The Betchelor
The Betchelor
Betches Media
The Betchelor is a Bachelor recap podcast hosted by Kay Brown and Jared Freid of Betches Media. This weekly podcast follows the latest episodes and makes fun of all the ridiculous things the contestants say and do – because honestly, why else watch the show if not for the commentary? For more info check out weekly recaps at or follow our Instagram, @thebetchelor.
Joey Wants A WOMAN (Joey's Season Ep 6)
We're in the thick of it, and emotions are starting to heighten. Jared and Kay talk about Nick Viall's "hot take" and the drama surrounding Kaitlyn Bristowe. The gang goes to Montreal and things feel strained, Joey is stressin, and Lexi self-eliminates. Kay says who her fave is so far, and Jared explains what men mean when they say "I don't want someone who takes themselves too seriously" (I'm taking notes). Follow for more @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Feb 20
1 hr 6 min
The Maria Effect (Joey's Season Ep 4-5)
On today's recap of the latest Bachelor episodes, Kay and Jared this week’s double whammy of mayhem in Malta. If there’s one thing we know, it’s that “Maria is gonna be Maria,” and Sydney is making her final stand. The girls love Joey, and Joey seems to truly love them back. But can he handle one more trauma dump? Follow for more @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Feb 14
1 hr 17 min
The Tortured Girlfriends Department (Joey's Season Ep 3)
On today's recap of the latest Bachelor episode, Kay and Jared get right into the Sydney of it all, and can't decide what the first red flag should have been, the finger tats, her owning a vintage shop, or a combination of both. Then Kay breaks the news that all might not be right in the world of ASKN, and I will need you to respect my privacy at this time. They can't tell who Joey likes the most because kind of acts like he likes everyone, and I think we can all agree that "wanna touch it" deserves the Cringe Harrison Award. Follow for more @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Feb 6
1 hr 5 min
We Are So Back (Joey's Season Ep 2)
We're settling into the mansion and this season is taking us back in time to the early 2000's. I guess when you have a Bachelor people are actually into, the girls will make it clear they are not here to make friends. Jared and Kay recap the second week of Joey's season, and bring up important questions like why the hell is Demi here? Daisy gets the one-on-one and opens up to Joey about her cochlear implant, and they name their villains of the week. Follow for more @thebetchelor on IG!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Jan 29
1 hr 10 min
Messy Reality TV Is Back! (Joey's Season Premiere)
Joey's season is finally here, and shady Bachelor contestants are back! Jared and Kay dive right in, and recognize this season will be one for the books. The girls are not here to make friends, and we all breath a sigh of relief when we see the producers amping things up a bit with a secret letter. We meet all the girls, some fake orgasms, some come from Christmas Tree farms, and others have had 32 glasses of wine. Kay and Jared talk name their villain of the week, and who they'd like to see on paradise. Follow for more @thebetchelor on IG! Check out our latest promo codes here: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Jan 23
1 hr 19 min
The One Where We All Fall In Love w/ Joey Graziadei
Kay is joined by America's Bachelor, Joey Graziadei. They get into it all on this episode of The Betchelor. Ever wonder what are Joey's red and green flags when he is dating (I'm taking notes), well he tell us everything. He also says what celeb he would want on as a contestant and how he didn't get ANY texts or calls while he was away filming his season, literally zero. Follow @thebetchelor on IG for more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Jan 18
18 min
Joey’s Cast Preview
With the season premiere less than a week away, Jared and Kay are back for another cast preview. This time around they’re combing through all 32 bios for Joey Graziadei’s upcoming Bachelor cast. Follow along as they predict which women will make it far, which ones will bring the drama, and who’s destined to make a lasting impression. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Jan 17
1 hr 18 min
Bach Nation Drama + The Golden Wedding
Jared and Kay are back from their holiday break, and it seems there’s a ton to catch up on. Not a single couple from Bachelor in Paradise are still together, Kaitlyn Bristowe went off on IG and Bryan Abasolo serving Rachel Lindsay with divorce papers. Whew. Then of course they break down the Golden Wedding and guys, it was kind of cute. Follow @thebetchelor on IG for more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Jan 9
50 min
2023 Betchelor Awards
2023 has taken us on such a journey over here in Bachelor Nation, it’s been the year of break-ups and breakdowns. So let’s reminisce and give out our final roses. Kay and Jared talk about the post Bachelor in Paradise break-ups, no one is safe from the 2023 break-up curse. They give out their awards from nightmare fuel to America's next Golden Bachelorette (with a fun rant from Jared, of course), and they remind us what TF happened this year. Cheers to you Betchelor nation! Follow for more on Instagram at @thebetchelor. Check out our latest promo codes here: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Dec 14, 2023
1 hr 23 min
Three Hours of Cringe (BiP Season 9 Ep. 10)
A long winded final episode of the Bachelor in Paradise leaves Jared and Kay wondering-​​do they hate us? In this episode, Kay and Jared recap the end of Season 10 as only two couples end up engaged. They go over why they’re so frustrated with John Henry and Kat and why they thought the montage was a literal joke. Later, Jared and Kay guess who the next IG rising star is and reveal their Villain of the Week. Make sure to follow @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Dec 8, 2023
1 hr 1 min
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