The Backup Plan
The Backup Plan
Meredith Kate
Thousands of women joke about getting knocked up by their gay best friend when they get fed up with dating. Follow my decision to ACTUALLY do it: learning about the single mother by choice community, failed DIY attempts, to choosing IVF. 
Goodbye Podcast, Hello YouTube
I’m wrapping up The Backup Plan as a podcast and moving the project fully to YouTube. As a single mom by choice, raising my child through IVF with my gay best friend’s sperm and living multi-generationally with my mom, I’ll be sharing the next chapter of this journey in video form. 👉 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@backupplanpod 👉 Access the podcast archive: https://www.patreon.com/cw/backupplanpod For those who don’t know me yet: I’m a single mother by choice. I went through IVF u...
Sep 11, 2025
8 min