This week from the friendly confines of the couch, I take a look at the penultimate episode of Season 4 of #InsecureHBO.  I look at what you should be doing to work to resolve an argument with a friend. I look at the major don't.  And I dispel the myth of ultimatums being an effective tool for resolving conflict.  I look at how ultimatums can be destructive to your relationship and how a terribly laid ultimatum nearly ended Molly and Issa's friendship. Articles used in this episode:https://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-mend-a-broken-friendship-even-if-youre-not-on-speaking-terms/https://www-psychologytoday-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fixing-families/201806/after-argument-the-right-way-make?amp=&usqp=mq331AQFKAGwASA%3D&_js_v=0.1#aoh=15928458508939&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&_tf=From%20%251%24s&share=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.psychologytoday.com%2Fus%2Fblog%2Ffixing-families%2F201806%2Fafter-argument-the-right-way-makehttps://psychcentral.com/blog/why-ultimatums-are-actually-destructive-to-your-relationship/How to find the podcast: Currently on iTunes, Spotify, Google Podcast, iHeartRadio, Breaker, Stitcher, Overcast, PocketCasts, Podcasts in Color, and RadioPublic.     Follow me on social media: @captainscouch and @capt_ingenuity on Twitter,  @capt_ingenuity and @thecaptainscouch on IG, and The Captain’s Couch page on FB.   Leave 5 star reviews on iTunes and Stitcher.  You can contact the podcast with feedback @ [email protected].  You can also leave feedback by using the hashtag #thecaptainscouch on IG, FB, and Twitter. Use the hashtag #podin if you’re tweeting about the show as well.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/byron-taylor/support