. Space is limited. Register here.
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College Spotlight: American University
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Key points in this episode
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3:40 Meet Aaron Basko
4:24 Aaron’s favorite way to help people maximize their potential
4:38 The 3 reasons why Michelle loved Aaron’s book
6:16 The 3 keys to a career fit: design, desire and demand
7:35 Why grade 10 is a good place to start
9:23 Why “find your passion” isn’t enough
13:10 Michelle’s love/hate relationship with assessments
18:47 Managing your ‘brand’ in the admissions process
20:50 Aaron’s insider tip on triangulation
22:11 What typical career paths look like today
23:13 The power of informational interviews
28:23 How to get Aaron’s book
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Register for Charting Your Course - 1 spot per family
Learn more about Aaron Basko
Order Aaron’s book on Amazon
Register for the next College Admissions 101 session
Learn more about The College Spy and the admissions advisory services offered by Michelle and her team -- Go to The College Spy Website
Contact Michelle McAnaney at [email protected]
Oct 14, 2024
36 min

Is academic research an important part of the admissions process? How do you know if it’s right for your student? And how do you find a position that fits your student’s interests?
We cover all of these topics and more in today’s episode with Dr. Robert Malkin, Professor of the Practice of Biomedical Engineering and Global Health, Emeritus at Duke University in Durham, North Carolina. He is also the Academic Director of the International Research Institute of North Carolina. Dr. Malkin was the founder and Director of Engineering World Health and The Global Public Service Academies, organizations dedicated to improving healthcare in the developing world.
Dr. Malkin talks to The College Spy about why academic research can help a college application stand out from the crowd. He also explains why experienced mentorship is so crucial to a research position. You’ll learn the importance of correct citation of your research and why apprenticeship is the key method to learn research skills.
Dr. Malkin published a helpful guide for high school students looking to get into academic research that we highly recommend. Link below.
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Tip of the Day: Think about whether a large university is right for your student. These schools often have wide varieties of majors and student organizations but some students feel that it takes time to find their place and get to know professors. Visit large, small and medium sized colleges to get a feel for what is best.
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College Spotlight: Northeastern University
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Key points in this episode:
2:57 Meet Dr. Robert Malkin
6:40 The best ways to get research positions
10:55 The importance of mentorship
13:08 Why your mentor matters more than the institution name
17:40 Why networking matters in research
19:30 How important is research to getting in?
22:00 Is research a good fit?
23:40 Goals for academic research
26: 37 Tip of the Day
27:45 College Spotlight on Northeastern University
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Read the podcast transcript: https://thecollegespy.com/podcast
Learn more about The College Spy and the admissions advisory services- Go to The College Spy Website
Learn more about Dr. Malkin
Buy "A Guide to Academic Research for High School Students: Finding and Managing Your Lab Experience"
Contact Michelle McAnaney at [email protected]
Sep 30, 2024
33 min

Back to school season is here! High school students often start the year excited to reinvent themselves. Learn how to harness this positive energy to start the semester on the right foot.
Today, we’re talking with Lisa Delfino, The College Spy’s academic coach for students with autism, ADHD and other learning disabilities. As a high school special education teacher for over 40 years, Lisa helps students master their strengths, organize their time and improve their grades.
Here’s Lisa’s top 4 tips to help your neurodivergent student hit the ground running this year!
Encourage your student to send an email introducing themselves to their teachers. This is a great way for students to share their learning disability, accommodations and why they need those accommodations. Thank the teacher for reading the email.
Find an organization system that your students want to engage in. Don’t impose your own organization style on your student (and don’t write their name in marker all over every folder!)
Create a plan for grade checks. Once a week seems to be the right cadence. Choose a set time such as Wednesday afternoons or Thursday evenings to check grades together.
Every student has to maintain some type of a calendar. How they do it needs to be up to them. The student should maintain their own calendar and consult with the parent, rather than vice versa.
Academic coaching can help your student become a better learner, a more efficient student and generally happier kid.
Studying now is different than it was for parents. Google classroom, technology tools and AI have all dramatically changed the skills you need to study effectively.
Reach out to get started with academic coaching? Email us at [email protected].
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Tip of the Day: Take a walk around a college campus this fall — no matter what age your kid is. Just drive to the closest campus, grab a cup of coffee and take a stroll.
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College Spotlight: California Polytechnic University
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Key points in this episode
2:12 Meet Lisa Delfino, The College Spy’s academic coach for students with disabilities
4:18 Four strategies to help your student succeed this semester
14:57 Why every student needs to maintain their calendar
18:00 College changes
22:21 How the right schedule can make all the difference
24:15 All about academic coaching
31:52 The College Spy’s Tip of the Day
33:00 College Spotlight
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Read the podcast transcript: https://thecollegespy.com/podcast
Learn more about academic coaching with Lisa Delfino for high school students:
https://thecollegespy.com/academic-coaching-package-high-school
Learn more about academic coaching with Lisa Delfino for college students:
https://thecollegespy.com/academic-coaching-package-college
Learn more about The College Spy and the admissions advisory services offered by Michelle, Lisa and the College Spy team -- Go to The College Spy Website
Contact Michelle McAnaney at [email protected]
Sep 20, 2024
37 min

Today, we widen our lens to help students connect their education and career success. We’re talking with Sonia Cacique of DiscoverU, College and Career Ready Coaching. Sonia is a student advocate and career coach expert that is challenging the status quo of college and career readiness by bridging the gap between education, careers and the current workforce. Her goal is to help students create career connections early in their education journey. She helps students with character development, identity, self-advocacy, career connections and networking skills among other soft skills.
We dive into how to prepare your student to make the most of any college they attend. We also talk about the importance of connections for career exploration and why students’ should prioritize getting a real life ‘behind the scenes’ look at their careers of interest to gauge if it’s a good fit. We wrap up with conversations about defining success between generations and how parents can truly listen to what their kids are saying.
Tip of the Day: Follow the college’s official social media accounts as well as student group accounts (like the marching band or student organizations). By following lots of accounts about a particular college, you’ll get a lot of information.
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College Spotlight: The College of William & Mary - the second oldest college in the US!
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Key Points in this Episode
2:59 Meet Sonia Cacique
6:04 Why career assessments aren’t a easy button
8:33 Coaching parents to be connectors for their kids
12:01 Sharing with students that they have something special to offer
13:29 Connections and why they matter so much
15:10 Why 30% of college students don’t complete their degree
17:27 Why Gen X parents are advocating for their Gen Z kids
19:38 Defining success if different seasons of life
21:15 “The Not Your Mom” phenomenon and tips for parents to connect with kids
22:40 Sonia’s latest course to be college and career ready
27:53 Tip of the Day
28:38 College Spotlight:The College of William & Mary
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Read the podcast transcript: https://thecollegespy.com/podcast
Learn more about Sonia Cacique: https://collegecareerready.org/
Get in touch with Sonia Cacique: [email protected]
Listen to the “Not Your Mom” podcast episode: Episode 16
Register for The College Spy Bootcamp: https://thecollegespy.com/coursesandcamps/the-college-spy-boot-camp
Learn more about The College Spy and the admissions advisory services offered by Michelle and her team -- Go to The College Spy Website
Contact Michelle McAnaney at [email protected]
Jul 11, 2024
36 min

The college admissions process is synonymous with stress & anxiety these days. How can parents go against the grain to actually enjoy this process with their students?
Join us for a conversation with Lisa Rouff, Ph.D, from School Match 4 U and co-host of Your College Bound Kid about her experiences as a clinical psychologist and independent educational consultant. Lisa works with all types of students and parents and shares her real world tips to reduce stress around college admissions with a deep understanding of the pressure parents feel to keep up socially and make smart financial decisions. Michelle and Lisa discuss hidden gem universities and the benefits of focusing on the process instead of only the outcome.
Tip of the Day: Visit colleges. You and your child will be able to determine criteria for the college search and gain confidence in the process as you find the best fit college for your student based on their interests and personalities, not a list of rankings.
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College Spotlight: Binghamton University in NY
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Key Points in this Episode
2:29 Meet Lisa Rouff
7:46 How can parents lower their stress levels- knowledge is power!
8:12 Why rankings are meaningless
9:30 Why hidden gems colleges are so special
11:13 Favorite resources - The FISKE Guide
12:50 LinkedIn as a tool to research colleges
17:30 Handling rejections with a disaster plan
19:54 MIchelle reflects on not getting into her dream school of Cornell
25:30 Opting out of the highly competitive side of the process
28:53 The College Spy’s Tip of the Day
30:07 College Spotlight: Binghamton
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Read the podcast transcript: link after posted on website
Learn more about Lisa Rouff: www.schoolmatch4u.com & https://www.highlandsco.com/consultants/lisa-rouff-phd/
Watch PBS’ Dream School: https://www.pbs.org/show/dream-school-a-journey-to-higher-ed/
Order the FISKE Guide to Colleges - https://www.amazon.com/Fiske-Guide-Colleges-2024-Edward/dp/1728271835
Start a LinkedIn profile: https://www.linkedin.com/
Talking College Campus Visits Card Deck: https://talkingcollege.com/products/talking-college-campus-visits
Register for The College Spy Bootcamp: https://thecollegespy.com/coursesandcamps/the-college-spy-boot-camp
Learn more about The College Spy and the admissions advisory services offered by Michelle and her team -- Go to The College Spy Website
Contact Michelle McAnaney at [email protected]
Jun 26, 2024
36 min
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